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For my freshman year. i'll be attending Ithaca College in NY.
i've been waiting to find out my room/roommate information all summer, only to find out that my letter got lost in the mail. i call up the school yesterday, and find out the information. i facebook the kid, and the kid im going to spend the rest of the year with, is gay.
this is DEFINITELY going to be the most memorable year of my life.
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asdf, so i meant to say, anyone else have any quite interesting situations for their first year at college? or any interesting roommate in general?
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Make sure you take the lower bunk --;
hmm....man gay kid in a dorm...well as long as your not homosexually attractive I see no issue here. Its like living with a girl(or other ugly variations) you never want to have sex with right?
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Just make sure you wrap the blankets around you extra tight. 
In all seriousness this guy will probably have a lot of girl friends to hook you up with. (Best scenario)
Try to duplicate the movie Road Trip also.
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Braavos36375 Posts
whatever man, he can give you fashion tips and help you do your hair and help clean and cook while you guys have the buttsex, dont worry
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That seems like a pretty good room mate to have, honestly. Gay guys always know lots of girls and they can give you style tips (if they're not a painfully flamboyant kind). It's not like he's going to try to rape you.
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On August 16 2006 14:10 gLyo wrote: It's not like he's going to try to rape you. That's a good point...
How do you know your roomie is gay?
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Calgary25981 Posts
If he's a decent looking gay guy, he's going to have unbelievable hookups for girls.
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thedeadhaji
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having a gay roommate, is not even near the worst thing that could happen. Chances are he's a nice kid and you'll get along just fine.
Some worse possibilities: 1) crackhead 2) emo (cuts himself) 3) bipolar 4) gets piss drunk every night and pisses on the door, closet, and YOUR BED WITH YOU IN IT, often 5) will watch pr0n at high volume all day no matter what you are doing. 6) you get sexiled nightly b/c your roommate has orgies with grossly overweight women.
seriously, you'll be just fine. Acknowledge the fact that he's gay, sure, but just treat him normally.
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He's going to be just as nervous as you coming in, worrying about whether or not everyone will accept him, especially you. Be accepting about the whole thing, make it kind of a joke, and you guys will probably get along great as long as he isn't a weirdo in other unforseen ways (or you are a weirdo...). The most important thing if not to act any differently to him or around him just because he is gay (for example don't make it super awkward to change in front of him or something).
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is awesome32274 Posts
You could put a plastic doll in your bed for the 1st night, see if he fucks it.
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United States24698 Posts
Whether or not he is gay doesn't say very much at all....most people assume that means he's flaming which isn't necessarily true.
Don't take this the wrong way but it reminds me of a story.....a friend of a friend had a gay roomate years ago in college...one day the guy is having unexplained problems with anal bleeding. Eventually he sets up a camera in his dorm secretly and discovers his roomate was drugging and raping him.
Probably won't happen to you though.
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intrigue
Washington, D.C9934 Posts
don't get all hung up trying to be politically correct and stuff talking to him. people easily sense these things and it can ruin a good friendship, which is a very nice thing ot have in a roommate.
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On August 16 2006 13:58 Gene wrote: asdf, so i meant to say, anyone else have any quite interesting situations for their first year at college? or any interesting roommate in general? I roomed with a starcraft clan mate! lol Steve[cF] (dragoonat711) and I roomed together our freshman year at UCSB.. The April before my freshman year i was talkin the clan channel and I said id probably be going to UCSB he spoke up and said he was 2.. then we applied to room together when filling out housing information :D
-and for you.. on a positive note.. college is a time to experiment
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lol trident thats cool, i go to ucsb also.
rofl @ micronesia, way to make him feel better =D
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dont sweat it.
new experience... he wont rape u... lol :-p embrace it with open arms ;]
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On August 16 2006 13:56 Gene wrote: For my freshman year. i'll be attending Ithaca College in NY.
i've been waiting to find out my room/roommate information all summer, only to find out that my letter got lost in the mail. i call up the school yesterday, and find out the information. i facebook the kid, and the kid im going to spend the rest of the year with, is gay.
this is DEFINITELY going to be the most memorable year of my life.
though luck buddy
edit: i have just read the whole thread. I have to say that gay people arent sex-hungry people just lucking some male to fuck (at least the ones i know are "ok" persons). But yea, you might take advantage of his gayness for him to bring girls and convince them to have sex with you haha
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Valhalla18444 Posts
how did you get into a college
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try to get him to play protoss
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1) How do you know he's gay? 2) You think that ANY gay guy is going to rape you? You think that you're that attractive to males? 3) Guy friends of mine have roomed with girls.. no sex took place. 4) Stop being homophobic. 5) You'll need him when you find you can't get girls in college. 6) You repay him with sex when you find you cannot survive college because you shouldn't have gotten in and you need him to do your homework.
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On August 16 2006 14:32 WhatisProtoss wrote: 1) How do you know he's gay? 2) You think that ANY gay guy is going to rape you? You think that you're that attractive to males? 3) Guy friends of mine have roomed with girls.. no sex took place. 4) Stop being homophobic. 5) You'll need him when you find you can't get girls in college. 6) You repay him with sex when you find you cannot survive college because you shouldn't have gotten in and you need him to do your homework. he probably knows he's gay from facebook, it has a field "interested in:" and his roommate likely filled out "guys" or he looks really flaming, who knows
anyway Gene didnt even remotely imply he thought it would be weird, i dont see where you got the whole homophobic thing from -_-
overreaction!!!
