Korean Music Discussion - Page 2777

:p thank you!

And I guess I'll use this opportunity to address this topic of obsessions a little so please feel free to skip over this post if that's not something you find to be interesting.

Obsession: "An idea or thought that continually preoccupies or intrudes on a person's mind." "A persistent disturbing preoccupation." "Something about which one is constantly thinking or concerned."

That's what an obsession is. You might want to consider this definition the next thing you deem someone to be obsessed. Quite frankly there's no way that you could accurately tell if someone is obsessed or not via a message board. Maybe if the person was posting every 5 minutes or something like that... But even then, it's the Intrusive thoughts that makes someone obsessed and you can't know if a forum user experiences that unless he states it.

Now me, personally, I'm not quite obsessed. Not quite because I do have slightly intrusive thoughts, in the way that I do think about her a lot. Sometimes, if I'm bored at school or something, I might day-dream about her. At night, before I fall asleep, I always think of her, every night. Sometimes, I will randomly think of her during the day as well if I'm ever not fully concentrated on something or kind of in need of motivation/inspiration. But my thoughts about her, however frequent, do not fall under any of the categories that divide real intrusive thoughts. I also do not fight them as they do not stop me from functioning. So these thoughts are not really intrusive, they are just... Thoughts, lol. And since having intrusive thoughts seem to be the number one prerequisite to be considered obsessed, according to my limited knowledge, that makes me not obsessed.

Now I don't mind being the poster boy for "obsessed" around here as I do feel I am more than just passionate lol. Passionate is like not strong enough of a word, maybe because it is also being thrown around too much... But obsessed is not quite right either, there must be something between the two. Oh yeah, I remember a couple of months ago someone here taught me a new word, said I was zealous, maybe that would be the more suitable adjective, haha.

However, something I do mind a little is the bad and over-usage of the word creep.
Creepy: "Having or causing a sensation of repulsion, horror, or fear, as of creatures crawling on the skin.", "Producing a sensation of uneasiness or fear.", "Annoyingly unpleasant; repulsive."
So, are my posts repulsing you and causing you horror such as bugs crawling on your skin ? Am I annoyingly unpleasant ? I wouldn't think so... I'm sorry if that's the case. If it's not I think using words such as bizarre, weird, strange or unusual, maybe even concerning, might be more appropriate in the future.

Thank you, this public service announcement was brought to you by a mix of boredom, tiredness and zeal, lol.

Now please let Nicole sing you a sweet, mellow and melodic 40 seconds ballad before you go to bed.

Have a good night everyone.