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On July 02 2015 23:50 Requizen wrote: Actually, the "which movie will be a classic" one isn't bad if you both like films, whether it's someone you know or a random date. I often like to think about what media (books, films, comics, etc) from our generation will stand the test of time and still be regarded by our great-grandchildren. With so many new movies, books, tv shows, etc coming out at an increasingly rapid rate, and everything being recorded thanks to the information age, we're kind of getting to a point where there will just be an abundance of fiction and non-fiction out there for people to consume.
I mean, I think Ender's Game is still a gem of science fiction writing and coming of age stories, but in the future will young people still read it? My sister is a teacher and she said she already has high school kids who haven't read or watched Harry Potter and think it's out of style, while people from our generation (or older!) consider it nearly essential reading.
It's just interesting to think about, and probably decent date discussion material. You worry about what to discuss while you're on a date with your fiancee? I thought we were talking blind date stuff.
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My 14 yr old sister is currently reading Ender's Game for the 2nd time
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On July 02 2015 23:56 WaveofShadow wrote:Show nested quote +On July 02 2015 23:50 Requizen wrote: Actually, the "which movie will be a classic" one isn't bad if you both like films, whether it's someone you know or a random date. I often like to think about what media (books, films, comics, etc) from our generation will stand the test of time and still be regarded by our great-grandchildren. With so many new movies, books, tv shows, etc coming out at an increasingly rapid rate, and everything being recorded thanks to the information age, we're kind of getting to a point where there will just be an abundance of fiction and non-fiction out there for people to consume.
I mean, I think Ender's Game is still a gem of science fiction writing and coming of age stories, but in the future will young people still read it? My sister is a teacher and she said she already has high school kids who haven't read or watched Harry Potter and think it's out of style, while people from our generation (or older!) consider it nearly essential reading.
It's just interesting to think about, and probably decent date discussion material. You worry about what to discuss while you're on a date with your fiancee? I thought we were talking blind date stuff. No, but it is nice to have different conversation topics than the usual. We have regular conversations, but finding something new to talk about that we wouldn't have come up with ourselves is good too.
And I honestly think it would work quite well on a blind date if you picked the right questions. Better than "what do you do for a living" "what are your hobbies" etc, something off-script would at least make you stand out if nothing else.
On July 02 2015 23:56 jcarlsoniv wrote: My 14 yr old sister is currently reading Ender's Game for the 2nd time Thank goodness. The sequels can fade out if need be (except maybe Speaker for the Dead), but as long as the original remains relevant I can maintain my hope in humanity.
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The issue with the "which movie will be a classic" is that you have to first establish you both likes films enough for the question to be relevant and then when your established that natural topics like that question will naturally pop up if you want them to so going in with a mindset of "I will ask this question" seems a bit silly?
Well I'm single and you getting married so what the fuck do I know.
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On July 03 2015 00:17 Numy wrote: The issue with the "which movie will be a classic" is that you have to first establish you both likes films enough for the question to be relevant and then when your established that natural topics like that question will naturally pop up if you want them to so going in with a mindset of "I will ask this question" seems a bit silly?
Well I'm single and you getting married so what the fuck do I know. Well obviously it's not the first thing you ask when you sit down, and you can extend it to other forms of media as well if they prefer books, tv, or games.
It just works for me, thought I would share it with other people to try.
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I'm almost certain we talked about having kids on our first date.
Edit: I realize how syntactically ambiguous that sounds.
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On July 03 2015 00:27 WaveofShadow wrote: I'm almost certain we talked about having kids on our first date.
Edit: I realize how syntactically ambiguous that sounds. "Hi!" "Hi! You seem like a good lad, want to come back to my place and make babies?" "Sounds good to me!"
The Wave way.
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At least they didn't have trust issues. Going raw on first date. The Wave way.
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I haven't met many people recently who wouldn't find "which movies do you think will be classics a few years from now" weird, because it's pretty engaged in the movie topic and they don't care that much about it. Then again I'm under the impression that unless people are passionate about a brought up topic and willing to talk about it to other people, it's pretty hard to get them to open up.