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On August 16 2006 14:32 WhatisProtoss wrote: 1) How do you know he's gay? 2) You think that ANY gay guy is going to rape you? You think that you're that attractive to males? 3) Guy friends of mine have roomed with girls.. no sex took place. 4) Stop being homophobic. 5) You'll need him when you find you can't get girls in college. 6) You repay him with sex when you find you cannot survive college because you shouldn't have gotten in and you need him to do your homework.
you need to stop thinking the creator of the thread and the people responding are the same haha
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Braavos36375 Posts
hey if it hasnt been pointd out already, whatisprotoss, you probably shouldn't make assumptions
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Valhalla18444 Posts
On August 16 2006 14:32 WhatisProtoss wrote: 3) Guy friends of mine have roomed with girls.. no sex took place.
your friends are losers hell yeah
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On August 16 2006 14:35 RseniC wrote:Show nested quote +On August 16 2006 14:32 WhatisProtoss wrote: 1) How do you know he's gay? 2) You think that ANY gay guy is going to rape you? You think that you're that attractive to males? 3) Guy friends of mine have roomed with girls.. no sex took place. 4) Stop being homophobic. 5) You'll need him when you find you can't get girls in college. 6) You repay him with sex when you find you cannot survive college because you shouldn't have gotten in and you need him to do your homework. you need to stop thinking the creator of the thread and the people responding are the same haha You said the same thing twice --
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Are you kidding? This is gold in the dorms. Buddy up with him in a cool detached sort of way and he will feed you a constant stream of pussy. This is an opportunity, don't fuck it up.
P.S. Cockpushups starts training now!
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anal sex is good to break the ice imo
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On August 16 2006 14:21 thedeadhaji wrote: having a gay roommate, is not even near the worst thing that could happen. Chances are he's a nice kid and you'll get along just fine.
Some worse possibilities: 1) crackhead 2) emo (cuts himself) 3) bipolar 4) gets piss drunk every night and pisses on the door, closet, and YOUR BED WITH YOU IN IT, often 5) will watch pr0n at high volume all day no matter what you are doing. 6) you get sexiled nightly b/c your roommate has orgies with grossly overweight women.
seriously, you'll be just fine. Acknowledge the fact that he's gay, sure, but just treat him normally.
this man is funny.
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Braavos36375 Posts
my friend who was an RA for 3 years had some ridiculous stories about nightmare roommates...
there was one where this guy would come home and his roommate would be sitting reading a book in the middle of the floor in their room (studio, just one room, with everything in it) with shit smeared all over the walls and beds and desks, like smelly, brown, streaky shit literally everywhere, and his roommate would just sit there and act like nothing was wrong
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iNcontroL
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Rooming with a gay guy would suck huge dick, litterally. When i stayed in the dorms i lucked out and had an awsome roommate. But we were across the hall from a guy who got stuck with a gay guy. The gay guy was an awsome person, really nice kinda funny and a good friend. But rooming with someone who brings in lots of horny gay guys every week would SUCK ass. Im perfectly fine with gay people, but having perverse (as far as i am concerned) acts of sexuality going on all the time in my living space is just to much.
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Korea (South)11583 Posts
is it possible to switch dorms with someone?
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On August 16 2006 15:19 {88}iNcontroL wrote: Rooming with a gay guy would suck huge dick, litterally. When i stayed in the dorms i lucked out and had an awsome roommate. But we were across the hall from a guy who got stuck with a gay guy. The gay guy was an awsome person, really nice kinda funny and a good friend. But rooming with someone who brings in lots of horny gay guys every week would SUCK ass. Im perfectly fine with gay people, but having perverse (as far as i am concerned) acts of sexuality going on all the time in my living space is just to much. That's a good point. I don't think the gay guy himself would be a problem, unless he is a jerk by nature (don't have to be gay to be a fag! kekeke)
But I don't think I could study while my room and his boyfriend make out. >_<;
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On August 16 2006 14:01 Hot_Bid wrote: whatever man, he can give you fashion tips and help you do your hair and help clean and cook while you guys have the buttsex, dont worry
LOL LOL LOL
But anyways, I have a room all to myself at college so I'm pretty lucky. To get back to your story though, having a gay roomate will be nice because it will bring lots of girls, but having two dudes fuck in your breathing space will not be pretty. I used to be really homophobic until this summer when I started hanging out with this dude at work and found out he was gay after a while. He was really cool, always positive, never hit on me or even gave the slightest hint that he was gay. Now that I think about it, he didn't even advertise that he was gay or make a big deal about it. The only reason we found out was when his boyfriend came in to work one day to see him. When everyone asked him about it, he just shrugged his shoulders and acted like it was normal. Of course, this has nothing to do with actually living with a gay guy, but it does show that if you get to know them, they can be really good friends. As for living in the dorms, if your college is anything like mine, I highly doubt you'll be spending more than half the nights of the week in your own dorm room anyways.
