|
I recently turned 21, got a gf, we started doing it, etc.
I got a blood test today and wow, I was never so scared in my life. Because I started reading up on HIV/AIDS
Wtf... you can get infected from almost anything and might not even find out about it for 10 years (Unlikely but possible)
I have to wait a week for my results but my girlfriend wants me over tonight.
She recently got a tattoo and returned from a trip from Mexico and didn't get a Hep C shot.
As much as I love her, my recent paranoia over this shit is telling me not to touch her. I'm not saying I think all infected people should be shipped away. NO NO NO.
But I'm scared that I've been so uneducated and I don't want to be irresponsible because is HIV really worth an orgasm?
Would it be reasonable for me to ask her to get tested before we do anything? I mean, I also got tested today just for our sake (We plan to spend the rest of our lives together)
 
|
Get tested then blow each others minds out with your crazy kinki sex you two LOVE doing (ps she wants more bondage )
|
Yeah I'm not really scared of HIV, but maybe I would be if I lived in an area or place where there was a higher risk of catching it.
Get tested by all means! Nothing but good comes from it
|
You don't get HIV from touching or kissing. As far as I know it would take 10 liters of saliva to get it?
Do you use condoms oO?
There is higher chance of male infecting female anyways.
|
dont be scared of HIV.
be scared of HSV.
|
On August 18 2009 03:26 omninmo wrote:
dont be scared of HIV.
be scared of HSV.
both are pretty bad
|
United States22883 Posts
Use a fucking condom. Jesus..
|
lol @ the responses
"take 10 liters of saliva?" what the hell? That's like saying it takes a full ejaculation to get a woman pregnant...yea, sure, but it doesn't mean its NECESSARY, only that it increases the chances. And anyways a smaller chance is just as bad as a larger chance when you consider that the repercussions are lifelong and incurable.
I'd ask her to get tested. Just explain your thoughts. Don't act paranoid. If she's clean, then just drop it, because you're not going to pickup HIV anywhere else. Unless you're using dirty needles.
|
BTW watch out for sores / injuries. Don't go oral or something if liquids from 1 of you can mix with with blood of other person.
WORRY AFTER TEST RESULTS if there will be any reason.
Are you sure you've read enough btw ?
On August 18 2009 03:41 NoobsOfWrath wrote:
lol @ the responses
"take 10 liters of saliva?" what the hell? That's like saying it takes a full ejaculation to get a woman pregnant...yea, sure, but it doesn't mean its NECESSARY, only that it increases the chances. And anyways a smaller chance is just as bad as a larger chance when you consider that the repercussions are lifelong and incurable.
I don't really get your point. Kissing is safe because amount of viruses in saliva is so low.
I changed "I think" to "As far as I know btw"
|
Use a condom...
I always get a test with my new girl when we start seeing. Meanwhile i use condom. And i go straight to it: "Lets have an HIV test NOW."
And i am always scared the shit out of that.
|
|
|
Noobville17921 Posts
if you both have HIV, your new goal is to fuck as many times as humanly possible before you both become bed ridden and die of opportunity infections.
gl
|
|
|
It's not sex if you use a condom
|
lol@condom protecting from hiv. great ideas. who hasn't a condom break on them? not me
|
On August 18 2009 04:04 MiniRoman wrote:
lol@condom protecting from hiv. great ideas. who hasn't a condom break on them? not me
I read breaking is caused by not putting them on in the right way in most cases
|
well thanks for your responses guy
i don't know. i feel stupid for worrying but at the same time, i can see why i am worrying.
well, we already had sex (with a condom) so i guess we can keep going but until results are in and negative
i dont think im gonna do it without one. (sigh, she was suggesting no condom sex in the shower too)
|
^^Well yeah if you are doing it in the shower than you practically have to do no condom...otherwise for the guy it just feels bad. I know the girls like it, but for me shower + condom is just bad news.
On August 18 2009 04:06 beetlelisk wrote:Show nested quote +On August 18 2009 04:04 MiniRoman wrote:
lol@condom protecting from hiv. great ideas. who hasn't a condom break on them? not me I read breaking is caused by not putting them on in the right way in most cases
Maybe he just fucks really hard like a real man
|
Obviously.
Tell her to get tested now. It's the responsible thing to do and there's no reason to refuse.
|
like another in the thread said, the odds of transmitting HIV are ridiculously low. however repeated unprotected sex with one infected and the odds will start adding up.
and you cant get HIV whilst wearing a condom
and they shouldn't break easy, roman must be one frantic mofo
|
|
|
|
|
|
EPT
