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The deal-breaker?
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10346 Posts
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UrASofty
Canada772 Posts
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Risen
United States7927 Posts
On September 15 2010 09:53 MountainDewJunkie wrote: Because as crazy as she is about me, as I know her, she does not compromise for any man. Even me. Then she isn't crazy about you. There is no such thing as a relationship without compromise (one that lasts anywho) Edit: Also, if she's willing to talk about it you need to be honest with her and let her know before she becomes comfortable with the notion that you are okay with it. | ||
Nyovne
Netherlands19141 Posts
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freelander
Hungary4707 Posts
she seems open about it, you should discuss this with her, not with TL. girls understand the reasoning of "not feeling well about it" | ||
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mOnion
United States5657 Posts
comparing weed to cigs is ridic btw | ||
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DoctorHelvetica
United States15034 Posts
You are right in saying it doesn't make sense to drink but have an issue with smoking pot, I would consider alcohol abuse to be much worse and it doesn't seem like she's really even what you would call a "pothead". The best thing to do is to come to a mutual compromise that doesn't involve her quitting but just limiting her use when with you or just getting over it. You don't have a great logical reason for your problem with it so maybe it's easier just to deal with it and let it go. | ||
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Murderotica
Vatican City State2594 Posts
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Risen
United States7927 Posts
On September 15 2010 10:03 mOnion wrote: comparing weed to cigs is ridic btw Not to derail... but why? Both smell horrid | ||
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10346 Posts
On September 15 2010 10:03 mOnion wrote: honestly i think alcohol is worse than weed. you should get over it, and if you cant then leave. comparing weed to cigs is ridic btw [and @ Doc] Like I said, I feel stupid for feeling this way. On September 15 2010 09:59 Nyovne wrote: MountainDewJunkie uses wall of text! It's super effective! *leaves blog* You don't think I'll call out a scary Bangling for a retarded pokemon reference? Thanks for the contribution. | ||
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Scarecrow
Korea (South)9175 Posts
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DoctorHelvetica
United States15034 Posts
On September 15 2010 10:07 itzbrandnew wrote: Not to derail... but why? Both smell horrid because one is proven to cause cancer and an array of respiratory disorders and the other isn't would be my guess weed doesn't smell nearly as bad as cig smoke either | ||
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mOnion
United States5657 Posts
On September 15 2010 10:07 itzbrandnew wrote: Not to derail... but why? Both smell horrid uh what? have you ever smoked? weed smells like christmas trees. and there's no residual smell. if i walk into a cig smokers house i know he smokes cigs, not so with weed i think youre guessing that weed smells bad | ||
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Murderotica
Vatican City State2594 Posts
On September 15 2010 10:07 itzbrandnew wrote: Not to derail... but why? Both smell horrid I think he was referring more to the contrast in health effects not their odors. Although the odors are vastly different as well, imo. The smell of weed 1. does not stick around long relatively speaking 2. smells good to me, but that's just my opinion. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46242 Posts
If you really feel this way (and I understand how you feel), then you need to bring it up. It's implicitly destroying your relationship, because it's clearly bothering the hell out of you. Living with her and having this hidden resentment isn't going to be any good for either for you. Your idea that its gross, and your confusion aren't abnormal. You guys need to talk it out. If you guys talk it out, then one of two things will happen: 1. She'll stop (or attempt to stop) = Great for you  2. She won't stop (and the result is pretty much the same as if you didn't mention it, except you can't feel guilty for not bringing up why you feel uncomfortable) = Not great for you, but clearly not your problem It sucks that it needs to be brought up, but it's a problem that won't go away on its own. Good luck! On September 15 2010 09:59 Nyovne wrote: MountainDewJunkie uses wall of text! It's super effective! *leaves blog* Nyovne uses snide, irrelevant, sarcastic comment! It's not very effective... I don't understand why you posted. | ||
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Murderotica
Vatican City State2594 Posts
On September 15 2010 10:11 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: Nyovne uses snide, irrelevant, sarcastic comment! It's not very effective... I don't understand why you posted. Because he likes to poke smot in the amsterest of dams. | ||
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Risen
United States7927 Posts
On September 15 2010 10:09 DoctorHelvetica wrote: because one is proven to cause cancer and an array of respiratory disorders and the other isn't would be my guess weed doesn't smell nearly as bad as cig smoke either I would argue that they both smell equally bad, just different. Marijuana causes respiratory problems btw. And cancer has never been proven in either cig smoking or marijuana smoking, trends indicate that BOTH do, however. (With cig smoking showing a larger trend) | ||
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Murderotica
Vatican City State2594 Posts
On September 15 2010 10:13 itzbrandnew wrote: I would argue that they both smell equally bad, just different. Marijuana causes respiratory problems btw. And cancer has never been proven in either cig smoking or marijuana smoking, trends indicate that BOTH do, however. (With cig smoking showing a larger trend) Wow -_-; | ||
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Asdkmoga
United States496 Posts
*leaves blog* lol no but, i kinda understand, talk to her about it and figure something out, and if she is willing to break up with you for not liking it, then move on imo. | ||
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Relickey
United States145 Posts
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