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On May 12 2015 21:06 Numy wrote:
Body image problems happen with everyone and suck so much :<. I attempted to date last year but looked in the mirror and thought nah no one would like me.
edit: Fildun is your best friend gay? Coz ye I can imagine wanting to trade sexuality for that lol
Yeah and he's hot by most standards. Not a whole lot more than that to it tbh :p
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On May 12 2015 21:04 Fildun wrote:Show nested quote +On May 12 2015 21:02 Lord Tolkien wrote:On May 12 2015 20:48 Fildun wrote:On May 12 2015 20:03 Lord Tolkien wrote:On May 12 2015 19:58 Fildun wrote:On May 12 2015 19:49 Lord Tolkien wrote:
life would be so much easier if I were straight, zzzzz Wanna switch? :p possibly, but why though If I was gay I'd be dating. hooking up maybe dating...see above, plus body image problems D: I already know who I'd be dating though (probably). Body image problems suck though
ahhhh, i see
yep, that's the dream~
+ Show Spoiler +Now that we're on this topic, I really need to find more time to go to the gym, because these fucking love handles
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On May 12 2015 20:11 Lord Tolkien wrote:
try finding a serious relationship as a gay dude
-.-;
LOL you need to start applying the tried and true girl tactics for weeding out the guys that only want sex so you find how many are interested in a relationship
and then find that number is zero and become a bitter feminist
On May 12 2015 21:20 Fildun wrote:Show nested quote +On May 12 2015 21:06 Numy wrote:
Body image problems happen with everyone and suck so much :<. I attempted to date last year but looked in the mirror and thought nah no one would like me.
edit: Fildun is your best friend gay? Coz ye I can imagine wanting to trade sexuality for that lol Yeah and he's hot by most standards. Not a whole lot more than that to it tbh :p
WK we've been over this i wouldn't date you even if we were both gay you're out of my league m8
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Eh I wouldn't mind even hook-ups, see.
Body image is... uh. I'm clearly stronger than before, but I have this weird feeling where part of my arms, belly and sides of the torso got slightly bigger, but rest of the torso didn't (and I already looked like someone punched my sternum in).
Also fat is still there so I'm getting wider above the hips but not everywhere else, making the contrast even bigger.
I think I'm healthier, doing some exercise and diversifying my diet, but I've been looking worse aesthetically speaking. Feels weird. :|
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Change takes time. Shouldn't expect to be different in a few months let alone a few weeks. Just keep at it :D
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Yeah the fat clearly won't go away just because I grew some muscles. But it went from "slim everywhere -> fat at one place -> bigger at some places including that one but not others, and fat still there so look even fatter/worse".
If it was doing that for the looks (well, eliminating the fat kinda is, but it's for me anyway) and not general health, it'd feel counter-productive and discouraging.
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@Teut, Scip would murder me if we did so that's out of the question for me as well
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On May 12 2015 21:41 Alaric wrote:
Yeah the fat clearly won't go away just because I grew some muscles. But it went from "slim everywhere -> fat at one place -> bigger at some places including that one but not others, and fat still there so look even fatter/worse".
If it was doing that for the looks (well, eliminating the fat kinda is, but it's for me anyway) and not general health, it'd feel counter-productive and discouraging.
You're gettin' old bro - the fat is inevitable.
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On May 12 2015 21:41 Alaric wrote:
Yeah the fat clearly won't go away just because I grew some muscles. But it went from "slim everywhere -> fat at one place -> bigger at some places including that one but not others, and fat still there so look even fatter/worse".
If it was doing that for the looks (well, eliminating the fat kinda is, but it's for me anyway) and not general health, it'd feel counter-productive and discouraging.
Fat will only really go away with diet change. From my experience of going from slim -> fat -> muscles is that I don't really know how my body SHOULD look with actual muscles so some of it feels out of place but after awhile you just get used to it. Like now I actually have a bit of pex going which is super weird as I've been rather thin throughout my life so having muscle there looks wrong lol. I have this random fat on my neck that won't go away which pisses me off a bit too.
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On May 12 2015 21:45 jcarlsoniv wrote:Show nested quote +On May 12 2015 21:41 Alaric wrote:
Yeah the fat clearly won't go away just because I grew some muscles. But it went from "slim everywhere -> fat at one place -> bigger at some places including that one but not others, and fat still there so look even fatter/worse".
If it was doing that for the looks (well, eliminating the fat kinda is, but it's for me anyway) and not general health, it'd feel counter-productive and discouraging. You're gettin' old bro - the fat is inevitable.
Don't you spread those lies! 
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On May 12 2015 21:58 mordek wrote:Show nested quote +On May 12 2015 21:45 jcarlsoniv wrote:On May 12 2015 21:41 Alaric wrote:
Yeah the fat clearly won't go away just because I grew some muscles. But it went from "slim everywhere -> fat at one place -> bigger at some places including that one but not others, and fat still there so look even fatter/worse".
If it was doing that for the looks (well, eliminating the fat kinda is, but it's for me anyway) and not general health, it'd feel counter-productive and discouraging. You're gettin' old bro - the fat is inevitable. Don't you spread those lies!
