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On January 24 2011 01:53 SkytoM wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2011 01:18 gen.Sun wrote:On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote:
i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!'
'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair.
'hold me!'
'okay'
'not like that!'
'okay sorry. How then?'
'like this'
'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!'
'say what?'
'you dont want to hold me properly'
'but this is how you said i should hold you'
'no i didnt'
'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?'
'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep.
30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!'
'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time'
'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
'rofl! Where did you get that idea?'
'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!'
'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you. Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants. As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection. It's really not that hard. what? wow mr.women understander, brilliant conclusion. And what about respecting his motherfucking life and space? If he hasn't played really for 2 months, he owes her NOTHING.
I don't feel like the dude was against giving her what she wants lol, just that he executed the build poorly due to bad scouting and weak starsense.
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On January 24 2011 02:43 gen.Sun wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2011 01:53 SkytoM wrote:On January 24 2011 01:18 gen.Sun wrote:On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote:
i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!'
'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair.
'hold me!'
'okay'
'not like that!'
'okay sorry. How then?'
'like this'
'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!'
'say what?'
'you dont want to hold me properly'
'but this is how you said i should hold you'
'no i didnt'
'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?'
'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep.
30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!'
'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time'
'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
'rofl! Where did you get that idea?'
'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!'
'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you. Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants. As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection. It's really not that hard. what? wow mr.women understander, brilliant conclusion. And what about respecting his motherfucking life and space? If he hasn't played really for 2 months, he owes her NOTHING. I don't feel like the dude was against giving her what she wants lol, just that he executed the build poorly due to bad scouting and weak starsense.
ITT: Nerds who are clueless about women rage about how insane women are while ignoring their own inability to maintain a relationship/not choose a psychobitch.
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On January 24 2011 04:29 ZeaL. wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2011 02:43 gen.Sun wrote:On January 24 2011 01:53 SkytoM wrote:On January 24 2011 01:18 gen.Sun wrote:On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote:
i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!'
'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair.
'hold me!'
'okay'
'not like that!'
'okay sorry. How then?'
'like this'
'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!'
'say what?'
'you dont want to hold me properly'
'but this is how you said i should hold you'
'no i didnt'
'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?'
'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep.
30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!'
'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time'
'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
'rofl! Where did you get that idea?'
'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!'
'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you. Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants. As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection. It's really not that hard. what? wow mr.women understander, brilliant conclusion. And what about respecting his motherfucking life and space? If he hasn't played really for 2 months, he owes her NOTHING. I don't feel like the dude was against giving her what she wants lol, just that he executed the build poorly due to bad scouting and weak starsense. ITT: Nerds who are clueless about women rage about how insane women are while ignoring their own inability to maintain a relationship/not choose a psychobitch.
Don't troll bro, psychos are the most fun.
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lol so true.
one day "you don't spend enough time with me"
few months later "i think we should break up, i feel trapped"
you just can't win.
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On January 24 2011 09:10 vlf wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2011 04:29 ZeaL. wrote:On January 24 2011 02:43 gen.Sun wrote:On January 24 2011 01:53 SkytoM wrote:On January 24 2011 01:18 gen.Sun wrote:On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote:
i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!'
'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair.
'hold me!'
'okay'
'not like that!'
'okay sorry. How then?'
'like this'
'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!'
'say what?'
'you dont want to hold me properly'
'but this is how you said i should hold you'
'no i didnt'
'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?'
'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep.
30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!'
'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time'
'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
'rofl! Where did you get that idea?'
'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!'
'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you. Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants. As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection. It's really not that hard. what? wow mr.women understander, brilliant conclusion. And what about respecting his motherfucking life and space? If he hasn't played really for 2 months, he owes her NOTHING. I don't feel like the dude was against giving her what she wants lol, just that he executed the build poorly due to bad scouting and weak starsense. ITT: Nerds who are clueless about women rage about how insane women are while ignoring their own inability to maintain a relationship/not choose a psychobitch. Don't troll bro, psychos are the most fun.
Psychos are good fuckbuddies. Psychos are NOT good girlfriends. At some point the sex won't be worth it.
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On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote:
i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!'
'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair.
'hold me!'
'okay'
'not like that!'
'okay sorry. How then?'
