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So this girl i kinda crazy about , not your typical woman.
She likes Anime,Gaming,fantasy certified nerd lady!
Was kinda refreshing talking about issues i actually interested in with a woman .
We met at the forbidden realms of WoW , moved to long late night calls, and some good dates (though if i would be frank mostly day timed) .
Its amazing how your mind refuse to recognize something when your heart don't want to believe it.
So last week, she cant find time to meet , there is lots of work studies raiding.
Then she offer Saturday morning after work , I cancel my planes and we meet at my place . watch silly TV shows cuddled together on the couch .
*enter thunder and lightning and dramatic music here*
And then she move to my computer and start playing DA2 ,
8 hours later i drive her home and get friendly kiss on my lips (after two more of those during her stay at my place)
It's not that she totally ignores me but even thick skull me can understand the romantic interest
is not there .
Sunday morning she sms asking me If i am okay , and we talk about the usual stuff.
Am i okay ?
No not really , I totally hate being the nice guy and being the non romantic friend.
I don't hate her , and i still think she is a cool person to be around with .
But i just don't want to ... I really don't want to hang up with someone who see me as a friend
while i have more then that toward her .
I can handle talking and chatting but hanging out I think is just painful , even after i accept the truth.
Guess i would loose a friend , I still don't want to admit it i would hate it , but thats life for you.
Okay time to put some time and make it to platinum league .
Rest i will handle after.
Thanks for reading,
Haflo
 
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The problem here is : not enough SC.
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Say something! If you want to be more, you gotta roll the dice and go for it.
also, agree with DwmC. More Starcraft is needed.
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On August 04 2011 18:43 krndandaman wrote:
She realized you weren't playing enough starcraft. A woman wants a man who has his priorities sorted out. Starcraft > Woman, not Woman > Starcraft
hehe
Bros before drones?
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Last I checked "just frends" don't kiss.
Be straightforward.
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On August 04 2011 18:52 Hassybaby wrote:Show nested quote +On August 04 2011 18:43 krndandaman wrote:
She realized you weren't playing enough starcraft. A woman wants a man who has his priorities sorted out. Starcraft > Woman, not Woman > Starcraft
hehe Bros before drones?
Bros before Pros before Hoes
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On August 04 2011 19:07 Roe wrote:Show nested quote +On August 04 2011 18:52 Hassybaby wrote:On August 04 2011 18:43 krndandaman wrote:
She realized you weren't playing enough starcraft. A woman wants a man who has his priorities sorted out. Starcraft > Woman, not Woman > Starcraft
hehe Bros before drones? Bros before Pros before Hoes
I want that on a shirt
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she kissed you on the lips, you had her alone at your place. I don't know where you're from, but here in America girls don't kiss people on the lips that they don't like. It is your duty as a man to escalate things, never hers.
in my opinion, if you haven't made a move yet, she probably thinks you're gay.
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she probably thinks you're a thick skull...
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I love the memes that are starting in this thread. 
But your two mistakes, from what you listed, were this:
1) don't cancel your own plans, she has to meet your schedule not the other way around.
2) she was subconsciously testing you, and you failed badly, by letting her play on your computer for 8 hours while you sat there like a chump.
Main thing is: don't let a girl control your schedule, especially if she's been cancelling/late all the time. And don't let her walk all over you. If she's there to *see* you, sitting at your computer is not *seeing* you.
And, more SC2.
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On August 04 2011 18:22 DwmC_Foefen wrote:
The problem here is : not enough SC.
On August 04 2011 18:43 krndandaman wrote:
She realized you weren't playing enough starcraft. A woman wants a man who has his priorities sorted out. Starcraft > Woman, not Woman > Starcraft
hehe
On August 04 2011 18:54 VonLego wrote:
Last I checked "just frends" don't kiss.
Be straightforward.
On August 04 2011 19:07 Roe wrote:
Bros before Pros before Hoes
On August 04 2011 19:31 nitdkim wrote:
she probably thinks you're a thick skull...
Is it just me or are the TL comments to girl blogs getting better and better?
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She kissed you on the lips, I think you're in mate.
Tell her how you feel, better to take the chance than to sit there not in platinum league.
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On August 04 2011 18:16 haflo wrote:
Okay time to put some time and make it to platinum league .
This is the problem. Platinum guys never know when they can push and make decent damage.
You need coaching. I suggest rainbow.
Just go for it, dude... She's not kissing you because you are a nice guy.
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Tell her your boxer's brother
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I don't know anyone who kisses friendly on the lips except for maybe very close family (father/mother > daughter/son). From what I can read she is definitely interested in you. Show some interest back and things should be ok!
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She's interested in you, so talk to her normally and keep doing your thing.
By no means try to over-compensate and become clingy now.
Now my question is:
Even if she likes you--why are you interested in a girl that can spend 8 hours straight playing a (is it computer?) game when she's at someone else's place?
Unless you were sitting next to her the entire time talking to her, this just seems that she's short of being a ludopath (in my humble opinion).
I'd say you can do better, but alas it's your call. You shouldn't have any issues dating her or whatever it is you want from that uhhh relationship of yours.
