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Australia3818 Posts
My parents are fairly free and easy...my room is all I need really.
I guess it really does depend on your parents + how comfortable you feel...you're sure your parents would feel uncomfortable or suspicious?
I found at the start it was mostly my girlfriend who was more uncomfortable going to my house...but she warmed up quickly...and she was soon sleeping over. I couldn't make it clear to her that my parents 100% don't care if she stays...and is welcome all the time. Diff upbringings I guess.
I had to resort to what you had to do also - in my car. There is nowhere entirely 'safe' that you don't pay for - you'll always be subject to nature or the public sphere if you're out somewhere.
Aim for nice secluded spots, at a later time - the problem with this is it sometimes kills romance...having to sneak around finding somewhere to fuck and cuddle.
Hotels really are the best way...unless you have your own place...even a motel...
If it really means this much to you...make the hotel a once a month kind of thing? Split the cost with your girlfriend? I mean...sure it's more traditional for the guy to pay, but it's a relationship not a business.
Otherwise it's really just up to you to find some unique/niche kind of area to have your shits and giggles with a nice lady friend.
Edit: Shit...I see your housing predicament...
Gonna have to be a nice cushy hotel or nice and cheap motel some of the time methinks.
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man, go to Japan or Korea where Motel services are extremely incredible and everyone can afford.ROFL.anyways, if you can not afford the motel then u got 2 option:
1. home
2. public places (like what we usually see in some amateur video on the P site)
Imo, your or her house is the best option. Gg-gl
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United States24680 Posts
On November 14 2008 13:42 Ilikestarcraft wrote:Show nested quote +On November 13 2008 10:48 Kennigit wrote:
Go for a picnic....a sexy picnic. Go camping off in the woods. Build a tree fort....actually don't build a tree fort that might be dangerous. Yeah picnic or camping imo.
Also start playing more video games and get good, then you will only need 8 mins tops. Infact we should change this thread title to "help train me on iccup" Art just art
Agree 150%.
That made me love Kennigit.
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You moved BACK into your parents home... now you are worrying about where to bang your girlfriend... if this is a problem you should be spending less time with your girlfriend and more time developing your life so that this kind of problem never happens again.
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On November 14 2008 14:27 Smuft wrote:
You moved BACK into your parents home... now you are worrying about where to bang your girlfriend... if this is a problem you should be spending less time with your girlfriend and more time developing your life so that this kind of problem never happens again.
moved back in because im shipping out to the navy in a few months and wanted to make the 6k i have saved up last till I leave so I can focus on other stuff im trying to get done before I leave.
Really though its not my parents at all, they could give a crap if im doing that and they know I am. However she is really shy about this kind of thing and plus there is no area of the house that someone wont just randomly happen to walk through. You can see the entire upstairs from almost any point in the house, and the basement is just 1 giant room and a laundry room that doesn't lock.
I guess I'm just gonna have to take it day by day and see what happens.
Public places - I could give a shit, im a guy. But, I want my girl to be comfortable, and she isn't.
Her parents aren't likely to let her stay out overnight(for good reason), so camping is kinda owned. IDONO GUYZ, IM KINDA OWNED YES? FFS>>!<<
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IF your shipping out to the navy you must be at least 18, so if your GF still listens to her parents like that how old is she? Creepy factor going up right now.
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17, im 20. She is really close to her parents, I wouldnt want to put her in a situation where she has to lie to them.
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On November 13 2008 10:56 HotZhot wrote:
Elevator, bathroom (public)
lmao, that is pretty crappy. At least here...there are some really tight elevators...that was weird.
well, I guess the best option for u is what kennigit said. U don`t have to convince her parents. If u can spend 2-4 with her, then use 30 minutes to go in the woods 
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On November 14 2008 15:27 dream-_- wrote:
17, im 20. She is really close to her parents, I wouldnt want to put her in a situation where she has to lie to them.
I give. You are fucked. Not because theres nowhere to go but because:
1. You are not motivated enough to find a good spot
2. Chick is underage man. If you get caught BAM peace out.
3. wait... You just said you have fucking six grand for the next two months? HOW THE FUCK CAN YOU NOT AFFORD A HOTEL ROOM?
4. Failure to take my advice (prolly main reason you failed).
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Both of you stay @ your own houses and play a 1v1 on blue storm with no obs...yeahh that's right.