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ithaca college is a chill place, like a really cold liberal arts school with a bunch of stoners. My advice would be to not go to cornell, ever. And also wear a lot of clothes in winter because it was probably the coldest place ive ever been to
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From my experience at a residential (boarding) arts high school where 40-50% of the guys were gay...
Generally, gay guys touch straight guys (in "neutral" ways too) less than straight guys touch straight guys (man hug, pat on back, etc.). They're sensitive to that kind of issue and wouldn't presume. Now, you may have an extremely annoying type of homosexual to deal with, but you could just as easily have an extremely annoying straight roommate--in any case, you don't know yet.
I would definitely set some rules for what goes on in the room, though. You might want to agree that the room is a no sex zone--you probably don't want to be bothered with gay sex a couple feet away while you're trying to sleep, and you can find somewhere else to have your own. That is, if you're adverse to gay sex. Anyway, I think this is going to be a lot less big or memorable of a deal than you think.
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Osaka27149 Posts
The immediate reaction of people is OMG HES GAY BUTTSEX! Being gay is one very small part of who this person is. Hell, he might even like starcraft.
The point is, who he fucks is not everything about him. I used to live close to Mora, and we would hang out and play SC. I didn't think about him being gay, I just played SC and hung out with a friend.
I think you probably got lucky (no pun intended) by having a gay roommate.
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thedeadhaji
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Yes Myrmidon brings up a key point about rooming, esp your first year.
SET CONCRETE RULES ABOUT EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING
when to sleep, sex yes or no, etcetc ANYTHING that comes to mind, BEFORE it happens. It might be good if pple would mention what sort of room rules you guys have used in the past.
for us, it was "no shoes"
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On August 16 2006 16:59 nitram wrote: wear a butt-plug
amen
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On August 16 2006 13:56 Gene wrote: For my freshman year. i'll be attending Ithaca College in NY.
i've been waiting to find out my room/roommate information all summer, only to find out that my letter got lost in the mail. i call up the school yesterday, and find out the information. i facebook the kid, and the kid im going to spend the rest of the year with, is gay.
this is DEFINITELY going to be the most memorable year of my life. Why does this deserve its own thread? Your roommate's sexual orientation is different than the majority. So what?
Just because he's gay doesn't mean he's going to sexually assault you or something. Get over it. If you're homophobic you're the same as a racist or sexist in my book. Well, not exactly the same. Close enough.
Good luck with your first year of college. Your roommate is the least of your worries.
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thedeadhaji
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On August 16 2006 17:00 TheosEx wrote:amen
recommendation on brand? size? color? gotta be fashionable =X
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On August 16 2006 14:23 IntoTheWow wrote: You could put a plastic doll in your bed for the 1st night, see if he fucks it. haha
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On August 16 2006 14:00 BalloonFight wrote: In all seriousness this guy will probably have a lot of girl friends to hook you up with.
This is true. Also, college is a time for experimentation, and if you feel like testing the waters, you've got a lab partner so very close.
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Lol... this has turned into the biggest joke thread ever... even though it's probably not as funny to the guy who made it.
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In all honesty, gays are people too.
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On August 16 2006 17:02 rpf289 wrote:Show nested quote +On August 16 2006 13:56 Gene wrote: For my freshman year. i'll be attending Ithaca College in NY.
i've been waiting to find out my room/roommate information all summer, only to find out that my letter got lost in the mail. i call up the school yesterday, and find out the information. i facebook the kid, and the kid im going to spend the rest of the year with, is gay.
this is DEFINITELY going to be the most memorable year of my life. Why does this deserve its own thread?  Your roommate's sexual orientation is different than the majority. So what? Just because he's gay doesn't mean he's going to sexually assault you or something. Get over it. If you're homophobic you're the same as a racist or sexist in my book. Well, not exactly the same. Close enough. Good luck with your first year of college. Your roommate is the least of your worries. WHO EVER SAID HE HAD ANYTHING AGAINST GAYS?
You people making idiotic assumptions (even if they may / may not be true) make me puke. -_-;
On August 16 2006 17:10 HeadBangaa wrote:Show nested quote +On August 16 2006 14:00 BalloonFight wrote: In all seriousness this guy will probably have a lot of girl friends to hook you up with.
This is true. Also, college is a time for experimentation, and if you feel like testing the waters, you've got a lab partner so very close. lollllllllll
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man my first roomate blew. He was this crazy north korean guy fresh out of the army, studying abroad with me. He would shout in his sleep, grind his teeth like nothing i had ever heard before, and sometimes i would shine a flash light on him only to almost shit myself from what i saw. He would be in these crazy fanagled positions with his arms all tense suspended in the air, legs stretched out straight, muscles tight as hell, like something out of a horror movie, with the shadows casting on the wall and all. He was mostly chill during the day, but still. I lost so much sleep having him as a roomate i actually bought a cap gun and would fire it off in the middle of the night to wake him up so he'd settle the fuck down without realising why he just woke.
