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ondik
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Czech Republic2908 Posts
July 05 2011 01:23 GMT
#1
..I met a girl (yes, if someone told me week ago I'd be writing a girl blog, I would laugh as I think I'm too old for this). She was visiting "my city" with her best uni friend - my ex highschool friend. Few hours after we met she started flirting with me, I joined and we made out at a friend's house where we were invited to a party. Next day, she went back home to Prague. At that time I was studying there, "my city" is on the other side of our country though. We were texting for a week, went to a club in Prague together with my ex highshool friend which ended up being sort of a date. Later that night we headed to my place and I had the biggest sex fail in my life (that's for another topic - but even though people are confessing the worst things here, I guess this is the only topic noone in TL will create ). We dated for a while, but it wasn't good and it seemed like we both wanted to get out of that relationship. I wasn't ready for it, loved my freedom and from the very beginning it was more like a challenge to me. We broke up and it wasn't in the nicest way possible. Despite what I wrote earlier, I developed feelings for her and the breakup wasn't the easiest for me. We spoke only once since then few months later.


Well, guess what. Three years later, she comes to visit my city with my ex highschool friend again. I don't know what to expect, I don't know if I even meet her, I don't know if I want to. We go to a pub with bunch of friends and I know I'm nervous for sure. I see her, she's looking prettier than three years ago, but that's all, I'm not thinking about making a move or anything. We say hello to each other, I drink and talk with my friends, the pub closes and we agree to go to a different place. It's been 6 hours and we didn't speak at all, I still don't know if she's angry at me, if she doesn't care or if she's glad to see me. The way we broke up I suppose the first.

In the next pub, being quite drunk, we finally talk a little and I find out she's studying economy at the same school and faculty I do (she left the school she was attending with my highshool friend afer the first year), she loves poker (and apparently is good at it) and table football, needless to say I love all these things too. We play table football together against our friends and I feel like she's flirting with me gently. I'm slowly getting crazy about her (you know what being drunk does to people). I just can't take it anymore, go to her and kiss her out of nowhere like a fucking boss.

Or so I thought. Turns out I pulled HuK in his 4th game against Moon at DH finals. She told me later she was in no way trying to flirt with me (drunk+overly observant+wishful thinking I guess) and was very surprised. Nevertheless, it worked and at the end of the night we were making out once again.

Next day we are all supposed to go clubbing. I wonder what she thinks about last night and am nervous again. We go to a concert beforehand and I don't say a single word for the first hour. At the end we kiss and I know it's going good direction. We go clubbing, and at 4 a.m. I take her to my house. We have sex, and then the weirdest thing happens. I'm actually enjoying her presence. Yea, I know it sounds stupid but I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. Sometimes (most of the times for me) after sex you just wish the girl or you could just leave so the forced cuddling and all the other things you're supposed to do would be over with. Well I feel the complete opposite and I can clearly see she feels the same.

Next morning we try to talk about it but find out we are both equally terrible at describing our emotions to each other. We are both cynical egoists so this is something we don't do every day. We actually find out we are similar in so many things. The situation is just completely different to what it was three years ago. And this is where it gets sad.

She has to leave in the afternoon and go back to Prague. The quesion is what next. I know I never met a girl even close to this one with regards to having the same personality I do. On top of this, she's beautiful, from good family and has the most perfect pair of ... I've ever seen. I have no idea if/when I can find another girl with such qualities. In two months I will hopefully have finished my bachelor studies in Prague and I wanted to go study somewhere else for masters degree. I also didn't plan to go to Prague during those two months. I know she's not the kind of person for long distance relationship, neither am I. I'd probably also get drowned in jealousy if I didn't see her for few months because I can't say I fully trust her in this aspect. On the other hand, I'm attracted to her so much and I know for sure she's feeling the same so it seems like a lost chance of a lifetime.

No matter what we do, it's loss-loss situation. We are texting a lot about our feelings, but how long can it last without real contact? The best solution would be to end it right now because there's just too many obstacles we'd have to overcome. But I don't want to wait another three years to be with her again.

Why is it so hard to let it go?

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AngryFarmer
Profile Joined June 2011
United States560 Posts
July 05 2011 02:13 GMT
#2
Well if it's a lose lose situation, do whatever you can to minimize the loss. I'd suggest breaking up now before the relationship gets sour and shit starts happening.
ieatkids5
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
United States4628 Posts
July 05 2011 02:31 GMT
#3
most perfect pair of eyes you've ever seen?

i'm in a long distance relationship. it's going really well. i found a girl who loves me for who i am despite my physical condition, and it's really really rare for someone as pretty as her to have such a good heart and like me for who i am. that's why i pursued the long distance relationship despite her objections at first, but she eventually came to realize that she wants to be with me, and is willing to go through the hardships of an LDR to be with me. hard work pays off.

if you really think she is the one for you, try it. if you think there are others out there who are compatible with you, are who you want your partner to be, then maybe end it now and save yourself the pain.
ZeromuS
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Canada13389 Posts
July 05 2011 02:50 GMT
#4
Give it a go who knows it might turn into a nice story for the grandkids if it ever works out With things like skype and video calls long distance relationships have never been easier. Plus since youve been to prague a few times it cant be too bad to visit once in a while until school starts again (since you two go to the same school after all )
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ludic123
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Norway161 Posts
July 05 2011 03:22 GMT
#5
well, if this kind of thing doesn't happen too often, i'd say give it a go. You know you want to.
Suc
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Australia1569 Posts
July 05 2011 03:24 GMT
#6
On July 05 2011 11:31 ieatkids5 wrote:
most perfect pair of eyes you've ever seen?

Ears, bro. Get your mind out of the gutter.
munchmunch
Profile Joined October 2010
Canada789 Posts
July 05 2011 04:23 GMT
#7
On July 05 2011 11:50 ZeromuS wrote:
Give it a go who knows it might turn into a nice story for the grandkids if it ever works out With things like skype and video calls long distance relationships have never been easier. Plus since youve been to prague a few times it cant be too bad to visit once in a while until school starts again (since you two go to the same school after all )

Long distance relationships suck. Skype just makes things worse... not being able to touch, just seeing them in a grainy little video window. I've been there, and it is horrible. If you are going into a long-distance relationship, at least make sure that it is an open relationship.
Servius_Fulvius
Profile Joined August 2009
United States947 Posts
July 05 2011 05:17 GMT
#8
On July 05 2011 11:31 ieatkids5 wrote:
i'm in a long distance relationship. it's going really well. i found a girl who loves me for who i am despite my physical condition, and it's really really rare for someone as pretty as her to have such a good heart and like me for who i am. that's why i pursued the long distance relationship despite her objections at first, but she eventually came to realize that she wants to be with me, and is willing to go through the hardships of an LDR to be with me. hard work pays off.


Both of my serious relationships ended due to complications with long distance. I'm happy to hear that there's at least SOMEONE out there who can pull it off! Distance sucks - there's no two ways about it. I've found that they only ever work if both parties are 100% committed and fight human nature to move on or accept someone else's pass. It takes a great woman to pull that off and I think you might have caught yourself one. Hold on to her

From the way you describe her, OP, it sounds like she's someone worth holding on to as well. If you feel that strongly is there any harm in giving it a go? I mean, if she's THIS good for you may as well see if it goes anywhere. Chances are it won't work out, but what would happen if it did?
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