during this vacation would be a perfect time to stop taking shit from him. if he refuses to do his share of the work you cant really force him to (via beating him lol) but you can prevent him from using your sister. get your sister on your side and he will at least have to do basic shit for himself, and without your sister to support his selfish habits he should feel less comfortable being a huge baby, because there is no one to encourage it.

dhe95

United States1213 Posts

April 27 2010 21:38 GMT

#43

College is next year, you're almost out.

BaltA

Norway849 Posts

April 27 2010 21:47 GMT

#44

You just have to relize it's like that, and stop thinking about how bad it is. I have a sick father, who get's angry soooo fast. All you do is let them talk shit to you, and you just shut the fock up. Now you may think " Then he will think he is allowed to do that", sure that's true. BUT!

You will move out soon, you will work, get a good carrier or how u write it, and what will he have? Stuck with his parents until he is 50-60 (because they are dead) and what then?

See the positive in everything. You have a bitch situation, but hey, you will be 10 times more of a man than ur brother. That experiance may help you furder in life!

Ronald_McD

Canada807 Posts

April 27 2010 21:51 GMT

#45

Beat his sorry ass into submission.

Lucumo

6850 Posts

April 27 2010 21:51 GMT

#46

On April 28 2010 06:07 Zanric wrote:
Protect your sister...

You should definitely try to change him. Waiting for the change...that could take too many years and when you move out, she will be all alone, without any protection. So either try to crush his ego or beat him up. I don't think he is the kind of person that will listen to his parents, so that would be futile.

Xenocide_Knight

Korea (South)2625 Posts

April 27 2010 21:52 GMT

#47

On April 28 2010 06:23 Amnesia wrote:
Or you can do this:

Install WC3 yourself.
Find out his nickname, and once you find that out, follow him when he joins a game
Feed the other team1

Watch him languish in misery.

looool
as a ex-dota player, I support this painful method of punishment. Like, that would be more painful than any sort of physical abuse you could do.

DO IT!!!

changed laugh to languish cuz i dont get it..

nitdkim

1264 Posts

April 27 2010 21:53 GMT

#48

kick his ass u newb

Aukai

United States1183 Posts

April 27 2010 22:20 GMT

#49

A brother like that I wouldn't trust to do the right thing while your little sister is around and your not there to protect her, You honestly have to put him in his place before you just run off to college, its obvious from what your saying your parents are too meek to step up to the plate. I've had to play junior dad before and trust me, a few years down the road they will thank you for it.

Amnesia

United States3818 Posts

April 27 2010 22:40 GMT

#50

On April 28 2010 06:52 Xenocide_Knight wrote:

Show nested quote +

Whoops, I meant watch & laugh. I'll edit it right now lol~

Pika Chu

Romania2510 Posts

April 27 2010 22:59 GMT

#51

I wish i had a brother or a sister

Always

United States376 Posts

April 27 2010 23:13 GMT

#52

man. this is ridiculous. your brother sounds like a dick. if this is actually true, and you haven't exaggerated at all in this thread, you gotta talk to somebody about this. we really can't help much except give you our pity. I feel bad for you dude. I've always been great with my siblings, and I can't imagine any of them acting this way.

You GOTTA do something dude. I'm basing this response off of the possibility that people like your brother can exist. talk to a school counselor, your parents, your g-parents, your younger sister. get a powerbase, and figure this stuff out with teammates.

DreaM)XeRO

Korea (South)4667 Posts

April 27 2010 23:13 GMT

#53

lol this thread makes me lol so hard

grow a dick
and beat the shit out of your brother
let him know who's boss

showkjh

Canada110 Posts

April 27 2010 23:50 GMT

#54

It's not worth beating up my brother, whatever I do to him will only get me in trouble with my parents, which I don't need right now. What the fuck will beating up my brother do, I've tried it in the past and all it got us was downstairs neighbours complaining about the noise upstairs. If I just try and beat him up right now what kind of respect would that give me seriously. I'm sure it'll get me tonnes of street cred and what not -_-

+ Show Spoiler +

Also he weighs more than me now and I'd rather not have him sitting on me, just sayin'

DreaM)XeRO

Korea (South)4667 Posts

April 27 2010 23:52 GMT

#55

On April 28 2010 08:50 showkjh wrote:
It's not worth beating up my brother, whatever I do to him will only get me in trouble with my parents, which I don't need right now. What the fuck will beating up my brother do, I've tried it in the past and all it got us was downstairs neighbours complaining about the noise upstairs. If I just try and beat him up right now what kind of respect would that give me seriously. I'm sure it'll get me tonnes of street cred and what not -_-

+ Show Spoiler +

Also he weighs more than me now and I'd rather not have him sitting on me, just sayin'

then get some mad pussy. get his respect that way

sneak in some drunk horny broad into his room and act drunk
and be like .. sorry using your bed tonight

showkjh

Canada110 Posts

April 28 2010 00:06 GMT

#56

On April 28 2010 08:52 DreaM)XeRO wrote:

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then get some mad pussy. get his respect that way

sneak in some drunk horny broad into his room and act drunk
and be like .. sorry using your bed tonight

.... This has to be the worst piece of advice I've ever received in my life.

RyanS

United States620 Posts

April 28 2010 00:28 GMT

#57

He gotta skate.

Wineandbread

United States2065 Posts

April 28 2010 02:31 GMT

#58

lmao DreaM

Harsh bro. Seems like he's the type that's not going to learn, is he? I don't think fighting would have solved the problem in any case.

Honestly, I don't know if you can do anything. I'd let it slide and just wait till he's out of your way once you're in college and hope he doesn't abuse your sister. Maybe he's just one of those type who mooches off their parents and becomes a fucking NEET for the rest of the lives...

Have you tried a psychologist? I dunno if they'd help at all, but it's worth a shot.

Also, I'd get at DotA and wreck his ass.

Aukai

United States1183 Posts

April 28 2010 02:33 GMT

#59

Also he weighs more than me now and I'd rather not have him sitting on me, just sayin'

Its not about street cred or that shit. Are you seriously going to let your brother grow up into a lumbering slob because you don't want to get in trouble with your parents? Parents forgive, but if you let your brother keep on this road your not doing him any favors, you have to knock some fucking sense into him. Being Reasonable only works with reasonable people.

lilsusie

3861 Posts

April 28 2010 02:56 GMT

#60

Have you talked to your parents one on one about this? I'm sure they are feeling similarly to you but just don't want to 'hurt his feelings' maybe you should have a mature conversation with them, where you're concerned for your brother's mental growth as a human instead of whining.