Then one faithful morning i was out all night and came crawlin in about 6am, sun just beginning to rise over the horizon.. i woke him up and he almost kicked my ass. Wrestled me to the ground, pushed me into the floor, and kept raising his fist like he was about to whollop me into oblivion but would stop just before he completely lost control. He then go dressed and left the room, to go to class or somethin.. but 12pm noon i had already packed my shit and moved out.
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well i cant really remember if he was from north korea or south korea.. i know he was from korea, i just figured after being here long enough that south koreans seemed pretty normal, and that this guy could have only come from north korea.
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On August 16 2006 15:19 {88}iNcontroL wrote: Rooming with a gay guy would suck huge dick, litterally. When i stayed in the dorms i lucked out and had an awsome roommate. But we were across the hall from a guy who got stuck with a gay guy. The gay guy was an awsome person, really nice kinda funny and a good friend. But rooming with someone who brings in lots of horny gay guys every week would SUCK ass. Im perfectly fine with gay people, but having perverse (as far as i am concerned) acts of sexuality going on all the time in my living space is just to much.
sure he would feel the same (perverse acts in my living space, etc.) if someone brought girls over ;D
roommates shouldn't have sex in shared rooms, regardless of preference.
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well at my school, i think 70% or something of people are gay, so I can't really relate to this being an issue. chances are he's more nervous about it than you are. It will be good for you; chances are he'll be cool and you can learn a lot about things from him (not just gay things). That said, it's just the luck of the draw as to whether or not he's cool, just like with a straight guy. Only difference is instead of there being a chance he's a constantly-drunk-meathead-fratboy, he might be ditsy and talk on the phone a lot.
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On August 16 2006 17:59 neSix wrote:Show nested quote +On August 16 2006 17:02 rpf289 wrote:On August 16 2006 13:56 Gene wrote: For my freshman year. i'll be attending Ithaca College in NY.
i've been waiting to find out my room/roommate information all summer, only to find out that my letter got lost in the mail. i call up the school yesterday, and find out the information. i facebook the kid, and the kid im going to spend the rest of the year with, is gay.
this is DEFINITELY going to be the most memorable year of my life. Why does this deserve its own thread?  Your roommate's sexual orientation is different than the majority. So what? Just because he's gay doesn't mean he's going to sexually assault you or something. Get over it. If you're homophobic you're the same as a racist or sexist in my book. Well, not exactly the same. Close enough. Good luck with your first year of college. Your roommate is the least of your worries. WHO EVER SAID HE HAD ANYTHING AGAINST GAYS? You people making idiotic assumptions (even if they may / may not be true) make me puke. -_-; Where did he say he was happy about it? I think we all know by now that tone isn't conveyed well through words on the internet. If he's happy about it, then so be it. If he isn't, then I got what he was saying correctly.
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what the fuck.
so many gay guys apparently go to school.
i know only a few gay people.
perhaps i shouldn't have dropped out of highschool.
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On August 16 2006 16:47 Manifesto7 wrote: The immediate reaction of people is OMG HES GAY BUTTSEX! Being gay is one very small part of who this person is. Hell, he might even like starcraft.
The point is, who he fucks is not everything about him. I used to live close to Mora, and we would hang out and play SC. I didn't think about him being gay, I just played SC and hung out with a friend.
I think you probably got lucky (no pun intended) by having a gay roommate.
And Bubble Bobble! <3!
i miss you mani <3
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On August 16 2006 19:26 Teroru wrote: what the fuck.
so many gay guys apparently go to school.
i know only a few gay people.
perhaps i shouldn't have dropped out of highschool. dude i went to NYU, there were 4 gay guys on my floor, and tons of them everywhere here
im not complaining at all, its awesome because there are less straight guys hahahaha
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On August 16 2006 14:26 [cF]TridenT wrote:Show nested quote +On August 16 2006 13:58 Gene wrote: asdf, so i meant to say, anyone else have any quite interesting situations for their first year at college? or any interesting roommate in general? I roomed with a starcraft clan mate! lol Steve[cF] (dragoonat711) and I roomed together our freshman year at UCSB.. The April before my freshman year i was talkin the clan channel and I said id probably be going to UCSB he spoke up and said he was 2.. then we applied to room together when filling out housing information :D -and for you.. on a positive note.. college is a time to experiment 
OMGZ <3 <3 me and allen (your_killer) is going to room togeather also. We will play 1:1 all day and i will secretly put sunglasses on my poohbear so it can reflect whats on his screen so i can cheat. omgz. best year to come...
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On August 16 2006 18:05 thedeadhaji wrote:I didnt realize pple from N.Korea were allowed to even leave the country  I guess I was ignorant. You're not ignorant. There are no North Koreans in US colleges. He is just making up a story.
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On August 16 2006 19:39 itzme_petey wrote:Show nested quote +On August 16 2006 14:26 [cF]TridenT wrote:On August 16 2006 13:58 Gene wrote: asdf, so i meant to say, anyone else have any quite interesting situations for their first year at college? or any interesting roommate in general? I roomed with a starcraft clan mate! lol Steve[cF] (dragoonat711) and I roomed together our freshman year at UCSB.. The April before my freshman year i was talkin the clan channel and I said id probably be going to UCSB he spoke up and said he was 2.. then we applied to room together when filling out housing information :D -and for you.. on a positive note.. college is a time to experiment  OMGZ <3 <3 me and allen (your_killer) is going to room togeather also. We will play 1:1 all day and i will secretly put sunglasses on my poohbear so it can reflect whats on his screen so i can cheat. omgz. best year to come...  Haha lucky It doesnt mean haji is ignorant it means he is gullible haha. I think the guy meant any asian.