Also holy fuck Spain, god dammit. Satiric drawing of politicians illegal? Signs saying mean stuff about the Spanish nation illegal? Sit-ins (in effect) illegal? France is in a really shitty spot (although it's more in the cities than the central government for the far-right stuff) but wtf really.
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Alaric why is Europe turning to shit? Seems everywhere I wanted to go is turning to shit. How is Canada?
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Come to the Netherlands, we're too busy circlejerking about taxes to make offensive laws.
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On July 03 2015 00:27 WaveofShadow wrote: I'm almost certain we talked about having kids on our first date.
Edit: I realize how syntactically ambiguous that sounds.
Mine was about how I didn't know what bok choi was, how I spend my Friday nights playing Pokemon D&D, and about replacing words from LotR quotes with "pants" (such as my personal favorite: "There will come a day when the pants of men must fall... but it is not this day!")
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On July 03 2015 01:29 AsmodeusXI wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2015 00:27 WaveofShadow wrote: I'm almost certain we talked about having kids on our first date.
Edit: I realize how syntactically ambiguous that sounds. Mine was about how I didn't know what bok choi was, how I spend my Friday nights playing Pokemon D&D, and about replacing words from LotR quotes with "pants" (such as my personal favorite: "There will come a day when the pants of men must fall... but it is not this day!") I didn't reveal my WoW obsession for quite a while. Then I got her hooked.
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On July 03 2015 01:29 AsmodeusXI wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2015 00:27 WaveofShadow wrote: I'm almost certain we talked about having kids on our first date.
Edit: I realize how syntactically ambiguous that sounds. Mine was about how I didn't know what bok choi was, how I spend my Friday nights playing Pokemon D&D, and about replacing words from LotR quotes with "pants" (such as my personal favorite: "There will come a day when the pants of men must fall... but it is not this day!")
I am no man, you look upon pants.
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On July 03 2015 01:58 WaveofShadow wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2015 01:29 AsmodeusXI wrote:On July 03 2015 00:27 WaveofShadow wrote: I'm almost certain we talked about having kids on our first date.
Edit: I realize how syntactically ambiguous that sounds. Mine was about how I didn't know what bok choi was, how I spend my Friday nights playing Pokemon D&D, and about replacing words from LotR quotes with "pants" (such as my personal favorite: "There will come a day when the pants of men must fall... but it is not this day!") I didn't reveal my WoW obsession for quite a while. Then I got her hooked.
So is WoW more taboo than babies? Those little poop flingers -_-
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On July 03 2015 02:03 Numy wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2015 01:58 WaveofShadow wrote:On July 03 2015 01:29 AsmodeusXI wrote:On July 03 2015 00:27 WaveofShadow wrote: I'm almost certain we talked about having kids on our first date.
Edit: I realize how syntactically ambiguous that sounds. Mine was about how I didn't know what bok choi was, how I spend my Friday nights playing Pokemon D&D, and about replacing words from LotR quotes with "pants" (such as my personal favorite: "There will come a day when the pants of men must fall... but it is not this day!") I didn't reveal my WoW obsession for quite a while. Then I got her hooked. So is WoW more taboo than babies? Those little poop flingers -_-
They prefer "Horde"
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On July 03 2015 01:14 Numy wrote: Alaric why is Europe turning to shit? Seems everywhere I wanted to go is turning to shit. How is Canada?
It's not in a particularly great spot.
+ Show Spoiler +Harper isn't a very good prime minister in terms of being a good person, although he seems to do fine in terms of economics or w/e. There's a lot of nation-state protection focused stuff passing lately that has people ruffled up because they finally affect white organizing/organizers whereas previously they were almost exclusively targeting Muslim and Indigenous groups.
Here is a simple illustrated recent example:
I was born in Canada, have lived here my whole life aside from a handful of vacations, and I have citizenship status. Both of my parents have citizenship status and were born in Canada. All of my grandparents had citizenship status and were born in Canada. All of my great grandparents had citizenship status, and half of them were born in Canada. So on and so forth.