Either that or just tell your parents to leave the house for a little while b/c you need some alone time...I'm sure they would understand it's not like they have never been w/anybody before -.-
If they won't cooperate...just find the time they aren't home and use that time. Go to her house when her parent's aren't home.
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On November 14 2008 15:42 SpiralArchitect wrote:Show nested quote +On November 14 2008 15:27 dream-_- wrote:
17, im 20. She is really close to her parents, I wouldnt want to put her in a situation where she has to lie to them. I give. You are fucked. Not because theres nowhere to go but because: 1. You are not motivated enough to find a good spot 2. Chick is underage man. If you get caught BAM peace out. 3. wait... You just said you have fucking six grand for the next two months? HOW THE FUCK CAN YOU NOT AFFORD A HOTEL ROOM? 4. Failure to take my advice (prolly main reason you failed).
nah dude, my ship date is april 7th and im reclassing so its most likely going to be even later.
I have $800+ in expenses per month including food/car/auto insurance/gas/2 gym memberships/phone, it adds up. Last thing I want is to run out of money. I'm also looking for a more long term solution than pay $45 every time I want some alone time.
I have $800+ in expenses per month including food/car/auto insurance/gas/2 gym memberships/phone, it adds up.
I'm not worried about the underage thing, and im not motivated enough to find a spot she isnt gonna be comfortable with if thats what you mean. Back of my car works just fine for me
edit - in all honesty I think I'm asking the impossible. Only good solution is move out again. I think I might try to clean out the garage and carry a couch or something out there.
Or better yet, clean out the garage and park my car in there? thats so impossible god this sucks.
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I should've made a thread like this a few months ago.... :'(
P.S. it's all a matter of motivation... How bad do you want it?
That was my problem also... It wasnt convenient either, basically the same situation like you, but less money available. AND I wasn't desperate enough to save money on food or something like that. AND my gf was sickened by car sex.
ship it
P.P.S
I think the best suggestion I read here is to use your friends place, it's very doable, and that's what I should've done..
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United States24680 Posts
On November 14 2008 16:13 dream-_- wrote:
Or better yet, clean out the garage and park my car in there? thats so impossible god this sucks.
That's what I'm doing right now and it feels impossible but it will be worth it! Then again I just want to park in there... so you have MORE motivation (but I have to agree with sp1ralarchitect)...
If you trimmed down your expenses you could afford 40-80 bucks a week (save a bit on food, save on phone, etc)
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4 hours.... kudos my friend kudos =|.
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If home and motel is not an option then the most comfortable yet economic and the safest way would be to follow my advice. Even though I'm probably not the most expert person to give advice. Personally I would never do anything in public places.
Go to an Asian Karaoke place. No one will disturb you for 1 ~ 2 hours depending on how long you rent the room and it's totally private. You even get to sing a few songs with your GF if the time allows which your missus may enjoy.
Otherwise I would suggest DVD room, basically a small room with couch and TV where you can watch the DVD of your choice. Not sure if there will be any at where you live.
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mabye there are just huge cultural differences in this matter between usa and sweden. But taken that both are of legal age parents just has no fucking business intruding on privacy tbh. If you are in your or her room with a locked door they should just stay the hell out of it. That is how it works in a normal family over here atleast as far a smy experience goes. Im really troubled that you need to run outside in the middle of the fkin winter to be able to get some :/
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On November 13 2008 10:54 dream-_- wrote:If I had a room  Sleeping on the couch at the moment. I'm inner city, she lives in the burbs. Every now and then a friends place might be a possibility, but my 4 'good friends' who I would feel comfortable asking are either in college, still living at home, or have an apartment over 20 minutes away.
Might wanna put this in the op for more detailed suggestions 
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On November 15 2008 00:45 Starparty wrote:
mabye there are just huge cultural differences in this matter between usa and sweden. But taken that both are of legal age parents just has no fucking business intruding on privacy tbh. If you are in your or her room with a locked door they should just stay the hell out of it. That is how it works in a normal family over here atleast as far a smy experience goes. Im really troubled that you need to run outside in the middle of the fkin winter to be able to get some :/
17 is not legal age in USA
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It is not "legal" in the correct meaning of the word over here either. However, if both are above 15 and the age difference isnt astronomical, it is mostly a subject to common sense. If there is abuse going on it will obviously be regarded as a legal matter, but if it is a relationship like any other most parents will just stay out of it. Standard age for loosing virginity over here is between 16 and 18 years of age. Everyone is aware of it and everyone is perfectly fine with it.
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