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yah i probably shouldnt have left for my dads house right after posting this
im not homophobic. far from it.
im not scared he's going to fucking rape me. although him being attracted to me worries me slightly. i'd be lying if i said it didn't, but it's not big. it's just going to be a serious change of pace living with a gay guy. and lmao @ Agu. "leave a plastic doll." hah.
yeah, on a lot of other points, im psyched to have a gay roommate. he probably will bring a lot of girls along with him. and yes, i found out he's gay from facebook. he's also in a relationship, but im ALMOST positive his boyfriend isn't going to Ithaca. if he is, i'll have one extra thing to be a little concerned about. i can take anything except walking in on two guys buttfucking each other. that's pretty much where i draw the line.
the bastard better give me some style advice. what the fuck else would he be good for? lol.
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oh by the way, WhatIsProtoss,
nice job making assumptions, and more assumption based on your previsously made wrong assumptions.
asshole.
i also wanted to hear other funny roommate stories damnit. and LOL at the anal bleeding one. thats fucking disturbing:|
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is having a roomate mandatory or what? dunno why i always see in USA the roomies thing...
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its damn hard NOT to have a roommate. the only people at my school that live by themselves are the RA's. that's part of the deal they make when they take the job.
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u can get away not having roomates in later years i think. freshman theres no way out ><
unless u get an apartment
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what if my house is 2 blocks away?
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MURICA15980 Posts
For my housing application, I signed up for doubles, tripples, and even quads because I wanted the traditional dorming experience as a freshman. Ironically, I got a single in the most dersirable house.
I'm not complaining.
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On August 16 2006 20:16 sTrAtO wrote: what if my house is 2 blocks away?
Strato, in MOST colleges freshman have to stay on campus. for the most part it is mandatory. a special few can apply as a commuter student.
there are also colleges that are better known to be Commuter Colleges. not too many people stay there, most of them drive.
if you live quite close to the college, its almost definite that they will allow you to be a commuter. The college i'm attending is 5 hours from my house, if i applied as a commuter student they would laugh at me. they want people to live on campus because then they get to charge them an extra 10-15k dollars for board. >.>
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well, im in college and in fact, my university is 2 blocks away
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On August 16 2006 20:25 sTrAtO wrote:well, im in college and in fact, my university is 2 blocks away 
Devryy?
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mmmm nope, its nothing like that... i have my schedule and i just have to go to my classes (and if i were american i would be a freshman, although we dont use those freshman, junior, senior gay terms ;P), do homework, community service and use a fucking internet platform where the teachers let the homework and assignments for the whole semester, they dont have to remind you everytime theres hm or a project, you have to check it yourself... it sux because sometimes you miss something (hm, a reading, exercises, etc) and all the teachers say is "it was on the platform", and actually, they're right, but, oh man, its annoying ;P
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well, here in mexico, people live with their parents until they get married and even if college is 2 hours away (in Mexico city for example) you have to wake 2 hours earlier, you just dont go live with another roomate
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On August 16 2006 13:56 Gene wrote: For my freshman year. i'll be attending Ithaca College in NY.
i've been waiting to find out my room/roommate information all summer, only to find out that my letter got lost in the mail. i call up the school yesterday, and find out the information. i facebook the kid, and the kid im going to spend the rest of the year with, is gay.
this is DEFINITELY going to be the most memorable year of my life.
i go to cornell, maybe i ll see you at a party
and just because the kid is gay doesn't mean he ll come on to you; like a comedian said if you weren't attracting chicks whats suppose to make you a man magnet?
and what others have said about bad roommates, the worst are those creepy kids who get "sexiled" but don't leave the room :\ that my friend is the creepiest thing when you see another pair of eyes staring at you and not the girl :X
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not unless you come to Ithaca :p
it's dangerous for IC guys to show up at cornell :p
friend of mine is going there though, so i'll be taking my chances.
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haha, not really, my friend's brother goes to ithaca and plays lacross for them, and he visits regularly
and I have had plenty of IC guys burrow my ID to get into parties, so yeah
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On August 16 2006 21:08 Night[Mare] wrote: well, here in mexico, people live with their parents until they get married and even if college is 2 hours away (in Mexico city for example) you have to wake 2 hours earlier, you just dont go live with another roomate sux rite?
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You make it seem like theres something wrong with dorming with a gay guy. Dude, its fucking college. Deal with it and immerse yourself in the experience.
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atleast read the replies when you're going to put words in my mouth
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In any case, I don‘t get how anybody can have sex in a room when there are non-participants awake and thus made uncomfortable. My roommate was on a college visit to Johns Hopkins or something and his host (whose room he stayed in) banged his gf. I've had to shelter this dweeb a couple times (took pity) when his roommate decided to have sex with another guy on the floor and use their room for it, and this happened in high school. And my English teacher told the class once in one off-topic discussion how she and her friend, 16-year-old foreign exchange students in Belgium, got directed to and locked up in a "youth hostel" where maybe 10 people eventually came in with pot-laced brownies and had an orgy. At least they let the two of them out in the morning without touching them. Wtf people, go somewhere else plz. 
