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ShoCkeyy
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AbstractVoid
United States127 Posts
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Roe
Canada6002 Posts
the singer looks a lot like day9. which one is your gf? It sounds like you're on top of this though. Ultimately you don't want to be with your gf anymore and it may be best to get out of entanglements, especially ones involving business and pleasure. Some Polonius comes to mind: Neither a borrower nor a lender be, For loan oft loses both itself and friend, And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry. i'll be back later parents are fighting | ||
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Ganjamaster
Argentina475 Posts
Firstly, your current girlfriend. You have a couple of options right here, but as you state you definitely want to leave her then you have 2 options: 1) Leave her 2) Don't leave her and just act as if you had left her. Eventually she will get the message, some conflict will ensue, tell her you can't be bothered and just peace. Bam, problem solved. Once you leave her, you are free to work on your boss, be with her or take her in on the side, whatever suits your style atm. With regards to the job, always remember, "Disregard females, acquire currency". Everyone I know who has turned down a job offer/more money for a female has regretted it. If it advances your career significantly or gives you significantly more money, you should definitely take the job. BTW: I forgot, roll a fat blunt and go to the pool bar at the Delano, great spot to pick up chicks imo. | ||
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HeyitsClay
Canada336 Posts
then do whats best for urself, if u would take these job offer if it wasnt for ur ex boss., the do it #1 life rule is dont let anyone else alter your choices in life, specially girls and love. Only use love and girls to enhance your path that you have already chosen on your own | ||
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eXigent.
Canada2419 Posts
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Snuggles
United States1865 Posts
If you're falling out of love then you should leave her. Like the others have said, don't let you love life affect your life too much, end it before it gets out of hand. | ||
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MrBitter
United States2940 Posts
If you want to break up with your girlfriend, then man up and do it. Leading her on isn't good for either of you. | ||
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LEEKsc
Sweden380 Posts
I know these kinda things aren't easy, but it's probably to your own gain to take some time and figure out what you want to do in the close future, and then like someone said, "man up" and do it! Best of luck! | ||
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ZERG_RUSSIAN
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Moldwood
United States280 Posts
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Enervate
United States1769 Posts
Edit: ex-boss I mean | ||
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zobz
Canada2175 Posts
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a176
Canada6688 Posts
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Torenhire
United States11681 Posts
I was dating a girl, she and I also had our issues, and for like, a month I was just antagonizing myself because I didn't love her but I did. Crazy mind-fucking it is, being in that spot. You can tell yourself over and over again that being with the girl is totally depressing the fuck out of you, but you can't bring yourself to hurt her. At least that's what it was for me. What made it worse was that I met another girl who I ended up getting really close with, and I was like. Fuck I'd ask her out but she knows I have a girlfriend and she won't do anything with me until I'm over her and ARGH. Talking to her about it and finally breaking up was like...the biggest fucking relief ever. I know people are always talking out their ass when they are like "it feels like a weight is lifted off my shoulders!" but man I felt like I could be happy again, instead of stuck in a failing relationship. My advice: Just do it. The sooner you get it over with, the sooner it will stop bothering you. Just tell her things aren't working out, and be honest - you don't have to tell her about your boss or anything like that, unless you really feel like it. | ||
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Vlare
748 Posts
I hope everything works out for the best mate  gl | ||
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ShoCkeyy
7815 Posts
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Torenhire
United States11681 Posts
All you're doing right now is stagnating yourself, let yourself move forward and in the long run you'll be better off. | ||
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