'like this'
'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!'
'say what?'
'you dont want to hold me properly'
'but this is how you said i should hold you'
'no i didnt'
'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?'
'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep.
30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!'
'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time'
'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
'rofl! Where did you get that idea?'
'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!'
'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
This conversation is pretty painful to read man. You really got to man up there and not acquiesce to her.
Should really go like this
'hold me!'
'okay'
'not like that!'
'ok, how about this? ' then either slap her ass or touch her inappropriately or pick her up and throw her on a bed/couch.
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!'
'ok, don't really want to hold you'
after she bitches you out, don't go and tuck her in and lay by her side for 30minutes man. You think this will make her feel better but sadly it won't. It just rewards her for being a bitch to you which only guarantees you more attitude in the future.
'you never want to spend any time with me!'
'yeah, I'm pretty busy with a lot of other stuff'
and if she really said to you
'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
Your reply should really be
'yeah I think you are right' then walk out the door.
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Yea that is a good way to counter it but what if she cries? Then you've lost again lol
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she won't cry.
She's saying all these things and being a bitch in general because she's tired of the relationship and looking for excuses to break up.
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Heh. I assumed exodus's account was slightly exaggerated, but if your girlfriend actually says "fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!" then I'd agree with lixlix: she doesn't value your relationship any more.
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On January 24 2011 12:51 BottleAbuser wrote:
Heh. I assumed exodus's account was slightly exaggerated, but if your girlfriend actually says "fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!" then I'd agree with lixlix: she doesn't value your relationship any more.
I also sort of figured the OP was a bit of an exaggeration. Sounds like she's trying to sort of get you to be more assertive.
If she did say that stuff word for word, then... yeah, that sucks. You're doing both of you a disservice by bending over backwards for those shenanigans though.
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He's not talking about the OP, but about eu.exodus. He is 100% wrong there but he would most likely be right about the OP. lixlix just doesn't know wtf he's talking about, it's ok. He will learn one day.
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On January 24 2011 13:19 news wrote:
He's not talking about the OP, but about eu.exodus. He is 100% wrong there but he would most likely be right about the OP. lixlix just doesn't know wtf he's talking about, it's ok. He will learn one day.
ok man. thats super enlightening.
Unless if you know eu.exodus personally, not sure how you know the 2 situations are different.
Its fine to disagree with my advice but to not say why and just shoot off a one liner like that is pretty damn condescending.
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because one situation is all the little things girlfriends to to sparkle some emotion when they feel lonely or bored and second situation is some serious problem that is about to end the relationship
you should be able to tell the difference between playing around while cuddling and giving her man shit about his work/suggesting they need to see other people
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The only difference is that in the first case, the relationship is already over, and in the second case its on the path to that eventuality, assuming there is no embelishment from eu.exodus.
Assuming the 2nd conversation is to the letter, I don't see how anybody can read that as 'playing around while cuddling'. By all accounts, eu.exodus seems like he was trying his best to be accommodating and getting nothing but shit back.
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that's why i said that eventually you will understand. Things like this can happen randomly even with a loving girlfriend. She wants him to care for her even though she finds absurd reasons to get his attention. I assume you never lived with anyone
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On January 24 2011 12:07 lixlix wrote:Show nested quote +On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote:
i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!'
'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair.
'hold me!'
'okay'
'not like that!'
'okay sorry. How then?'
'like this'
'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!'
'say what?'
'you dont want to hold me properly'
'but this is how you said i should hold you'
'no i didnt'
'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?'
'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep.
30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!'
'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time'
'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
'rofl! Where did you get that idea?'
'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!'
'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you. This conversation is pretty painful to read man. You really got to man up there and not acquiesce to her. Should really go like this 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'ok, how about this? ' then either slap her ass or touch her inappropriately or pick her up and throw her on a bed/couch. 'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'ok, don't really want to hold you' after she bitches you out, don't go and tuck her in and lay by her side for 30minutes man. You think this will make her feel better but sadly it won't. It just rewards her for being a bitch to you which only guarantees you more attitude in the future. 'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'yeah, I'm pretty busy with a lot of other stuff' and if she really said to you 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' Your reply should really be 'yeah I think you are right' then walk out the door.