On the issue of attention from gay guys...I had a friend in the room next door (suitemate) at my hs who once did some modeling in New York (pretty good-looking). When some of my gay friends were over, they used to fawn over him, rubbing his chest hair in delight. The look on said friend's face was priceless a few times though. I was once told, half-joking of course, "you straight guys complain about not getting the girls, but you can come right up to the 4th floor any day and we'd [suite of gay guys] be glad to have you up...ooooooooh!" *bj motion* I declined politely. >_>
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I move into college tomorrow. Should be a fun time, I haven't met my roomie yet =]
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Dude really this isn't hard, I think it's being exaggerated a bit in this thread but still.
The first big thing is that you don't know anything about him, which is the same as it would be with any other person. Unless you want to meet him/email him/chat with him on IM, you're basically going to go in with no other indication of his personality other than that he's gay. Don't be like "oh he's gonna bring lots of girls and give me style advice." Unless you can tell from his Facebook page that he's more feminine you can't make that asumption. Maybe he's just a dude that likes to suck dick? You don't fucking know, don't go in with the presumption that he's flaming.
The one thing you want to be 100% certain about is that you set the boundaries on any sexual activity whatsoever. No matter what his personality is, you must make it clear that you don't want to have sex with him, you don't want to be hit on, and that even if you're drunk or something if you have a gay experience you will regret it and feel miserable about it for the rest of your life, making dealing with your roommate nearly impossible. The other thing you obviously want to deal with is him bringing guys into your dorm. I can't really offer much advice here but if you can deal with it fine, otherwise make it known and try to make some kind of arrangement with him.
Finally, unless you get an indication that he is extremely overly sensitive and militant about being homosexual, please for fucks sake do not bullshit him and act more tolerant than you are. My experience with people shows that unless your views are just totally offensive, they would rather know the truth and work with that than deal with the consequences of finding out you were bullshitting them. You're obviously willing to be tolerant so you have nothing to hide. If being tolerant isn't enough for him and he expects you to be 100% tolerant and accepting the friendship either has no chance of working out or you're going to be lieing to yourself and him for at least a year trying to make it work. Then again if he is that insane maybe it's best to not talk about it so things go smoothly, dunno. But unless you see a good reason not to don't bullshit him.
If I had to choose between a crazy goth stoner kid and a mans man who sucks dick, I'd take the mans man who sucks dick every time. Just treat him like a person and you'll be fine.
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On August 16 2006 23:48 RiSE wrote: I move into college tomorrow. Should be a fun time, I haven't met my roomie yet =]
I heard he listens to rap
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I commuted for a semester so I could get to know the people and choose my roomate... now I'm rooming with a goodf reind I amde last semester... nice how things work out.
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On August 17 2006 00:34 IntoTheWow wrote:Show nested quote +On August 16 2006 23:48 RiSE wrote: I move into college tomorrow. Should be a fun time, I haven't met my roomie yet =] I heard he listens to rap
its toledo everyone listens to rap
HEY.............. do not step off campus grounds.. you will be shot... lyfe is tuff in the big tizzle. fo shizzle. and come visit visti me so we can laugh at the emo kids in the mall
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man take it easy, girls will be flowing in n out!
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my freshman year in college, I had a black, gay roommate that looked, talked and acted just like lamar from revenge of the nerds. =(
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On August 17 2006 01:19 tenbagger wrote: my freshman year in college, I had a black, gay roommate that looked, talked and acted just like lamar from revenge of the nerds. =(
This would drive me insane.
I feel sorry for you man.
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On August 17 2006 01:19 tenbagger wrote: my freshman year in college, I had a black, gay roommate that looked, talked and acted just like lamar from revenge of the nerds. =(
did he do those aerobic exercises too, that would have woken you up pretty nicely in the morning
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On August 16 2006 20:23 Gene wrote:
Strato, in MOST colleges freshman have to stay on campus. for the most part it is mandatory. a special few can apply as a commuter student.
Did you just make that up off the top of your head? Its not true at all.
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iNcontroL
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On August 16 2006 18:38 bine wrote:Show nested quote +On August 16 2006 15:19 {88}iNcontroL wrote: Rooming with a gay guy would suck huge dick, litterally. When i stayed in the dorms i lucked out and had an awsome roommate. But we were across the hall from a guy who got stuck with a gay guy. The gay guy was an awsome person, really nice kinda funny and a good friend. But rooming with someone who brings in lots of horny gay guys every week would SUCK ass. Im perfectly fine with gay people, but having perverse (as far as i am concerned) acts of sexuality going on all the time in my living space is just to much. sure he would feel the same (perverse acts in my living space, etc.) if someone brought girls over ;D roommates shouldn't have sex in shared rooms, regardless of preference.
Yeah but his preferance is considered abnormal and is vastly in the minority of common place. Just like some people like to shit in jars and stack them on the walls. Those people would be considered "abnormal" and their preferance wouldnt be something the majority would need or feel obligated to adhere to. In a perfect world gay or straight, we would all be comfortable. Since that world doesnt exist, and we are stuck here. Lets appease the majority as often as we can.