Edit:
I like: "probes/drones before hoes".
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she require additional pylons! I'm sure you will be ok!
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Ugh 8 hours together in the privacy and comfort of your place and you still haven't popped open your box of raincoats. Ok something is seriously wrong here. How is there no romantic interest? I find it hard to comprehend. Invite her over again, load up some romantic movies on your rig and just let your hormones guide you.
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u get kissed and you aren't happy? Yes you have thick skull bro, so you guys just gonna remain friends that kiss on the lips? I've got a few of those yea. In all honesty, she likes you bro, just seize it, it won't fuck up.
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If you want her, go for it. If not just hang out.
Stop being a modern human being and follow your primal instincts.
Disclaimer: Do not force yourself on her. That is crime.
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Should've grabbed her when she gave you that kiss and shoved your tongue down her throat.
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You gotta start not giving a shit, and just play SC all the time. Take the example of the gamers in that Moscow stripper counterstrike experiment, if you're in the game, you're in the game. Even if she's next to you begging for it, you don't leave the game, you tell her to stop bumping your arm.
And if she kind of just... dumps you, well... more time to play SC
AAAWW YEEEAAAAHH!!!
It's a complete win-win, she loses a terrible boyfriend who doesn't give a shit and you get more play time. <(^_^)=b
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On August 04 2011 18:16 haflo wrote:
8 hours later i drive her home and get friendly kiss on my lips (after two more of those during her stay at my place)
This girl is asking to get boned.
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Now you know what it is like to be a girl and be ignored by your man while he plays video games.
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>she kissed you on the lips
Make a move within 3 days (arbitrary duration here)..... tell her you see her more a friend. Talking about your common interests or being the funniest nicest person in the world, ain't gonna get the girl, story of my life.
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DA2 was horrible.
Also, kiss on lips =/= just friends.
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'tis really silly of you just giving up like that. just have patience. stop feeling sorry for yourself. when you chat, drop compliments, tell her you really enjoy spending time with her, bring on the mojo, man. i'm sure you're perfectly capable of successfully dropping her main, if you catch my drift...
do your best, chill the fuck out and never give up, never surrender.
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As everybody says, what is this "friendly" kiss on the lips you're talking about, I've never heard about it outside family ( and ppl around here are preeeetty... ehm... kiss-orientated? ) And not once, but 3 times.... I would've asked if you're ok too...
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What.
She's probably wondering to herself right now why after 8 hours of alone time at your place, several kisses, and plenty of cuddles, you never made a move?
What were you waiting for? lol
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Kiss on lips -> ling runby. You should have played more starcraft.
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If I took a girl home to my place for 8 hours and she kissed me, I would make sure that there would be a lot more than only two, and that they would all involve some tongue. Preferrably whilst laying down, as well. I don't see why you didn't go for this, yourself. If I liked the girl, I would have been all over her for getting a kiss like that.
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Responses in this thread are hilarious.
Don't worry too much, man. Think of it like you get 4gated and barely defend it. What you should do in that position is expand then go for a 2 base timing attack.  ie. try again with more confidence
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She went 2hatch muta but her micro doesn't seem so good, you just need to defend until you have irradiate. Then push out and win. EZ.
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Invite her over, kiss her, take off her clothes and put your penis in her vagina. Stop thinking so much and just do it.
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On August 04 2011 18:39 Hassybaby wrote:
Say something! If you want to be more, you gotta roll the dice and go for it.
Pretty much, worked for me just recently. Go for it, and I'm a hopeless romantic bro.
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On August 04 2011 18:16 haflo wrote:
8 hours later i drive her home and get friendly kiss on my lips (after two more of those during her stay at my place)
Your typical girl bloggers can't even get this far.
I don't like reading into body language, or trying to guess what someone means through a specific action, but usually there isn't kissing involved. And she didn't just do it once, but three times. If she's not interested then she has a real funny way of showing it. Three choices:
1). Go for it - Make a romantic move. You could ask her out, do something awesomely nerdy together (I dated a nerd girl once, dates got pretty creative!), spill any romantic feelings you may harbor, or if she gives you one of those friendly kisses and backs away grab her hand as she's backing off and give her a "real" kiss!
2). Don't do anything - This will probably drive you crazy, especially if you're madly in love with her. This option features both of you trying to be friends despite the proverbial elephant in the room. It's usually a recipe for disaster.
3). Stop hanging out - You can decide she's not worth it and cut off all communication, or you go for it and it doesn't work out. Either way, as you said, you "lost a friend". Actually, whenever there is romantic interest the friend is already lost because they're not just a friend to you anymore.
TL;DR - If you want something to happen then make it happen. If you'd prefer to decipher little meanings behind every action then you're in for a long and disappointing journey. Save yourself the trouble!
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I posted here just in need to vent some shit.
After reading the responds , i must say i <3 TL .
Cheers guys.
p.s brilliant sc2 dating references ^^ .
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Be a boss.
She cuddled you, kissed you.