This guy kinda has it right. But this shit just stopped working for me after 4 years and she just bailed out now saying she needs space. Which doesn't even make sense at all because I gave her nothing but space and freedom and even allowed her to hook up with other chicks.
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On January 24 2011 14:14 SpoR wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2011 12:07 lixlix wrote:On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote:
i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!'
'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair.
'hold me!'
'okay'
'not like that!'
'okay sorry. How then?'
'like this'
'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!'
'say what?'
'you dont want to hold me properly'
'but this is how you said i should hold you'
'no i didnt'
'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?'
'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep.
30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!'
'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time'
'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
'rofl! Where did you get that idea?'
'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!'
'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you. This conversation is pretty painful to read man. You really got to man up there and not acquiesce to her. Should really go like this 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'ok, how about this? ' then either slap her ass or touch her inappropriately or pick her up and throw her on a bed/couch. 'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'ok, don't really want to hold you' after she bitches you out, don't go and tuck her in and lay by her side for 30minutes man. You think this will make her feel better but sadly it won't. It just rewards her for being a bitch to you which only guarantees you more attitude in the future. 'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'yeah, I'm pretty busy with a lot of other stuff' and if she really said to you 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' Your reply should really be 'yeah I think you are right' then walk out the door. This guy kinda has it right. But this shit just stopped working for me after 4 years and she just bailed out now saying she needs space. Which doesn't even make sense at all because I gave her nothing but space and freedom and even allowed her to hook up with other chicks.
I 100% encouraged my ex's (GFs at the time) to hook up with other chicks. As far as I'm aware, that's one step closer to a threesome...
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On January 24 2011 14:12 news wrote:
that's why i said that eventually you will understand. Things like this can happen randomly even with a loving girlfriend. She wants him to care for her even though she finds absurd reasons to get his attention. I assume you never lived with anyone
1. Its not as if he didn't give her his attention. He immediately shut down what I assume to be starcraft, taking a loss, and then going over to do what his GF wanted. He then continued to give her his full attention while she complained every step of the way. Even after doing this, she is still pissed and asks to go to bed alone. Despite her terrible attitude, he goes and tucks her in and lies next to her for 30 minutes until she is asleep. Then she has the gall to bitch some more?
2. Even if he wasn't on his best behavior, that is no excuse to say something like "fuck you! if you want someone else, go get her".
3. Despite disagreeing with me, you seem to not offer any alternative advice because by all accounts eu.exodus has already tried the "being nice and good boyfriend" route so I'm not sure what you would suggest.
4. I find it amusing that you keep wanting to make this about me and presume to know me from a few lines I've posted. Must be from that amazing reading ability of human behavior you have. I feel no need to post about my life experiences to justify my advice as I believe the advice should stand alone.
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he is fine with what he has, girls do this shit all the time and it doesn't mean anything about the relationship. Some of them are more mature and understanding, some - less. You make assumptions based on some imaginary rules that don't apply to real life situations. You cant always reason your gf no matter how right you are, she will be unhappy and will make you unhappy. If you like being constantly unhappy and mad - sure, keep sassing. But once you break up with one or two you will start noticing that they are all alike in this regard and if you want to stay with someone you like you should start caring. Of course he can finish his game and he can ignore w/e she asks, they are not breaking up over that. He was just giving an example of female logic and how absurd it can be
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at no point did I advise for him to reason with his girl. In fact my advice is based upon playing with her emotions. what eu.exodus tried is reasoning with her, which never works. And despite his logic trying its hardest to come up with a way to supplicate his girlfriend, she remained unhappy.
You are right about the "if he had finished his game...they aren't breaking up over it". he should realize this. In fact, if he had half jokingly said "ok if I win this game, you give me a blowjob and if I lose, I'll eat you out" he would have a much better result than the one he ended up with.
I find the statement of "once you break up with one or two, you will start noticing that they are all alike in this regard and if you want to stay with someone you like you should start caring" fairly pointless.
You break up because you aren't happy in a relationship. If the benefits of the relationship out weighs the shit you have to put up with then you stay in it. If it doesn't then you leave. Its pretty simple.
I think its kind of sad that you feel that this sort of behavior from the female side is to be not only expected but should be accepted in a relationship. I assure you this is not the case and there are lots of great girls who won't pull this kind of shit assuming the guy is actually being a man in the relationship.
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