That being said, what fucking school do you go to? 70% are gay? double-you-tee-eff-mate. U of SF?
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Norway28677 Posts
oh man i'd love to room with a homosexual
i'd even prefer if he didnt have a bf honestly
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so you could practice flirting with him?
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Norway28677 Posts
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ok so you could get head, I was mistaken
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lolz
Whats good about a blowjob anyways? Isn't sex > bj?
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On August 22 2006 13:21 QuietIdiot wrote: lolz
Whats good about a blowjob anyways? Isn't sex > bj? it's really personal preference and depends a lot on the girl
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iNcontroL
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Whats good about a blowjob?
Holy fuck..
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blowjobs are fine but I think guys have a primitive urge to wanna penetrate the pussy. Drone you should let Mora chop you down
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ok aside from the physical part of it (rofl ASIDE from the fact that you're going to ejaculate into her mouth)
from a psychological standpoint, unless she's absolutely hideous, there are probably a great many guys who actually like her and would sacrifice quite a bit to just to hold her hand or sit and talk with her for an hour. she is the object of their affections. they think about her and draw hearts around her name and wish they could just be with her. they would do anything to touch those lips (that are currently wrapped around your dick). you win. you are king.
for insecure forum dwellers this is probably really, really good just for your own personal mental health and confidence. go you!
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On August 22 2006 13:31 Hot_Bid wrote: ok aside from the physical part of it (rofl ASIDE from the fact that you're going to ejaculate into her mouth)
<b>from a psychological standpoint, unless she's absolutely hideous, there are probably a great many guys who actually like her and would sacrifice quite a bit to just to hold her hand or sit and talk with her for an hour. she is the object of their affections. they think about her and draw hearts around her name and wish they could just be with her. they would do anything to touch those lips (that are currently wrapped around your dick). you win. you are king.</b>
for insecure forum dwellers this is probably really, really good just for your own personal mental health and confidence. go you!
well said
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Norway28677 Posts
On August 22 2006 13:21 QuietIdiot wrote: lolz
Whats good about a blowjob anyways? Isn't sex > bj?
all personal preference I say no
and mora should get his ass to norway :D
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thedeadhaji
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On August 22 2006 13:24 Hot_Bid wrote:Show nested quote +On August 22 2006 13:21 QuietIdiot wrote: lolz
Whats good about a blowjob anyways? Isn't sex > bj? it's really personal preference and depends a lot on the girl
or the guy
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so eri was lying when he said a few beers would be enough for him to take head from a guy...
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Maybe he would drink before he took the head. Who knows...
I just wanted to say... QI... you are dead to me. Dead like Vito in the tomato patches... *kiss*
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On August 22 2006 11:45 Dknight wrote:Show nested quote +On August 16 2006 20:23 Gene wrote:
Strato, in MOST colleges freshman have to stay on campus. for the most part it is mandatory. a special few can apply as a commuter student.
Did you just make that up off the top of your head? Its not true at all.
actually, in every college ive heard of or visited, it is. but thanks for bumping this thread for NO reason at all. i guess you dont live in NY.
actually on every single tour i went on (i went on a lot.) they said and i quote "Freshman must live on campus."
and as i said before, students who live close to the campus are given a pass on that rule.
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On August 22 2006 14:15 thedeadhaji wrote:Show nested quote +On August 22 2006 13:24 Hot_Bid wrote:On August 22 2006 13:21 QuietIdiot wrote: lolz
Whats good about a blowjob anyways? Isn't sex > bj? it's really personal preference and depends a lot on the girl or the guy or the.....animal
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On August 22 2006 17:52 nitram wrote:Show nested quote +On August 22 2006 14:15 thedeadhaji wrote:On August 22 2006 13:24 Hot_Bid wrote:On August 22 2006 13:21 QuietIdiot wrote: lolz
Whats good about a blowjob anyways? Isn't sex > bj? it's really personal preference and depends a lot on the girl or the guy or the.....animal or the inanimate object.
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On August 22 2006 17:37 Gene wrote:Show nested quote +On August 22 2006 11:45 Dknight wrote:On August 16 2006 20:23 Gene wrote:
Strato, in MOST colleges freshman have to stay on campus. for the most part it is mandatory. a special few can apply as a commuter student.
Did you just make that up off the top of your head? Its not true at all. actually, in every college ive heard of or visited, it is. but thanks for bumping this thread for NO reason at all. i guess you dont live in NY. actually on every single tour i went on (i went on a lot.) they said and i quote "Freshman must live on campus." and as i said before, students who live close to the campus are given a pass on that rule.
excuse me?
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On August 22 2006 14:52 Night[Mare] wrote: so eri was lying when he said a few beers would be enough for him to take head from a guy...
actually I had a couple beers before posting that on the forum
but im not sure I'd require any. depends on the guy.
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That's it Eri, yoU're at the end of the road now See, I blame liberalism for that too!
