Parent rage ^2 (just a rant) - Page 3

Magic_Mike

United States542 Posts

February 17 2011 22:08 GMT

#41

I have to agree with awu25 here. I'm wouldn't put it quite as harshly as he did. I'm not trying to be combative I'm just saying that he should try his hardest to see it from her point of view. Really, though, the only part of the story we are getting is his side so none of us can really pass judgement with only hearing part of the story.
When I was a kid I had a similar living situation as yours and it ended badly. I won't rant and rave and tell my story on this post because it is your blog but suffice to say that I understand how you feel bud. My situation ended badly because of myself and my parents and BOTH of us focusing only on how we ourselves felt and ignoring the feelings of the other. There was no understanding at all on either side.
And to answer Elryi: I had kids because, and I know this is hard to understand for those of you without kids, I loved them before they were even born. I wanted to share life. I wanted to give something back. And I also wanted to leave my lasting imprint on the world. It turned out to be WAAAAAY different than I expected but it was still worth it.

Froadac

United States6733 Posts

February 17 2011 23:21 GMT

#42

On February 18 2011 04:38 awu25 wrote:

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i'm not saying it didn't warrant all that yelling
but yes i would be a bit pissed if my son lost a key and didn't bother looking for it or bother telling me
it's not about the money, it's about the principle of responsibility
he wasn't trusted to carry the key around and yet it somehow still gets lost
yes the mom is a crazy psycho but the blogger should've taken the initiative to go look for it or tell his mom

I did look for it. For about an hour earlier. But because I didn't find it...

Also I think it's in the house. I used it to get in a week ago, and then helped her bring in groceriers. Somewhere in there I think it got lost, so it should be in the house...

I think I'll just get our spare hosue key and make a copy at the hardware store: nobody else actually has it (100% sure)

Ushio

Canada868 Posts

February 17 2011 23:59 GMT

#43

Your mom sounds like a real bitch dude. Just be assured that when your 18 you can gtfo. Maybe ignore her for awhile and she will comes to her senses.

MrJizz

Canada2 Posts

February 18 2011 00:11 GMT

#44

Wow... these blogs are just getting worse and worse.. I really feel bad for you. If my parents were like this I would have probably moved out a long time ago. There's really no point in staying in a house that is this damaging. No point. It's your life and I understand your parents want the best for you, but when they are doing this type of stuff it's retarded. That's ridiculous and down right abuse.

I'm really grateful that my parents are very chill and really don't mind what I do. But I've shown them that I'm an intelligent person many times and I really think they trust me for this. I'm still a kid too but if I had parents that were this brutal I would tell them to fuck right off. And I tell many of my friends when their parents get too bad just to tell them off and to relax. I don't see the point in causing so much a big fuss about everything in their lives.. It isn't helping anyone. It's making everyone's life more difficult as it is.

But don't take my advice on this one bro... Just talk to a close friend about it or a counselor or something at school about this because your mom just doesn't seem mentally stable. But don't put this against her.. your going to end up hurting yourself in the long run when you hate your mom so much you can't even be talk to her on her death bed. Just take a few deep breaths and chill out... talk to someone and don't worry about your mom. It's your life, she can't control everything.

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