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VorcePA
United States1102 Posts
No homo. Just sayin'. | ||
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SkytoM
Austria1137 Posts
On January 24 2011 14:53 lixlix wrote: at no point did I advise for him to reason with his girl. In fact my advice is based upon playing with her emotions. what eu.exodus tried is reasoning with her, which never works. And despite his logic trying its hardest to come up with a way to supplicate his girlfriend, she remained unhappy. You are right about the "if he had finished his game...they aren't breaking up over it". he should realize this. In fact, if he had half jokingly said "ok if I win this game, you give me a blowjob and if I lose, I'll eat you out" he would have a much better result than the one he ended up with. I find the statement of "once you break up with one or two, you will start noticing that they are all alike in this regard and if you want to stay with someone you like you should start caring" fairly pointless. You break up because you aren't happy in a relationship. If the benefits of the relationship out weighs the shit you have to put up with then you stay in it. If it doesn't then you leave. Its pretty simple. I think its kind of sad that you feel that this sort of behavior from the female side is to be not only expected but should be accepted in a relationship. I assure you this is not the case and there are lots of great girls who won't pull this kind of shit assuming the guy is actually being a man in the relationship. this. a man should never put up with crazy shit from his GF/girls in general. if she ain't right, she ain't right. simple as that. | ||
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gen.Sun
United States539 Posts
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ThunderGod
New Zealand897 Posts
On January 24 2011 20:11 gen.Sun wrote: Freaking Neanderthal, I hope you grow up some day. who? exodus? | ||
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gen.Sun
United States539 Posts
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SkytoM
Austria1137 Posts
On January 24 2011 23:11 gen.Sun wrote: SkytoM then at least have the courtesy to quote me, so everybody understands who you mean. I don't think anything i said, though douchy written, is like a " neanderthal ". Also, why are you insulting me in the first place? I think that Integrity comes first and not the relationship. So, if OP(or the guy we refer to) thinks his GF is wrong, he shouldn't just do what she says for the sake of her. Living like that will make you hate yourself. More concrete on the matter, if she wants to get held, there is no way she has any right to criticize him. It's like asking "please cook me something" then complaining about how it is tasting wrong/bad/whatever. He is not a cook, nor does he get paid for. He does not have to do anything at all, basically. A relationship exists purely on voluntary grounds. The insult from her at the end of the day is just the icing on the top. At that point dumping her is the right thing to do, also for the sake of her as she clearly needs some kind of reality check. good day to you sir | ||
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Roe
Canada6002 Posts
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RezChi
Canada2368 Posts
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lixlix
United States482 Posts
Maybe you should post some of the things that lead you to suspect she is cheating on you. | ||
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RezChi
Canada2368 Posts
"X Your the guy here, you should be coming to me" (down scaled the retardedness) and 'X i need a lunch date for tuesday.....LMFAO" stuff like that | ||
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k20a
Canada412 Posts
On January 25 2011 09:58 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: Well in my case she thinks i don't know her twitter account so she's twittering some other guy "X Your the guy here, you should be coming to me" (down scaled the retardedness) and 'X i need a lunch date for tuesday.....LMFAO" stuff like that call her out on it yo | ||
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RezChi
Canada2368 Posts
I don't know man, if i do those kind of things i'd like to go over board just for the heck of it. But if i'm wrong... dayuum | ||
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lixlix
United States482 Posts
She'll put the blame back on you about how you're snooping around her account and you end up looking like the insecure guy always checking on what she is doing which makes you even less attractive in her eyes. She'll also say something to the effect of she didn't do anything and that you shouldn't be so possessive. So in the end, you don't really resolve anything and you find out little extra. I would just take some time off away from her. Calmly consider whether you want to be with this girl before doing anything. The time away could also help her realize that she misses you and then she might lesson contact with other dude. And if during your time away from her, she ends up with other dude, well then there is your answer. | ||
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RezChi
Canada2368 Posts
Edit: Aww FML seems like there's 2 guys hitting on her now. I had a feeling "X" was hitting on her, so everytime he said something on her facebook i tried to make him look stupid or question him... now another douche-bag shows up.... FML | ||
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lixlix
United States482 Posts
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vOdToasT
Sweden2870 Posts
People like her should be more common.  | ||
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Back
Canada505 Posts
On February 16 2011 02:53 vOdToasT wrote: Reading about this makes me so happy I found a girl who won't do any of that shit. No using me for money, cheating on me, dating me for my looks, or stupid fucking complaining about stupid shit. Just genuine love. People like her should be more common. Are you sure you are safe? I recently ended a 7-year relationship that to me seemed perfect. "that shit" can start at any time. Like someone said in this thread: when she gets tired of the relationship she will start behaving irrationally. | ||
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shinosai
United States1577 Posts
On February 16 2011 02:53 vOdToasT wrote: Reading about this makes me so happy I found a girl who won't do any of that shit. No using me for money, cheating on me, dating me for my looks, or stupid fucking complaining about stupid shit. Just genuine love. People like her should be more common. Nearly every relationship is like that until she actually starts doing those things. Best you learn now that the only certainty in life is death and taxes. Women, on the other hand, are nothing but the opposite of certain. | ||
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mesohawny
Canada193 Posts
On January 24 2011 14:53 lixlix wrote: at no point did I advise for him to reason with his girl. In fact my advice is based upon playing with her emotions. what eu.exodus tried is reasoning with her, which never works. And despite his logic trying its hardest to come up with a way to supplicate his girlfriend, she remained unhappy. You are right about the "if he had finished his game...they aren't breaking up over it". he should realize this. In fact, if he had half jokingly said "ok if I win this game, you give me a blowjob and if I lose, I'll eat you out" he would have a much better result than the one he ended up with. I find the statement of "once you break up with one or two, you will start noticing that they are all alike in this regard and if you want to stay with someone you like you should start caring" fairly pointless. You break up because you aren't happy in a relationship. If the benefits of the relationship out weighs the shit you have to put up with then you stay in it. If it doesn't then you leave. Its pretty simple. I think its kind of sad that you feel that this sort of behavior from the female side is to be not only expected but should be accepted in a relationship. I assure you this is not the case and there are lots of great girls who won't pull this kind of shit assuming the guy is actually being a man in the relationship. jesus christ when did Dr.Phil start posting here? in the end, women are fuelled by emotion, whereas men are taught to be stoic and not let emotion run our lives... this is why men and women have these sort of "insane" interactions... it is perfectly normal and can happen in a loving relationship.... it obviously shouldn't happen often in a healthy relationship but hey, shit happens... nothing is perfect... | ||
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vOdToasT
Sweden2870 Posts
On February 16 2011 03:39 Back wrote: Are you sure you are safe? I recently ended a 7-year relationship that to me seemed perfect. "that shit" can start at any time. Like someone said in this thread: when she gets tired of the relationship she will start behaving irrationally. She endured a long distance relationship for over a year, when she could have easily dumped me and gone for someone else closer to her. We couldn't even meet each other at all. So if she wasn't serious, she wouldn't endure that. (and neither would I). She's also sick of being with shallow / lame people, like the ones I mentioned earlier. And she wouldn't even care if I turned into a girl, or any other body she doesn't find attractive. It's awesome. :D | ||
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