EPTBut yeah talk to Tom first
Morality Dilemma - Page 2
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JohannesH
Finland1364 Posts
But yeah talk to Tom first | ||
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huameng
United States1133 Posts
On January 26 2010 15:56 numLoCK wrote: Do not tell the girl. Talk to 'Tom', and tell him what you think. You said the guy had a GF right? WTF is he doing, talk some sense into him... This is exactly correct. For the love of god don't talk to any girl about this though, that'll bring a shitstorm I don't think anyone wants to deal with | ||
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Mastermind
Canada7096 Posts
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WheelOfTime
Canada331 Posts
On January 26 2010 16:58 Mastermind wrote: If she knows he has a girlfriend then there is nothing for you to say. If she doesnt then you should tell him to do the right thing, but you telling her behind his back would be a douche thing to do. She knows. But she thinks he'll choose her over his GF, at least that's what he tells her. And yes, I will try and talk some sense into him. | ||
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stenole
Norway869 Posts
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lazz
Australia3119 Posts
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madnessman
United States1581 Posts
On January 07 2010 07:32 Chill wrote: Let's look at your last three blogs: 1. You are poor and starving but you're actually not. 2. You are a recovering alcoholic but you're actually not. 3. Your girlfriend is having a baby but she's actually not. 4. You are in a huge moral dilemma, but you're actually not. -_-;; | ||
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enzym
Germany1034 Posts
On January 26 2010 14:27 WheelOfTime wrote: your friend is a clown.he [...] went out with her on a few dates and got to kiss her, going to keep it up and try to get her to sleep with him. On January 26 2010 14:27 WheelOfTime wrote: i dont see the dilemma here at all. no clue about you, but i choose people i affiliate with by their morals (values, these things people use to determine how they behave), by whether or not i get along with them and then by common interests. in this order. any of these missing reduces the reason for me to interact with them.I also feel obligated to uphold the implied confidentially between Tom and I as he put his trust in me by telling me what he intended to do in the first place. Your thoughts on this matter? why do you value your relationship with your friend if not for the nice person he is? choices (the setting of priorities) like these make you into the person you are so either you are an honest person and tell her, or you are not, dont care about things like that and cover your friend. so which is it? simple question. there is no inbetween. if that doesnt convince you try this: didnt cathy also put her trust in you? especially after you are the one who introcuded them to each other. tom decided that trust is not important for him, clearly indicated by the fact that he is going to misuse cathy's trust, and even told you about it (and he is probably also cheating on his gf if she doesnt know about this). does that not take the responbility to respect his trust off of you? | ||
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MoltkeWarding
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enzym
Germany1034 Posts
On January 26 2010 18:13 stenole wrote: Preempt the whole situation by telling his GF. clever and equally mean. i admire your observational ability in this case. On January 26 2010 19:17 MoltkeWarding wrote: Preempt Tom by asking Cathy out yourself. wooo, lots of interesting people here! | ||
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St3MoR
Spain3256 Posts
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Cambium
United States16368 Posts
On January 26 2010 18:59 madnessman wrote: 4. You are in a huge moral dilemma, but you're actually not. -_-;; End of discussion. I somehow knew it was him when I only read the blog title. lol | ||
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lOvOlUNiMEDiA
United States643 Posts
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WheelOfTime
Canada331 Posts
On January 26 2010 19:44 Cambium wrote: End of discussion. I somehow knew it was him when I only read the blog title. lol On one hand, I'm betraying a friend. He wouldn't have told me what he did if he knew I was going to tell the girl. On the other hand, I'm going to keep my silence and watch someone get really hurt. If you don't see the big fucking dilemma here, then I guess you can just GTFO. Insensitive cunts. | ||
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SK.Testie
Canada11084 Posts
You have a universe to save. | ||
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IceCube
Croatia1403 Posts
On January 26 2010 17:06 WheelOfTime wrote: She knows. But she thinks he'll choose her over his GF, at least that's what he tells her. And yes, I will try and talk some sense into him. Damn, I just love bitches that are crazy like that. I mean wtf they expect from merried/in a relationship guys? Will they really leave their wifes? no. Will they leave their gf's? possibly but still not likely. If I were you I wouldn't say a word if she knows about his gf and then when she gets her heart broken I would use the situation to take advantage of her. Just like dump girls/guys deserve. | ||
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Piy
Scotland3152 Posts
sounds like a douche anyway lol | ||
CTStalker
Canada9720 Posts
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enzym
Germany1034 Posts
On January 26 2010 20:10 WheelOfTime wrote: On one hand, I'm betraying a friend. He wouldn't have told me what he did if he knew I was going to tell the girl. On the other hand, I'm going to keep my silence and watch someone get really hurt. If you don't see the big fucking dilemma here, then I guess you can just GTFO. Insensitive cunts. wow. youre just as much a douche as "tom". go stick with him. | ||
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SkylineSC
United States564 Posts
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