Girls, Love, And The Distance Inbetween... - Page 3

il0seonpurpose

Korea (South)5638 Posts

April 22 2010 19:12 GMT

#41

Ask her about the old memories you all shared and what happened to them, and try to figure out what she's really thinking.

Btw, is she still living with your mom?

NeVeR

1352 Posts

April 22 2010 19:58 GMT

#42

np;dr

+ Show Spoiler +

no pics; didn't read

il0seonpurpose

Korea (South)5638 Posts

April 22 2010 20:04 GMT

#43

On April 23 2010 04:58 NeVeR wrote:
np;dr

+ Show Spoiler +

no pics; didn't read

He does have a pic...

Ghardo

Germany1685 Posts

April 22 2010 20:59 GMT

#44

if she really is waiting *coolly* and doesn't feel any urge to open up to you, no, even sees you in an inferior position of which you ensure her almost every day, well, all you can do is being even cooler, being sure of yourself, pursuing your current life and feel good about it and occasionally (as if by accident) share with her that you feel great and you're not as needy and miserable as you make yourself out to be as of now.

but honestly, if all she can do is play with you by sharing her awesome dates, forget about her and move on - not worth your time

(unless, of course, you see it as a test of who shows more neediness towards the other / see who wins the battle of superiority)

Rayzorblade

United States1172 Posts

April 22 2010 21:35 GMT

#45

Lets go. Take it from me. It's true if you let them go and they come back it's destined to be. Embark on your life.

Axonn

Croatia288 Posts

April 22 2010 22:10 GMT

#46

I've read whole your post (but i had no patience for replies xD). I am just a 16 year old guy and there is nothing revolutionary I can tell you, but i just felt like i have to write... something. I thought to tell you to ask yourself does she mean REALLY THAT MUCH to you!?!?! but than i asked myself if she wasn't important to you that much would you be posting the story on StarCraft forum? So like yeah it's serious.
The best thing you can do is to give her the link to this thread and just hope she really has a heart, because if there is ANYTHING left of her former emotions this should... reengage them anyhow.
Also a question pops up: how do you think you can make her happy remotely, when you are not near her? Do you plan on going back to her anytime soon?
Really I wish you good luck with solving your problem

allluckysevens7777

United States53 Posts

April 22 2010 23:00 GMT

#47

To speak on the "keeping her" side of things: given your account of the lack of communication, it'll take a little more than sitting online all night waiting (passive). Call her instead (active). Get on skype. I honestly can't blame her for not wanting to contact you, since you said that you essentially couldn't be arsed to even respond to her myspace messages. That's hurtful. I understand what you mean about being a bad communicator (I was terrible up until a year or two ago; still have progress to make). However, I still made it a point to call my (to this day) girlfriend every day when I was home from college. I even wrote stuff down to talk to her about at first. Kinda lame, but it helped and with practice I got a lot better.

Really though, I think you should go see her even if it's only for a weekend. Given your history, this will probably surprise her at the very least. And if it's financially hard for you to do this, it will make the visit all the more meaningful. "Of all the things I could be spending my money on, I choose to see you". And it's a lot harder to ignore a face than a phone call.

Of course, this is all assuming you care enough to try. If you don't, then seriously don't do anything and break up with her. It's not worth putting either of yourselves through that hurt.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Edit: want to add that I disagree vehemently with the "let her go and see if she comes back" sentiment in your situation. She will see this as "more of the same shit", not "omg want now". That notion certainly has merit, especially if she's upset over something that both of you know is trivial in the big picture. But you admit yourself that you are in the wrong here, so distancing yourself (the whole issue in the first place) will not help.

Ghardo

Germany1685 Posts

April 22 2010 23:06 GMT

#48

On April 23 2010 06:35 Rayzorblade wrote:
Lets go. Take it from me. It's true if you let them go and they come back it's destined to be. Embark on your life.

read through rayzorblade's blogs. it might enlighten you quite a bit

Hypnosis

United States2061 Posts

April 22 2010 23:36 GMT

#49

aw how touching

Prev 1 2 3 All

Please or register to reply.

Girls, Love, And The Distance Inbetween... - Page 3

Completed

Ongoing

Upcoming