I have Nikkei status in Japanese law. This basically means I'm a person of whole or partial Japanese descent, born outside of Japan, and who doesn't currently and has never in the past held Japanese citizenship. This makes me eligible to apply for Japanese citizenship (which is normally impossible or difficult), although I have to pass various tests and such (which I have no chance of passing).
Under the recent Bill C-24 in Canadian law, persons who either currently have citizenship status in another country, have had it in the past, or are currently eligible for it (me) fall into a secondary class of citizens. People in this second class are eligible to have our Canadian citizenship revoked upon charges of terrorism / treason / threatening national security. As long as you don't do those things this isn't too much of a problem, except...
Under the recent Bill C-51 in Canadian law, the definition of those crimes has been expanded greatly. Currently, being suspected of these crimes is enough to be detained / arrested for them, which is also grounds to be charged for them. So basically, any second class citizen who is merely suspected of various crimes is eligible to have their Canadian citizenship status taken away.
Under the same Bill C-51, basically any kind of anti-nationalist, decolonial, or indigenous protest can be qualified as threatening national security due to the overly vague wording of the bill (it's been slammed by lawyers but it still passed). This includes protesting various government bills, such as Bills C-51 and C-24 themselves, as the current government can't handle being called out on it's white supremacy etc.
These laws intersect with other problematic Canadian bills. For example, a Palestinian person in Canada recently had their citizenship status in Canada revoked and they were deported back to Israel. This person was never charged with national-security threatening crimes in Canada, but their punishment was requested by the government of Israel, and the Canadian government consented to this international extension of these two bills. So basically any kind of refugee is pretty boned at this point.
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Sigh you were meant to just say yes! . This whole trend of creating laws to "fight terrorism" that don't actually do anything to stop terrorism is rather depressing. Innocent people getting hurt for some kind of "greater good" that doesn't exist. I don't really get how companies benefit from it either so to me it just looks like a bunch of terrified out of touch people making decisions based on their initial reactions.
On July 03 2015 02:05 jcarlsoniv wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2015 02:03 Numy wrote:On July 03 2015 01:58 WaveofShadow wrote:On July 03 2015 01:29 AsmodeusXI wrote:On July 03 2015 00:27 WaveofShadow wrote: I'm almost certain we talked about having kids on our first date.
Edit: I realize how syntactically ambiguous that sounds. Mine was about how I didn't know what bok choi was, how I spend my Friday nights playing Pokemon D&D, and about replacing words from LotR quotes with "pants" (such as my personal favorite: "There will come a day when the pants of men must fall... but it is not this day!") I didn't reveal my WoW obsession for quite a while. Then I got her hooked. So is WoW more taboo than babies? Those little poop flingers -_- They prefer "Horde"
Smooooth
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On July 03 2015 02:05 jcarlsoniv wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2015 02:03 Numy wrote:On July 03 2015 01:58 WaveofShadow wrote:On July 03 2015 01:29 AsmodeusXI wrote:On July 03 2015 00:27 WaveofShadow wrote: I'm almost certain we talked about having kids on our first date.
Edit: I realize how syntactically ambiguous that sounds. Mine was about how I didn't know what bok choi was, how I spend my Friday nights playing Pokemon D&D, and about replacing words from LotR quotes with "pants" (such as my personal favorite: "There will come a day when the pants of men must fall... but it is not this day!") I didn't reveal my WoW obsession for quite a while. Then I got her hooked. So is WoW more taboo than babies? Those little poop flingers -_- They prefer "Horde" Fight me Alliance Scum
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I read enders game over the course of this trip, and honestly I did not like it so much.
I liked a lot of the science fictiony parts, but it also had a lot of psychological parts that to me were pretty dumb. Id just sit there imagining the 14 year old boy who reads it and uses it material to stoke the fires of him defying his parents and thinking he's more amazing than he is.
When I have children, I will raise them on Evangelion and Akira, and they will turn out very normal and well adjusted.
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