On July 21 2009 11:43 killanator wrote:
Well would it be the worst to like text her and say "hey i heard your dad had a stroke, is he ok?" or something like that?

wtf dude, whats with alot of people on here not knowing jack shit about girls / real life. What do YOU think you should do. Are you really that much of a robot that you gotta not only post for help FAST!!! but also gotta ask this forum before you do anything at all? You would rather take the words of people you don't know at all, over your own gut instincts?

Why don't you try thinking for yourself, instead of asking the most mundane questions ever, that anybody with an ounce of common sense can figure out. Seriously, it feels like you just came out isolation and have no idea how to react / respond to other people. sigh.

Deleted User 31060

3788 Posts

July 21 2009 03:50 GMT

#44

On July 21 2009 10:19 Flow.of.soul wrote:
This gives you such an opening. You just ask she is and how her dad is. You then tell her some story about how one of your relatives got really sick but then everything turned out ok. You then try to comfort her as much as possible with out being creepy. Then you make your move once everything is somewhat back to normal with her.

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winning advice, I would suggest this too

epicdoom

United States489 Posts

July 21 2009 04:10 GMT

#45

I ROFLed @ mani for like 5 minutes omg too good

Ronald_McD

Canada807 Posts

July 21 2009 04:38 GMT

#46

Go with her to see her dad in the hospital. Make a good impression. Afterwards, ask her out on a date, comfort her, blah blah blah

Easy.

A3iL3r0n

United States2196 Posts

July 21 2009 04:51 GMT

#47

The next time you see her, pretend that you didn't know her dad had a stroke. Be like, "Oh I thought you meant it like he was really upset, like 'omg, my dad's going to have a stroke when he finds out about whatever,' but I guess he had a real one, which makes a lot more sense because you said he was in the hospital. So... that sucks... for you I mean... and your dad too..." Wait until the silence becomes unbearable. Then walk awkwardly away and never contact her again.

thoraxe

United States1449 Posts

July 21 2009 05:07 GMT

#48

On July 21 2009 10:19 ghermination wrote:
For one, seriously that is one of the worst times to possibly try to become emotionally involved with a person.

For two, why do you ask for relationship help on a STARCRAFT site of all places?

For three, 1000'th post :D

Because this is his blog and normal people visit this website whom can deliver fairly relevant feedback on any concerns or questions that you may have, because for the most part, Teamliquid is a civilized site.

Bub

United States3518 Posts

July 21 2009 05:31 GMT

#49

Most woudl say to wait, but then grief is nature's powerful aphrodisiac...

On July 21 2009 10:40 29 fps wrote:

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i agree with this, actually. she's not going to be very cheery, so maybe it's best to wait

btw, what does /thread mean? or /anything, in fact

means End thread. Like "end of discussion"

Fontong

United States6454 Posts

July 21 2009 05:35 GMT

#50

On July 21 2009 12:47 eXigent. wrote:

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Dude if manifesto is going to give him advice, then when the hell would he not post for help of this site?

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Flakes

United States3125 Posts

July 21 2009 05:52 GMT

#51

This could be a stroke of luck for you, anyone with half a brain would see this as an opportunity. You should give ManI'S SCHEME A chance.

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That ischemia pun gave me brain damage I think

Railxp

Hong Kong1313 Posts

July 21 2009 05:52 GMT

#52

LOLOLOL THIS IS A STROKE OF LUCK FOR YOUUU!!!

fortune is grinning at you from ear to ear and chuckling at its own joke

edit: damnit, beaten to the punch

The_Australian

Australia458 Posts

July 21 2009 08:05 GMT

#53

I dont know, making a move could backfire (it depends on your previous relationship with her) imagine if you were a confiding in someone and all of a sudden they try to make a move. you just lost a good friend. be careful, if it were me i would let one of her other friends console so you never establish a "best friend" relationship. My 2 cents, but then again i'm 17 so wtf do i know, go nuts.

MoltkeWarding

5195 Posts

July 21 2009 08:13 GMT

#54

It depends on whether you feel any empathy for the person in this situation, or are merely interested in self-aggrandisement. Your natural impulses should give you the proper answer. No need to ask tl.net.

LimitlessSky

United States434 Posts

July 21 2009 08:22 GMT

#55

On July 21 2009 17:13 MoltkeWarding wrote:
It depends on whether you feel any empathy for the person in this situation, or are merely interested in self-aggrandisement. Your natural impulses should give you the proper answer. No need to ask tl.net.

Agree.

Simply be there for her...she must be worried for him and offer your assistance if she needs it.

Manifesto7

Osaka27156 Posts

July 21 2009 08:27 GMT

#56

I think this blog establishes that he is certainly not feeling any empathy.

killanator

United States549 Posts

July 21 2009 10:12 GMT

#57

No i actually like her dad, hes a nice guy, and I care about her and her feelings. I dont think she needs any consoling, at least it seems she is not to troubled. She said he is still having trouble talking but he can walk and stuff, so it sounds like it won't affect his life to much if he keeps recovering, and I think she has realized that. Or maybe she is trying to hide her feelings. Im going to a movie with her this week but i dont think ill make a move.

FakeSteve[TPR]

Valhalla18444 Posts

July 21 2009 11:03 GMT

#58

leave her the hell alone until things stabilize

'hey its important for you to be with your dad how about we take a rain check on the movie'

lemme put it this way: her dad just had a stroke, do you know how shitty it is to do ANYTHING that even hints at "what about MY needs"

the girl doesn't need the added complication of some retard with no common sense trying to woo her right now, so don't be that retard please

killanator

United States549 Posts

July 21 2009 11:10 GMT

#59

You make me sound like a dick fakesteve.

I didnt ask her on the movie, she informed me via text message that we were going. All ive done so far is ask how her dad is doing. I am certainly not trying to "woo" her, and im very self-councious about being a dick(reason i made thread, wanted to make sure i didnt do anything retarted)