Not everyone can be as juicy as you sir.
Life is HARD.
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I'm pretty sure spending last summer/autumn so stressed out, frequently lacking sleep and eating stuff like chocolate to stave it off in the evenings, all while being a potato, has more to say about my fat level than age.
Not that it didn't play a part, I'm pretty sure my body would have stomached it 2-3 years ago.
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A friend of mine and his wife are going to Blizzcon. I'm paying him half a million gold for his wife's Overwatch key presuming keys are given out at Blizzcon. >.>
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On May 12 2015 21:01 Numy wrote:Show nested quote +On May 12 2015 15:18 Cixah wrote:
Man,
I hate it when I sit in my room. Surrounded by the things I know make me less sad, when all they do is make those I want to be in relationships with ultimately think that I'm not relationship material. It really fucking sucks. There's no point being in a relationship with someone that doesn't let you like what you like. Someone will come along that will accept you for what you are. So don't feel down Zombie.
It's very easy to end up alone with that mindset.
Also the idea that "life would be easier if I was gay" is very popular in certain groups on the internet someone might label as "misogynistic".
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On May 12 2015 22:05 AsmodeusXI wrote:Show nested quote +On May 12 2015 21:58 mordek wrote:On May 12 2015 21:45 jcarlsoniv wrote:On May 12 2015 21:41 Alaric wrote:
Yeah the fat clearly won't go away just because I grew some muscles. But it went from "slim everywhere -> fat at one place -> bigger at some places including that one but not others, and fat still there so look even fatter/worse".
If it was doing that for the looks (well, eliminating the fat kinda is, but it's for me anyway) and not general health, it'd feel counter-productive and discouraging. You're gettin' old bro - the fat is inevitable. Don't you spread those lies! Not everyone can be as juicy as you sir. Life is HARD.
Nah, it's just priorities and choices 
Keep at it Alaric. Best thing you can do is be consistent.
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I'm rather be happy and alone than be unhappy and with someone else. Relationships aren't about making an unhappy person happy. At the same time completely changing who you are just because someone else wants you to is more often than not going to end badly. If someone doesn't like every aspect of what I like to do to feel happy then chances are after you change all those things the relationship won't work out anyway and you are left without any of your mechanisms. There are obviously instances of someone promoting good chance within yourself but that change still has to be something you want to do.
Being trans isn't about sexuality. There are plenty of "straight" trans people. It's about how the person identifies his/her gender.
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On May 12 2015 22:23 Seuss wrote:
A friend of mine and his wife are going to Blizzcon. I'm paying him half a million gold for his wife's Overwatch key presuming keys are given out at Blizzcon. >.>
Didn't they stop giving out keys at Blizzcon ages ago?
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On May 12 2015 22:23 Seuss wrote:
A friend of mine and his wife are going to Blizzcon. I'm paying him half a million gold for his wife's Overwatch key presuming keys are given out at Blizzcon. >.>
You uh...got an extra half mil?
On May 12 2015 22:29 Numy wrote:
I'm rather be happy and alone than be unhappy and with someone else. Relationships aren't about making an unhappy person happy. At the same time completely changing who you are just because someone else wants you to is more often than not going to end badly. If someone doesn't like every aspect of what I like to do to feel happy then chances are after you change all those things the relationship won't work out anyway and you are left without any of your mechanisms. There are obviously instances of someone promoting good chance within yourself but that change still has to be something you want to do.
This is more or less my mindset. Having been in a relationship where she greatly disliked my gaming habits and actively worked against them, I really became unhappy after a while.
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On May 12 2015 22:23 AlterKot wrote:Show nested quote +On May 12 2015 21:01 Numy wrote:On May 12 2015 15:18 Cixah wrote:
Man,
I hate it when I sit in my room. Surrounded by the things I know make me less sad, when all they do is make those I want to be in relationships with ultimately think that I'm not relationship material. It really fucking sucks. There's no point being in a relationship with someone that doesn't let you like what you like. Someone will come along that will accept you for what you are. So don't feel down Zombie. It's very easy to end up alone with that mindset. Also the idea that "life would be easier if I was gay" is very popular in certain groups on the internet someone might label as "misogynistic". I don't want to sound judgemental but perhaps it's the reason some people go trans?
LOL wat
yeah bro i want to have sex with dudes thats why im gonna chop my dick off
alterkot pls stick to playing corki
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On May 12 2015 22:33 WaveofShadow wrote:Show nested quote +On May 12 2015 22:23 Seuss wrote:
A friend of mine and his wife are going to Blizzcon. I'm paying him half a million gold for his wife's Overwatch key presuming keys are given out at Blizzcon. >.> Didn't they stop giving out keys at Blizzcon ages ago?
Blizzard stopped giving out beta keys in the Blizzcon swag bag, but when they did they made it so that people who go to Blizzcon are more likely to get keys.
I'm mostly just hedging bets, and I don't really have any other use for the gold at this point. The next time Tokens hit a low I'll be able to buy 3 years of WoW, at which point it's like "What do I do with stupid amounts of gold?"
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