|
I just found out that my aunt committed suicide.
She was diagnosed with breast cancer about 8 months ago. She had her breasts removed and was getting treatment. She was really depressed. Few hours ago she hang herself. She's dead and I feel like shit. I'm not gonna be able to sleep. It's 3:22 am. I just wanted to share it with someone. I hope shes in a better place.
|
sucks man- sorry for your loss
|
my condolences to you and your family.
|
Often the feeling of saying it to some one helps the healing process, if you find that you become depressed please seek help.
|
Cancer man. She's in less pain now. Just understand her pain, she probably had to do it. Move on, she definitely knew what was best for her. God knows how much she suffered.
|
For me, music always helps. Whether it be listening to a favorite song, or playing your favorite instrument. Other then that, it just takes time. Things WILL get better. I am extremely sorry for your loss. I know where you are right now... I was there not too long ago myself. Not my aunt, but someone close to me. I'm really sorry man.
|
Not a good thing to have to go through. I hope you're ok and you can help the people close to her get through it.
Thanks for talking, too. So often people try and bottle it up and the bad stuff leaks out cracks when they're not watching. If there's anything we can do to help or take your mind off it, just ask
|
That sucks
I wish you and your family/relatives the best of luck in the future, hang in there :/
|
Sorry for your loss
|
you must realise that when someone is suicidal their number one thought is esaping their pain. if anyone in your family feels they could have prevented this, they couldn't. if you or anyone in your family falls into depression, the most important thing is to talk about it and seek help.
condolences, stay safe man.
|
Sounds like she made a choice only she could make. You can disagree with it, but at the end of the day she had some good reasons and what's done is done.
|
My cousin just hung himself last thursday. I got there before the paramedics did. It was absolutely horrible. I had a blog written up to get some things off my chest but decided not to post it. I know how hard it is... you have my condolences.
|
condolences I hope she is in a better place as well
|
My condolences for your loss. I'm sorry.
|
|
Sorry for your loss dude.
|
I'm sorry for your loss man. My best friend just lost her grandma ( viewing was today), and her older brother's best friend just comitted suicide, and its been a real rough couple of days for thier whole family so just know that theres people going through the same thing as you.
|
My condolences, may she rest in peace.
|
|
On September 07 2010 16:28 theron[wdt] wrote: my condolences to you and your family. Same here. You shouldn't saty alone. Good friends is the best way to get over it.
|
my condolences, take it easy
|
I've been through the suicide of a family member as well. If you ever want to talk pm me. Take care of yourself, and take care of your family.
|
|
Sucks, man. There was a study done, saying if you played video games within 8 hours after the trauma that you experienced, you'll forget most of it, or just when ever you think about it, you'll feel numb towards it. I found this to be true when my grandmother ended up at the hospital, and I put the theory to the test. It's pretty much a blurry memory.
|
Just having a blurry memory of someone you cared for dying sounds horrible.
|
My sincerest condolences.
|
On September 07 2010 16:28 theron[wdt] wrote: my condolences to you and your family.
|
5673 Posts
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
|
Snet
United States3573 Posts
It's really a shame man. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. People receiving treatment can be really hard to read. It can appear that they are fine and coping with their disease, but really they are on the verge of suicide like this and no one has a clue. Hope your family is doing ok.
|
ALLEYCAT BLUES48992 Posts
On September 07 2010 16:28 theron[wdt] wrote: my condolences to you and your family.
same here.
My dad died to cancer 8 years ago,so I understand what you're going through.
|
Thank you all. I feel better.
|
Sorry for your loss man.my condolences.
|
|
my condolences, you should get out with some friends to get it off your mind.
|
I'm terribly sorry. Hang in there and be strong.
|
|
I hope she is in a better place.
|
So sorry man, I feel your pain, My aunt died of cancer earlier this year and few months after that a good friend of mine fell off a mountain to his death just trust me on this, life goes on, and the people you care about and who care about you, gone or still with us, want you to live your life.
And you're not alone, we're all here to support you
R.I.P Sixsongs' aunt
|
On September 07 2010 16:23 SixSongs wrote: Few hours ago she hang herself.
On September 08 2010 01:42 Mickey wrote: Hang in there and be strong.
Shame on you Mickey.
|
On September 08 2010 04:04 xxSK8rGUy277xx wrote:Shame on you Mickey.
Don't think he meant it like you're implying.
Sorry for your loss man.
|
sorry to hear it. Very sad indeed.
|
I am applying for a Ph.D. program for graduate school in cancer biology. I will now work even harder to make help those with cancer. Really, it's a terrible thing and I want to do what I can to help the future. My deepest condolences to you and her family. I know she is in a better place now.
|
Stay strong, my deepest condolences to you and your family, may your aunt rest in peace.
|
Wow that really sucks sorry for your loss.
|
On September 08 2010 04:04 xxSK8rGUy277xx wrote:Shame on you Mickey. Wow.... I'm such an asshole. My fault for a terrible choice of words.
|
Sorry to hear it, Sixsongs. My grandfather hung himself to escape the pain of stomach cancer when I was young. Luckily, I was too young to comprehend what happened. It's a sad thing, but at the same time, sometimes it's selfish to hold on to loved ones when they are suffering and yearn to move on.
Anyhow, hope you and your family will have some brighter days in the near future.
|
Sorry for your loss.
On September 08 2010 05:36 AppleTart wrote: I am applying for a Ph.D. program for graduate school in cancer biology. I will now work even harder to make help those with cancer. Really, it's a terrible thing and I want to do what I can to help the future. My deepest condolences to you and her family. I know she is in a better place now.
Kudos to you.
I also find it appalling how little attention medical and biological research gets, especially when compared to how much money and talent we throw away on utter crap. A 60 trillion dollar world economy and we're throwing scraps at the problems that wreak havoc on the quality of life around the globe. Anyway, best of luck to you, and the world be a nicer place if their were a few more AppleTarts.
|
oh man... sorry for what happened... go on a run or a long walk... it helps...
|
|
|
|