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Heyoka
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Katowice25012 Posts
September 01 2009 18:35 GMT
#21
That dude either has some serious balls or is the dumbest motherfucker alive
@RealHeyoka | ESL / DreamHack StarCraft Lead
iNcontroL *
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
USA29055 Posts
September 01 2009 18:37 GMT
#22
rek and I agree
Kurosaki
Profile Joined August 2008
United States158 Posts
September 01 2009 18:46 GMT
#23
On September 01 2009 19:35 LilClinkin wrote:
If you have a crush on a girl, who you know is in a stable relationship with another guy for at least 2 years, do you tell her?

The answer should be obvious unless I'm a douche.

Give reasons as to why/why not tell her.

Reason 1: The answer should be obvious unless I'm a douche.
Reason 2: Use Reason 1.

Does it make a difference if you know the guy?

Of course. I got his number, home address, and knowledge of where he'll be. Knowing is half the battle

But yea, you'll feel more shitty if I'm a friend and not a stranger.

Does it make you a shit bloke if you tell her?

I'm scared even if she doesn't have a bf. You gotta give the other guy credit.

Does it make it bad if you've befriended her under the pretense that you yourself have a girlfriend, yet in fact you actually broke up with said girlfriend a month ago?

Don't tell me you never lied to get some. People lie all the time to make them look good.
FabledIntegral
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States9232 Posts
September 01 2009 20:26 GMT
#24
On September 01 2009 20:22 coltrane wrote:
Show nested quote +
On September 01 2009 20:06 FabledIntegral wrote:
"Why would you lose a chance of connecting wiht someone?"

Because that person is in a friggin' relationship. Respect that, don't be a dick about it. I'd like to think people have the common decency to do such a thing, just as I'd like to assume people have the decency not to cheat, etc. Same concept, you don't fuck with people in relationships, not only does it bring drama/mistrust, it's just morally wrong [to me].

I'd personally tell the guy to fuck off, and assuming he wasn't significantly stronger than me, probably try to start a fight with him if he didn't stop hitting on my girl or telling her that he has feelings for her. In fact, I've never ever told someone in my life, whether gf or just a friend "don't hang out with this person" but I probably would in this case.



Some relationships are sick, many of them are wrong. Respect shouldn be normed, it should be earned. If i dont know you why should i respect your status? I have complete trust in my girfriend as she does to me. If she knew someone she would tell me, as i would too. I never ask a girl if she is in a relationship, is not important to me. Should be important to her, and if it is she will tell me and then we could talk about respect, but with her, not with her boyfriend. Thats my moral sense, is not like yours, and is respectfull and honest.

I agree with the bold part, but not with the italic part. I would just tell her that i dont like him at all, but for me she can do whatever she wants.


It was under the condition he doesn't constantly stop hitting on her. I'd either do that, or beat the shit out of him.
coltrane
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
Chile988 Posts
September 01 2009 21:45 GMT
#25
its her decision, dude... i think you could beat him down, but you win nothing, isnt really smart. Unless of course she is upset too. Then i would kick his ass.
Jävla skit
arb
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Noobville17922 Posts
September 01 2009 21:50 GMT
#26
Introduce his face to Mr.Fist
Artillery spawned from the forges of Hell
d3_crescentia
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
United States4054 Posts
September 01 2009 22:32 GMT
#27
You could show no jealousy and ask your GF to introduce you guys and be BFF with him. And, I dunno, ruin his life through a series of small subtle moves so the only person he can turn to is you, since your GF will see him as a big loser.
once, not long ago, there was a moon here
inertinept
Profile Blog Joined May 2008
Bangladesh1195 Posts
September 01 2009 22:45 GMT
#28
i think your forgetting the other piece of the puzzle. what if you and this guy decide your totally gay for eachother and you leave your gf? seems like she is trying to prevent this from happening by turning this guy straight.
With a gust of wind, perhaps.
CharlieMurphy
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
United States22895 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-09-02 00:23:47
September 02 2009 00:23 GMT
#29
On September 01 2009 20:51 Chill wrote:
Your girlfriend either likes the guy or is just telling you about it to get a jealous reaction out of you. It's probably the latter or you wouldn't know aobut the situation. Tell her to stop seeing the guy or you're through. There's no reason for her to hang around a guy who openly said he wants her.

This. (with another option that maybe she's just low self esteem and it makes her feel good to be able to have power over the situation when hanging out with the crushing guy)
On September 01 2009 21:54 Rekrul wrote:
"I'd really appreciate it if you stayed away from my GF. Not that I'm worried that a loser like you could steal her, but it's just annoying, so fuck off. Thanks!"

then if he gets snide or sarcastic punch him in the teeth


and this.
..and then I would, ya know, check em'. (Aka SpoR)
Roffles *
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
Pitcairn19291 Posts
September 02 2009 00:26 GMT
#30
On September 02 2009 03:35 heyoka wrote:
That dude either has some serious balls or is the dumbest motherfucker alive

I'd be willing to be on the dumbest motherfucker alive.

God Bless
Romance_us
Profile Joined March 2006
Seychelles1806 Posts
September 02 2009 00:33 GMT
#31
Are there seriously not enough fucking girls in this world? I hate douchebags..
Notes and feelings, numbers and reason. The ultimate equilibrium.
geometryb
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
United States1249 Posts
September 02 2009 01:25 GMT
#32
if i had a crush on someone else's girl, i would probably tell her after trying to get her to like me and i thought there was a high chance of success. kind of like jim and pam in the office. its because it would make me happy. no regrets! might make me a shit bloke, but to hell with the world.

if there was another guy, i would be super paranoid and try to step up my game.
Sadistx
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Zimbabwe5568 Posts
September 02 2009 02:53 GMT
#33
On September 02 2009 09:33 Romance_us wrote:
Are there seriously not enough fucking girls in this world? I hate douchebags..

There are definitely not enough girls fucking the guys who try to steal girlfriends
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