Just as this blog implies, okay okay it's not actually about me.. I'm just going to ask some of the hot dudes in Teamliquid.net how does it feel that instead of you guys picking up on girls the rules are reversed?

Because I know for a fact I'm not a good looking dude and a bad looking one as well. I'm more of the average joe guy who's in between both worlds. Yeah, maybe a bit of tweaking (adding muscles, a few facial care here) would help in making me turn to an 8/10 for the girls instead of a 7.5/10.

So anyway, all I want to ask is how does it feel to be handsome?

Thank you for your messages!

celious

United States194 Posts

September 14 2010 14:28 GMT

it feels pretty awesome brah, thanks for asking

Licmyobelisk

Philippines3679 Posts

September 14 2010 14:30 GMT

On September 14 2010 23:28 celious wrote:
it feels pretty awesome brah, thanks for asking

Okay thanks for that, now what I'm trying to say is that you have like a big percentage of taking the girl home right? I mean for us beta guys we have to do a lot of tricks before we can take the bacon unlike handsome guys...

ghermination

United States2851 Posts

September 14 2010 14:40 GMT

There's very little required as far as good looks for picking up girls. Hitting the gym is always going to help you and is also very rewarding physically. Undoubtedly a six pack can make things easier (of any kind you wish, but i find muscles are more rewarding in the long term) but also simple things like being confident in yourself, having a good sense of humor, and reading/using body language can be helpful.

This really isn't supposed to be a brag post, but i'm just as successful at picking up girls as the next guy. It's not hard and you'll find it happening naturally as you get older. If you're still in high school, girls there are extremely shallow and immature. As soon as you hit college everything gets better.

Pioneer

994 Posts

September 14 2010 14:40 GMT

any guy can be a 10/10 with some bling, a little(lot) of hair gel, and a tanning bed

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hifriend

China6965 Posts

September 14 2010 14:41 GMT

ain't no fun if it ain't a challenge

Zurles

United Kingdom1656 Posts

September 14 2010 14:41 GMT

It's like you hanging around with a bunch of ugly girls, but imagine they're hot.

OMG that picture.

KeKeZergRush

United States116 Posts

September 14 2010 14:43 GMT

You sound like a 5/10. You give 10s too easily I think.

SolHeiM

Sweden1262 Posts

September 14 2010 14:46 GMT

LOOKS DOESN'T MEAN SHIT! CONFIDENCE DOES!

And here's the proof. Ever see a guy you perceive as ugly with a hot girl? Ta FUCKING da.

Ever see a friend of yours with a really hot girl? There's your proof as well.

Money doesn't do dick either, so don't think that all ugly guys with hot girls are millionaires, because their not. They just exude confidence.

ArbAttack

Canada198 Posts

September 14 2010 14:48 GMT

#10

If you're truly a 7.5/10 you wouldn't be making this blog. I know because I rate myself a 7.5, and it feels damn good to be able to just strike up a conversation with pretty much any girls under 9 easily and grab their number. I guess the moral of my experience is that more guys need to just ask, girls are more open than you think as long as you're above 6.

Also, what ZergRush said.

ArbAttack

Canada198 Posts

September 14 2010 14:50 GMT

#11

On September 14 2010 23:46 SolHeiM wrote:
LOOKS DOESN'T MEAN SHIT! CONFIDENCE DOES!

And here's the proof. Ever see a guy you perceive as ugly with a hot girl? Ta FUCKING da.

Ever see a friend of yours with a really hot girl? There's your proof as well.

Money doesn't do dick either, so don't think that all ugly guys with hot girls are millionaires, because their not. They just exude confidence.

Looks mean little after a certain threshold. I put that threshold for guys at a 6-7.

If you're under 5, confidence will just get you endless rejections and fuck with your ego.

Amnesia

United States3818 Posts

September 14 2010 14:54 GMT

#12

I self-rate myself a 9/10. FEELS GOOD MAN

SolHeiM

Sweden1262 Posts

September 14 2010 14:55 GMT

#13

Thinking that looks matter will create limiting beliefs that's all in your head, and it's really bad for you. But if that's what you want to believe, I won't bother. I just pity you because you're holding yourself back.

endy

Switzerland8905 Posts

September 14 2010 14:59 GMT

#14

Confidence is the most important. I used to be super handsome in high school (not anymore cuz I already started to lose my hair and I stopped sport when I discovered Starcraft), and I only got 2 gf in 3 years while most of my friends where getting laid non stop. I was handsome but almost autist :/

Geo.Rion

6175 Posts

September 14 2010 14:59 GMT

#15

sorry for not contributing but what are these numbers you throw out based on? i ve never heard of a scale of handsomeness

Mikilatov

United States3897 Posts

September 14 2010 15:00 GMT

#16

On September 14 2010 23:50 ArbAttack wrote:

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Looks mean little after a certain threshold. I put that threshold for guys at a 6-7.

If you're under 5, confidence will just get you endless rejections and fuck with your ego.

Yeahh I'm with this dude.

As long as you're not abnormally hideous, looks really aren't that massive of a factor.

Being decent looking isn't really much different than not.

eSen1a

Australia886 Posts

September 14 2010 15:00 GMT

#17

haha my scale of attractiveness is like
2 points for appearance
2 points for cuteness
2 poitns for intelligence
2 points for open to drug use
2 points for loves good music

im a 9!
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i wish

shawabawa

United Kingdom417 Posts

September 14 2010 15:07 GMT

#18

On September 14 2010 23:48 ArbAttack wrote:
If you're truly a 7.5/10 you wouldn't be making this blog. I know because I rate myself a 7.5, and it feels damn good to be able to just strike up a conversation with pretty much any girls under 9 easily and grab their number. I guess the moral of my experience is that more guys need to just ask, girls are more open than you think as long as you're above 6.

Also, what ZergRush said.

I not great at talking to girls who are under 9 tbh, I just find I have to be so condescending for them to even listen to me.

Once girls get to like 18-19 I find it much easier to talk to them and feel much more comfortable getting their number, but maybe that's just me.

Iplaythings

Denmark7752 Posts

September 14 2010 15:07 GMT

#19

I dont feel particulary outstanding handsome (or attractive). It's allways healthy to acknowledge your own looks, since it will grant confidence in the end. though I try to make myself as good looking as ican be arsed for the everyday but...
... As long as your not ugly, atleast making girls attracted to you (personality gotta follow) depends on how your humor and personality ALOT. Alot of times outgoing guys (like me) will just have to talk to girls. Some times it just hits you without knowing it.

Last party I was at, there was a girl who asked if "I wanted a little kiss?". (where after we kissed for like 10 minutes?)
Seriously, the times where I been hooked up with a girl was mostly unexpectedly, most of the time its just girls you enjoy spend time with and the next thing you now it something MIGHT be happening.

One of the keys actually is not expecting in my experiences, hah