-Mynock
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Norway28677 Posts
what I'd never GIVE head (to a guy) I don't see whats so weird about this, honestly
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Does it even matter? besides for the fact u will need to make sure he doesn't steal ur clothes doesnt really change much. Don't be a homophobe when there are many much more scary things out there then a 90lb gay kid with super tite jeans -.^ Harmless even if it is a little disturbing.
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Gum job > blow job, teeth out baby, teeth out.
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On August 22 2006 13:21 QuietIdiot wrote: lolz
Whats good about a blowjob anyways? Isn't sex > bj?
What the fuck? HAHAHA.. Please tell me others see the fun in this aswell?
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On August 23 2006 03:58 Liquid`Drone wrote: what I'd never GIVE head (to a guy) I don't see whats so weird about this, honestly
yes I know.. I would never give a head to a guy either.. But I always give to girls.. especially if they have a big craving cock
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Beyonder
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So how did it turn out -_-
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thedeadhaji
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On January 06 2007 10:26 Gene wrote: i hate you. any rectal bleeding?
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Beyonder
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It seems to be a sensitive subject
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Beyonder
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On January 06 2007 10:29 Beyonder wrote: It seems to be a sensitive subject not the only sensitive thing :p
rofl the second post
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no, IC(ithaca college) made mistakes and game me three new roommates after that, i wound up with some kid who's a serious pothead, and loves the simpsons. so i started becoming a pothead and we got along famously. 700 dollars later i quit just over a month ago.
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Beyonder
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I hope thta means you quit pot, not school sonny.
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<Gene`> ive started <Gene`> six threads <Gene`> probably lowest ratio of threads: posts on TL <Beyonder> i just bumped <Beyonder> one of yours <Gene`> no <Gene`> you better be kidding <Moltke> Why are there many people who named their sons Issac <Moltke> but no one named their son Ishmael <Gene`> LOL FUCK <Gene`> WHY THAT ONE <Beyonder> lol
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On January 06 2007 10:31 Beyonder wrote: I hope thta means you quit pot, not school sonny. my life would be so much better if school only cost 700 bucks
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thedeadhaji
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On January 06 2007 10:31 Gene wrote: <Gene`> ive started <Gene`> six threads <Gene`> probably lowest ratio of threads: posts on TL <Beyonder> i just bumped <Beyonder> one of yours <Gene`> no <Gene`> you better be kidding <Moltke> Why are there many people who named their sons Issac <Moltke> but no one named their son Ishmael <Gene`> LOL FUCK <Gene`> WHY THAT ONE <Beyonder> lol
i laughed
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moltke added the much needed flavor to the discussion.
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hahaha. I dont think I've started a single thread though. o.O
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So Gene.. Is he alright or what`?
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On January 06 2007 10:29 Gene wrote: no, IC(ithaca college) made mistakes and game me three new roommates after that, i wound up with some kid who's a serious pothead, and loves the simpsons. so i started becoming a pothead and we got along famously. 700 dollars later i quit just over a month ago.
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clooooseee thread
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[21:14] <Gene`> theres a banner [21:14] <Gene`> on the penis thread [21:14] <Gene`> for wendys [21:14] <Gene`> which i just ate [21:14] <Gene`> oh the hilarity
seems something did rubb off onto him from his last roommate afterall.
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On January 06 2007 12:40 Gene wrote:Show nested quote +On January 06 2007 10:29 Gene wrote: no, IC(ithaca college) made mistakes and game me three new roommates after that, i wound up with some kid who's a serious pothead, and loves the simpsons. so i started becoming a pothead and we got along famously. 700 dollars later i quit just over a month ago. ? clooooseee thread Why indulge in self ownage Gene?
Not that we mind <3.
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actually no close, while this thread is open, lets make it productive
can you people list some things that ARENT so obvious that came in handy for your college dorming experience? my GF asked me the other day, i didnt have much. Paper Towels are a good one, plastic utensils, give me... three.?
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1) external harddrive for all your downloading pleasures o_O
2) 20 db earplugs, in case your roommate a) snores b) has loud secks, or c) doesnt go to sleep at the same time as you
3) more than 1 set of bedsheets, preferably 3.
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a lock (cuz your roommates gay lololol)
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On January 06 2007 12:45 Gene wrote: actually no close, while this thread is open, lets make it productive
can you people list some things that ARENT so obvious that came in handy for your college dorming experience? my GF asked me the other day, i didnt have much. Paper Towels are a good one, plastic utensils, give me... three.?
Laundry bag full of condoms.
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On January 06 2007 14:03 useLess[ies] wrote:Show nested quote +On January 06 2007 12:45 Gene wrote: actually no close, while this thread is open, lets make it productive
can you people list some things that ARENT so obvious that came in handy for your college dorming experience? my GF asked me the other day, i didnt have much. Paper Towels are a good one, plastic utensils, give me... three.? Laundry bag full of condoms. no need for those. he can't his roommate pregnant.
In all seriousness..
Lock (not cuz he's gay, just to keep the fucker out of your stuff) Paper plates, disposable utensils, etc. Some way to separate your food items from his :p, you know like a rabid feral child that will tear him to pieces if he comes within 5 feet of your food stuffs. you know something like that :p
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lolz homophobes
Ithaca is awesome. It's my favorite place to visit in NY!
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