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On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address.
Ok this is TL I know how to settle this, we don't fight. I declare a best of 5, winner takes all, loser walks away with nothing.
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I think you should pretend the German girl doesn't exist and then make your decision.
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On January 24 2012 07:48 samw wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. Ok this is TL I know how to settle this, we don't fight. I declare a best of 5, winner takes all, loser walks away with nothing.
does that mean, if i win, i get his current girlfriend, the german girl and my own fiancee?
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Your lust for your neighbor seems to illuminate your current relationship. You should ask yourself if you are still in your current relationship because you are committed to the girl or because it's comfortable and pleasurable for you to have her around. If the first, then ditching her seems a betrayal. If the second, then you probably should have separated a long time ago.
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This is definitely the most, 'unique' girl blog I've seen in a while. That being said, Chill definitely has the right advice, you gotta discern whether or not you want to/should break up with your gf or not, and leave the other girl out of the picture when making that decision.
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So basically, you're a manwhore and you want us to justify your actions for you. Nothing to see here, just someone trying to get what he wants by hurting others.
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On January 24 2012 07:51 Chill wrote:
I think you should pretend the German girl doesn't exist and then make your decision.
Chill got it right, to make the more rational decision you've got to forget about that chick. If you don't then your male instinct will take over your thoughts...
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Best advice is to make a decision quickly and commit to that decision that you made. Don't decide to stay with your current gf and then try to do something with the German woman and don't dump your gf then try for the German woman and if she rejects you try to go back to your current gf.
People wavering and not committing in these type of situations will just lead to messy end results.
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On January 24 2012 07:37 Fishgle wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work.
lol.
well, actually, i was going to use his address and name to find his facebook (or other internet footprint) to find him and his current girlfriend. then, i was going to e-mail his girlfriend this blog. she can spit in his face for me.
but, he is too much of a coward to give me his address. so, i guess my lulz have been ruined. =(
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On January 24 2012 08:21 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:37 Fishgle wrote:On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work. lol. well, actually, i was going to use his address and name to find his facebook (or other internet footprint) to find him and his current girlfriend. then, i was going to e-mail his girlfriend this blog. she can spit in his face for me. but, he is too much of a coward to give me his address. so, i guess my lulz have been ruined. =(
Lol, what a troll.
Ok, you give me your address first, though.
OR ARE YOU TOO MUCH OF A COWARD?!?!?!?
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On January 24 2012 08:23 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 08:21 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:37 Fishgle wrote:On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work. lol. well, actually, i was going to use his address and name to find his facebook (or other internet footprint) to find him and his current girlfriend. then, i was going to e-mail his girlfriend this blog. she can spit in his face for me. but, he is too much of a coward to give me his address. so, i guess my lulz have been ruined. =( Lol, what a troll. Ok, you give me your address first, though. OR ARE YOU TOO MUCH OF A COWARD?!?!?!?
i live in Seattle, Washington, at the intersection of N. 36th Street and the Aurora Bridge. Im directly under the north end of the Aurora Bridge.
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This is some of the funniest shit I have ever read
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What on earth TL?! Haha. Sorry OP, no advice from me here, just amazed at how this has all turned out.
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On January 24 2012 08:29 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 08:23 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 08:21 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:37 Fishgle wrote:On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
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I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.
She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work. lol. well, actually, i was going to use his address and name to find his facebook (or other internet footprint) to find him and his current girlfriend. then, i was going to e-mail his girlfriend this blog. she can spit in his face for me. but, he is too much of a coward to give me his address. so, i guess my lulz have been ruined. =( Lol, what a troll. Ok, you give me your address first, though. OR ARE YOU TOO MUCH OF A COWARD?!?!?!? i live in Seattle, Washington, at the intersection of N. 36th Street and the Aurora Bridge. Im directly under the north end of the Aurora Bridge.
Why does your profile say japan then?
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On January 24 2012 08:34 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 08:29 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 08:23 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 08:21 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:37 Fishgle wrote:On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
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i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work. lol. well, actually, i was going to use his address and name to find his facebook (or other internet footprint) to find him and his current girlfriend. then, i was going to e-mail his girlfriend this blog. she can spit in his face for me. but, he is too much of a coward to give me his address. so, i guess my lulz have been ruined. =( Lol, what a troll. Ok, you give me your address first, though. OR ARE YOU TOO MUCH OF A COWARD?!?!?!? i live in Seattle, Washington, at the intersection of N. 36th Street and the Aurora Bridge. Im directly under the north end of the Aurora Bridge. Why does your profile say japan then?
because you can put any country you want in there.....
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I honestly think when push comes to shove in five months the girl you're with now will change her mind and you'll have regret acting too soon. Most of all you should know this happens and probably her decisions are being irrational/illogical at the moment because of the stress/pressure/spite possibly.
Just my opinion, but I wouldn't risk cointossing something probable, for something possible.
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I'm not buying that you two are close if she doesn't even want you to move there with her, especially since it seems like you wouldn't have to sacrifice that much. I would just break it off as soon as possible and look for something better.
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Can't we all get along? As for girl advice, Chill said it best. Evaluate your relationship on its own merits, then make a decision. Letting in other variables (like German dancer girls) only clouds your judgement.
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On January 24 2012 07:51 Chill wrote:
I think you should pretend the German girl doesn't exist and then make your decision.
The ALL mighty as spoken listen to him please lolol
edit: this blog has given me my days worth of TL entertainment! p.s chll i <3 u
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I think a big part of the problem is I've sort of emotionally checked out of the relationship, out of necessity in some cases. Mostly because we've been back and forth on this before, and this could just be another back and forth, or maybe not. I'm going to talk to her this week, and go from there.
For all the cool kids and trolls who think her finding out about this would be such a terrible thing, I've already considered telling her I'm interested in other women. That really wouldn't be that great of an idea, actually, because that would just as likely make her want to be with me more (temporarily), then make her not want to be with me at all. She has a pretty big jealous streak, and the thought of me being with someone else might be manipulative, so I wouldn't do that.
Also, if you think she, or any other girl hasn't had frank conversations with friends or others where you are objectified and measured, you are an idiot, and know next to nothing about women. Just putting that out there.
As far as her "not being that into me" or us not being that close, sure it is a possibility. If I were reading this, and didn't know her, I would think the same thing. It could be the case here, but I don't think so. The only thing I can really say about it, without going into too much detail, is that she would view me following her out there as too big of a commitment, that she isn't ready for with me, or anyone else, as she says. Or maybe she just isn't that into me, but she isn't the kind to lie.
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