Your cock is like the car stopped at a traffic light that is blinking green
Hit the gas and tap that ass
And don't ever compromise yourself. Show her who the man is. Be a boss.
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On August 04 2011 23:39 HackBenjamin wrote:
Your cock is like the car stopped at a traffic light that is blinking green
Hit the gas and tap that ass
Amazing.
Listen to this man.
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On August 04 2011 23:40 bonifaceviii wrote:Show nested quote +On August 04 2011 23:39 HackBenjamin wrote:
Your cock is like the car stopped at a traffic light that is blinking green
Hit the gas and tap that ass Amazing. Listen to this man.
rear end that thing
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On August 04 2011 23:39 HackBenjamin wrote:
Be a boss.
She cuddled you, kissed you.
Your cock is like the car stopped at a traffic light that is blinking green
Hit the gas and tap that ass
And don't ever compromise yourself. Show her who the man is. Be a boss.
Out of all the analogies in this thread I approve of this one the most.
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I believe Day[9]'s philosophy is actually really good here. If you have no idea whether you should be aggressive, just BE AGGRESSIVE. If it works, then you just won! If it doesn't work? Well, now you know one timing that doesn't work. :D
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On August 04 2011 23:28 haflo wrote:
I posted here just in need to vent some shit.
After reading the responds , i must say i <3 TL .
Cheers guys.
p.s brilliant sc2 dating references ^^ .
Most were just Star Craft as they were used before SC2 even came out
Also, what are you doing next? Please, we must know =3
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On August 04 2011 22:49 KoveN- wrote:
Invite her over, kiss her, take off her clothes and put your penis in her vagina. Stop thinking so much and just do it.
There is a word for this you know.
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these girl blogs are getting ridiculous
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This one was cute because its one of the rare ones where success is a high possibility. Its really depressing reading about major failure with the opposite sex all the time.
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On August 05 2011 00:51 SarR wrote:
This one was cute because its one of the rare ones where success is a high possibility. Its really depressing reading about major failure with the opposite sex all the time.
Yet it looks like he has no drive to a ct on it.
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Ya, a problem so many others here also have. Part of being a man is knowing: High risk = high reward.
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On August 05 2011 05:33 Kentor wrote:
Get some balls.
and some pussy.
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Cannot believe that i took a dating advice from a SC community ,
Cannot believe it was the best advice i was given .
Apparently not over-thinking and having a spine is a nice thing to have when trying a relationship.
The sad thing is with 5 games over the past week i will be staying gold for a while ,
but thats life.
Thanks TL .
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So i guess it was a GREAT SUCCESS?!?!?
The advice is pretty stock standard anyway =p but some people just don't realise how obvious it actually is.
On August 04 2011 23:39 HackBenjamin wrote:
Hit the gas and tap that ass
Best Advice.
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On August 04 2011 23:43 GigaFlop wrote:Show nested quote +On August 04 2011 23:40 bonifaceviii wrote:On August 04 2011 23:39 HackBenjamin wrote:
Your cock is like the car stopped at a traffic light that is blinking green
Hit the gas and tap that ass Amazing. Listen to this man. rear end that thing
In the rear with the gear.
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Dragon age 2 is such a shitty game man -_-, if she actually enjoys playing that i would break up, after the 2nd run of the game i literally started crying thinking of how they ruined a FUCKING GREAT series on the 3rd game released... i could have played Dragon age 1 for damn days i completed it like 20 times just to make sure i don't miss anything DAMN that was a fucking great game... oh nvm it was a girl blog
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On August 15 2011 17:00 haflo wrote:
Cannot believe that i took a dating advice from a SC community ,
Cannot believe it was the best advice i was given .
Apparently not over-thinking and having a spine is a nice thing to have when trying a relationship.
The sad thing is with 5 games over the past week i will be staying gold for a while ,
but thats life.
Thanks TL .
Dammit dude, what happened to the laddering?!?!?!
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Grats on your success!
You should update the OP and PM an admin to change your thread title (is that possible?) so that people can learn from your success and acknowledge TL blogs as legit girl advice section.
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On August 15 2011 17:00 haflo wrote:
Cannot believe that i took a dating advice from a SC community ,
Cannot believe it was the best advice i was given .
Apparently not over-thinking and having a spine is a nice thing to have when trying a relationship.
The sad thing is with 5 games over the past week i will be staying gold for a while ,
but thats life.
Thanks TL .
Need more details.
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If you don't want to just be friends anyway then what do you even have to lose by going for it?
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Been a while since I've seen this blog. Updates needed....did you guys bone yet ?
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On August 04 2011 20:58 zocktol wrote:
Disclaimer: Do not force yourself on her. That is crime.
AHAHAHAHAHA. The comment of the night
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On August 04 2011 21:07 ch33psh33p wrote:
Should've grabbed her when she gave you that kiss and shoved your tongue down her throat.
Problem solved.
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A great man once said, if you in a tvt, and your in a position when you have to eitehr rush a siege line or pull back, you either rush the siege tanks or pull back. to delay is doom.
Go for it, or become okay with being friends. just choose and your good
good luck man.
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