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Ketara
United States15065 Posts
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jcarlsoniv
United States27922 Posts
On March 06 2015 03:53 ComaDose wrote: I would have gay sex for a million dollars but it wouldn't change my orientation. "gay" kisses for "strait" blowjobs is a different deal i would probably have to be drunk and horny. not that there's anything wrong with that | ||
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Holyflare
United Kingdom30775 Posts
On March 06 2015 03:54 jcarlsoniv wrote: not that there's anything wrong with that prostitution is illegal bro | ||
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ComaDose
Canada10357 Posts
you wouldn't download a prostitute. | ||
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jcarlsoniv
United States27922 Posts
it's not prostitution, it's quid pro blow | ||
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Ketara
United States15065 Posts
I thought Canada legalized it like 3 years ago or so. | ||
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Slayer91
Ireland23342 Posts
no way you invented that just now | ||
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wei2coolman
United States60033 Posts
you can't tell me what I can or can't download. | ||
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ComaDose
Canada10357 Posts
On March 06 2015 03:57 wei2coolman wrote: you can't tell me what I can or can't download. net neutrality | ||
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Requizen
United States33802 Posts
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Holyflare
United Kingdom30775 Posts
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Ketara
United States15065 Posts
On March 06 2015 03:59 Requizen wrote: Dude everyone's a little bit gay. It's more of a sliding scale than a binary. | ||
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JonGalt
Pootie too good!4331 Posts
On March 06 2015 03:24 mordek wrote: owb I don't know what's going on so please take this with my best intentions. Maybe you're too focused on finding worth / completeness in the opinions and company of other people. When you are content with who you are, you're able to then enter into a meaningful relationship. Dependent people are not ready for a healthy relationship. Independent people might be, but it can be shallow as they rely on only themselves. Interdependent people will have healthy relationships. I understand the nerves and anxiety and frustration at shortcomings, I've been there. I'm also a few years ahead of you and looking back you realize you're just in the process of figuring yourself out. You fixate on the wrong things etc. Rejection and lost love are not going to make you less of a person. I wish I had more time to construct a post while at work but I'm just rambling things off. You'll be so much happier when you encounter a person who supplements and complements who you are than if you find someone you think will fill some void in you. I'd like to bump this from the bottom of the page cause it makes so much sense. I feel our generation grew up in a time of transition where when we were young it was important to be normal and accepted by other people's standards and as we have grown up there is all this be unique, do you, who cares if you like hentai, dicks, vaginas, books, working on cars, etc. Just being you is important. I think it makes sense for these reasons why you know you shouldn't care but for whatever reason you do. You're fighting with what you know to be true with what you were raised with. I think that's something everyone struggles with. Focusing on yourself is really important because if you don't feel confident/like yourself then why will other people? And I find that sometimes people see this in each other and they say well let's just go out and have a good time, that'll fix it. While I will never say having fun is bad, sometimes the answer can be to take a step back and really examine what it is about your life that's making you feel this way. But that's easier said than done. It's difficult and you really have to remove yourself from the world. I would suggest going off the grid for a while. Remove yourself from social media, cell phone, games and other distractions. Take some time to sit in silence and just think. People rarely just sit and think anymore. It's too boring. They end up on their phones, etc. I'm not saying you should go Henry David throw yourself out in the woods for months at a time, but take a few hours and just find a comfy place to chill, or go for a walk (but weather ewwww). There definitely seems to be something bothering you, but you can't get over it until you figure it out (or even more difficult, just admitting it). Be really honest with yourself. But don't hate. Don't be condescending. You're a beautiful awesome person and deserve the world, but it ain't gonna be handed to you on a silver platter! It's hard work to live and even harder to love living, but you can do it  And as always we're always here to help our read a long venting post (I would suggest writing too. You'd be surprised what you will put down on paper once you get going), or just write it in your own privacy! I'm sure there are also many people here who would be more than happy to receive a PM, myself included, if you wanted it to be more private. Good luck owb positive thoughts breeds positive behavior!! | ||
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JonGalt
Pootie too good!4331 Posts
ps super lawlz at quid pro blow. | ||
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Ketara
United States15065 Posts
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jcarlsoniv
United States27922 Posts
On March 06 2015 03:57 Slayer91 wrote: HAHAHAHAHA no way you invented that just now I'm sure it's not the first time someone's thought of it, maybe I even read it somewhere and subconsciously "came up" with it. | ||
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Numy
South Africa35471 Posts
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Slayer91
Ireland23342 Posts
On March 06 2015 03:59 Requizen wrote: Dude everyone's a little bit gay. It's more of a sliding scale than a binary. p sure this is just some shit put forward by women's studies majors i think for nearly all guys its very close to binary (cept bi guys lel) ive read stories on reddit which im pretty sure is confirmed truth liek some girl wines and dines some lesbian takes her home starts making out and then when they are both naked she's like "shit im not gay" wat ive never heard of a guy "experimenting" with sucking dicks in college then realizing he's straight | ||
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Holyflare
United Kingdom30775 Posts
On March 06 2015 04:16 Slayer91 wrote: p sure this is just some shit put forward by women's studies majors i think for nearly all guys its very close to binary (cept bi guys lel) ive read stories on reddit which im pretty sure is confirmed truth liek some girl wines and dines some lesbian takes her home starts making out and then when they are both naked she's like "shit im not gay" wat ive never heard of a guy "experimenting" with sucking dicks in college then realizing he's straight because it's a lot more open for women to discuss these things and socially acceptable whereas the male version isn't so much that being said, i've heard of plenty of guys experimenting with guys and realising they are straight | ||
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Numy
South Africa35471 Posts
On March 06 2015 04:19 Holyflare wrote: because it's a lot more open for women to discuss these things and socially acceptable whereas the male version isn't so much that being said, i've heard of plenty of guys experimenting with guys and realising they are straight Pretty much. A girl "experimenting" with another girl is considered something that is done and talked about where as guys it's all repressed. Kind of makes me sad there's "male" movement trying to open up male sexuality and traditional views of what it means to be a man. At least no big one that I know of. Sexuality isn't black and white. Some people are 100% one way or 100% the other obviously but that doesn't mean everyone feels that way. | ||
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