EPTAnother girl problem blogpost - Page 2
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Saikyun
Sweden20 Posts
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Duka08
3391 Posts
If she holds that against you that's really harsh and could lead to problems down the road anyway (IMO). But if it's obvious that you didn't KNOW she was interested (and actually thought she wasn't) and you were just meeting other people naturally so to speak and living your life, she can't really blame you and you two could get something going. Edit: ...try to patch things together with the first girl, by telling her that you did like her all along, and that you misunderstood her actions This quote is pretty much worded perfectly for what I was trying to get across | ||
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NukeTheStars
United States277 Posts
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emperorchampion
Canada9496 Posts
The morning after she seems really sad because she realized what she had done, and even though she was really in love with me she didn't wanna pursue the relationship. Which makes me feel terrible. Wait, she straight up told you she didn't wan't to pursue the relationship, or is this something you are inferring? Also, where is your relationship at right now? | ||
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JMave
Singapore1806 Posts
for me, i always treat the subject with girls with a heart prepared to move on because that's usually almost always the case. | ||
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McKTenor13
United States1383 Posts
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Bronyaur
United States20 Posts
And pretend you just ask bluntly, and they tell you they are interested, but still proceed to exhibit non-interested behavior. Why??  | ||
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RedJustice
United States1004 Posts
As for girl 1, if you are having confused feelings, don't pursue anything with her until you have made up your mind/know how girl 2 feels/know how you feel. If you lead her to believe something may happen between the two of you, and then you fix things with girl 2, or decide girl 1 is not for you, she may be really hurt. I can sympathize, as I have been in love with my best friend for almost 2 years now, and for the majority of that time, he was screwing around with other women, asking me for dating advice, telling me about how happy they made him, etc. Another friend of mine convinced me if I gave him a chance he could make me fall out of love with my best friend and in love with him. (This is bullshit, never think someone new can make you lose interest in someone you actually love.) Eventually we broke up, because I couldn't get over my feelings for my best friend, and he hasn't spoken to me since. My best friend at that point was still telling me he didn't care for me at all and how dumb I was to leave a nice guy to pursue him. So I kinda felt like I had lost a good friend, and my best friend was being an ass/didn't care for me, and it realllllly sucked. But now my best friend and I are together after a few months of misery, and it is all working out. ^_^ Just keep your hopes up. It will work out. | ||
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JMave
Singapore1806 Posts
On March 21 2011 10:47 Bronyaur wrote: Why do girls act not interested when they actually are? And how do you know the difference between that and really not interested? And pretend you just ask bluntly, and they tell you they are interested, but still proceed to exhibit non-interested behavior. Why?? because that's just who they are. too arrogant to admit their interest because it exposes a tinge of vulnerability. | ||
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mizU
United States12125 Posts
Or is it totally past that. It seems like Girl 1 would be willing to, but girl 2 was a little too fresh to be too invested. | ||
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Lyzon
United Kingdom440 Posts
i dont know whats worse... knowing you know the perfect girl for you, or waiting for her to come along | ||
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Kazragore
United States369 Posts
On March 21 2011 09:52 n3gative wrote: If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but I bitch ain't one I got 99 problems, and they all bitches | ||
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JMave
Singapore1806 Posts
On March 21 2011 11:02 Lyzon wrote: ahh everyone has a miss perfect in their life... i know mine i dont know whats worse... knowing you know the perfect girl for you, or waiting for her to come along knowing she's the one for you but having it to hard to come by. | ||
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Chimpalimp
United States1135 Posts
My advice: give it time and keeps it real. | ||
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Raeleigh
Canada902 Posts
On March 21 2011 10:50 JMave wrote: because that's just who they are. too arrogant to admit their interest because it exposes a tinge of vulnerability. I wouldn't say that's who they are. Not every girl does that, and I'd appreciate it if you didn't make it seem like they all do. | ||
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JMave
Singapore1806 Posts
On March 21 2011 12:48 Raeleigh wrote: I wouldn't say that's who they are. Not every girl does that, and I'd appreciate it if you didn't make it seem like they all do. ok. sorry. | ||
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hazelynut
United States2196 Posts
Actually I would say that's who they are. It refers to a subsection of girls, but SO MANY OF US DO IT. | ||
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Kyuukyuu
Canada6263 Posts
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Raeleigh
Canada902 Posts
On March 21 2011 15:52 Kyuukyuu wrote: yeah seriously ladies why you gotta make things difficult I suppose it's in our blood. LOL Guys get "MY PENIS IS BIGGER THAN YOURS" in their blood. Girls get "MAKE LIFE DIFFICULT" in theirs. =P | ||
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Dismantlethethroat
114 Posts
On March 21 2011 09:22 baller wrote: u must have threesome with them only solution here imo User was warned for this post AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA IM SORRY TL BUT THAT WAS HILARIOUS! Anyway, back to the topic in question. You need to choose one or the other. You can't have both chicks. | ||
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