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saritenite
Singapore1680 Posts
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ShaperofDreams
Canada2492 Posts
Yeah you should just school him and make him fear you. Also take away his internet in a month he won't remember it exists. | ||
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barth
Ireland1272 Posts
Perhaps talk to your parents about it. Maybe they will consider straightening him up in some way if you think it would work out, 16 years old is definitely an age to get his shit together. I`ve never really been in a similar situation fortunately so I`m just guessing what could be done. | ||
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Brainsurgeon
Sweden359 Posts
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ShaperofDreams
Canada2492 Posts
OP you basically have to be his dad, and he won't except it until you show him that you are boss. With him violence will be a scary realization and a huge shock, he should straighten out. You need to get to a point where he cringes in fear when you raise your voice/hand. | ||
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Piy
Scotland3152 Posts
On April 28 2010 05:17 sArite_nite wrote: Shoot him and be done with it. Fucking guy reminds me of myself when I was 7. Hahahaha. Seriously, can't you just reason with him? or, y'know, wake him up with an air horn or something | ||
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neobowman
Canada3324 Posts
I would generally not advocate violence. But if your parents can't or won't talk to him themselves, then you'll have to somehow force him to sit down for some man to man talk about how to behave himself. Don't start going crazy and punch him or anything, but just pin him to the ground or something and talk some sense into him. | ||
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BloodyC0bbler
Canada7875 Posts
Eh, it can be a family business. That doesn't mean he wants to work there? I have worked at a corner store before, and the only reason they hired me was because their son didn't want to work there at the family business. It is normal, even if its really fing rude. I'm not excusing the rest of his behaviour in the least. But you can't for someone to get a job while they are young. Well not and expect good results. | ||
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showkjh
Canada110 Posts
MAYBE JUST MAYBE I'm wrong to be so pessimistic and maybe he'll grow out of it, but the way he acts and continues to act it really feels like his maturity has stunted | ||
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josemb40
Peru611 Posts
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Kingsp4de20
United States716 Posts
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BroOd
Austin10831 Posts
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Xenocide_Knight
Korea (South)2625 Posts
Just give it some time, he'll mature. And deep down, he'll always feel bad/ashamed of the things he did. Or if you're korean, just beat the shit out of him. yell at him in korean. repeat until better. | ||
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Tenryu
United States565 Posts
On April 28 2010 05:42 BroOd wrote: He's 16. There no trick that's going to suddenly make him into a good brother. You can hit him, go to your parents, or try to be Junior Dad, but in the end the change is going to have to come from him. You can't just force people to be what you want them to be. Tame your resentment, and don't focus on his short-comings because you're just going to fruitlessly frustrate yourself. Just work on being a good brother yourself, you'll be a whole lot happier. This. Everyone commenting about "hit him blah blah blah". Shit aint going to work at all. Hes a stubborn "teenager" and judging the way he acts now i gaurantee he wont change until hes near his mid 20's | ||
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Amnesia
United States3818 Posts
sounds like hikkikomori in a way | ||
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Zanric
United States66 Posts
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Snowfield
1289 Posts
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Nuttyguy
United Kingdom1526 Posts
1V1 him in real life talk to him WHEN hes not on the computer aka eating/ other stuff show him some 3rd world videos and tell him its a priveldge not a right ?i think thats how it goes or tell him to read this blog | ||
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new_construct
Canada1041 Posts
If you want to change him to a loving son, a good brother and a responsible human being, you have to make him quit dota, and to do that, you have to change his lifestyle, get him a job, get him a girlfriend, go outside, anything that can get his mind off that game. It took me 2 years to quit and after I realized how much I have missed out on the real world, and I am still catching up to this day. HELP YOUR BROTHER, STOP HIS ADDICTION BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE!!! | ||
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Amnesia
United States3818 Posts
Install WC3 yourself. Find out his nickname, and once you find that out, follow him when he joins a game Feed the other team1 Watch & laugh at him in misery. | ||
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