On August 18 2009 04:14 jjun212 wrote: well thanks for your responses guy
i don't know. i feel stupid for worrying but at the same time, i can see why i am worrying. well, we already had sex (with a condom) so i guess we can keep going but until results are in and negative
i dont think im gonna do it without one. (sigh, she was suggesting no condom sex in the shower too)
No condom sex in the shower? If you're going to do that, I certainly hope you're not just relying on water and gravity as a method of birth control for those particular moments. Is your girlfriend on the pill?
Don't feel stupid for worrying, being safe is always better than having something to regret later but don't become paranoid over it. If you both love each other then getting tested is a way of proving you can be together safely without worrying and you can have all the fun you want. I don't think anyone should feel insulted or untrusted if testing is something you want done at the beginning of a relationship and especially not if you're having it done yourself. If I were in your position and things were going well with the possibility of something longterm, I'd definitely want to make sure that there was a really nice clean slate to start with and it'd just be sensible to hold back on anything risky until you have the results in for both people.
better safe then sorry. The odds might be very small, but the loss is very big. Also, sticking needles in your skin in Mexico doesn't sound too good to me.
On August 18 2009 04:04 MiniRoman wrote: lol@condom protecting from hiv. great ideas. who hasn't a condom break on them? not me
I read breaking is caused by not putting them on in the right way in most cases
Yeah, I've never had a condom break on me before in my life. Either I'm the luckiest son of a bitch who has ever lived or I've never had sex before. I'm pretty sure it's the latter.
On August 18 2009 04:04 MiniRoman wrote: lol@condom protecting from hiv. great ideas. who hasn't a condom break on them? not me
I read breaking is caused by not putting them on in the right way in most cases
Yeah, I've never had a condom break on me before in my life. Either I'm the luckiest son of a bitch who has ever lived or I've never had sex before. I'm pretty sure it's the latter.
hahaha Or maybe you've had sex but without a condom on?
I was scared when I first started to really date around. I did my homework though and that eased my mind. Now I take an STD test every 2 weeks or so, I use condoms at all times and I take all sorts of other precautions (i.e. When I go down on a girl for the first time I check for any.. nastiness). If your concerned that she caught something from her trip to mexico... then tell her. No girl is worth hepC. Not even Pamela Anderson.
On August 18 2009 08:08 udgnim wrote: it's pretty hard for guys to get the HIV virus through sex
got to have an open wound or be homosexual
Perfect troll.
actually it's pretty true, it's a lot easier for women to get hiv than guys.
Of course it's easier to contract aids through the vaginal walls and the anus than the penis, but saying that it's "pretty hard" for men to contract aids through vaginal penetration?
EPT
