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Garnet
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chaoser
United States5541 Posts
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PH
United States6173 Posts
It'll take time and a lot of unnecessary stress/pain, but later on I guarantee you'll get through it and feel even better about yourself. At the very least you did it, making that one potential regret you can permanently scratch off your list. I can't say I've done as much every time. :\ Anyway...just don't go too heavy on the alcohol. (; | ||
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Deleted User 37864
780 Posts
Starcraft will never reject you. Go rape some newb now!! I hope you find someone in the future! | ||
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Trezeguet
United States2656 Posts
Eventually you get over her and you will end up happier with someone else. It sucks, and it's happened to most people before. | ||
Heyoka
Katowice25012 Posts
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Megalisk
United States6095 Posts
On July 14 2009 09:29 scyper wrote: There's always Starcraft, man. Starcraft will never reject you. Go rape some newb now!! I hope you find someone in the future! Getting cheesed 6 times in a row on iccup feels like it. | ||
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Deleted User 37864
780 Posts
On July 14 2009 09:35 Megalisk wrote: Getting cheesed 6 times in a row on iccup feels like it. Wow. That would suck. Would you actually find 6 random people who happens to cheese you? O_O | ||
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Shauni
4077 Posts
On July 14 2009 09:22 Garnet wrote: Now I don't know what to do next, this is my first time confessing to a girl, so you know how painful it is. But I think I have earned some experiences. No, I don't know how painful it is... I've never fallen for a girl and even if I did I'd never confess. Consider yourself lucky, and confident. It's better than not trying at all and regretting it, so why would you have a reason to feel pain? | ||
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dekuschrub
United States2069 Posts
back to D+ land hooray but really youre better off just forgetting about her. it sucks i know, but if hse doesnt like you then youre probly not that compatible anyway lol | ||
Hyde
Australia14568 Posts
Cheers. | ||
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s.a.y
Croatia3840 Posts
mlia. | ||
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inertinept
Bangladesh1195 Posts
On July 14 2009 09:41 scyper wrote: Wow. That would suck. Would you actually find 6 random people who happens to cheese you? O_O yea it happened to me this season. I was 24-1, then got cheesed 5 times in a row. 28-8 now =( | ||
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OmgIRok
Taiwan2699 Posts
On July 14 2009 09:29 scyper wrote: There's always Starcraft, man. Starcraft will never reject you. -proceeds to lose to a 300apm D- terran- | ||
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itzme_petey
United States1400 Posts
i was born in HCM city and immigrated when i was 4 or 5. i ask about jobs in vietnam and i hear that the pay isnt much, even for a doctor. also, it doesnt help that inflation was double digits the past decade or so. good luck with your studies! | ||
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ghostWriter
United States3302 Posts
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ActualSteve
United States627 Posts
On July 14 2009 10:04 s.a.y wrote: i read Garnet, i thought of a basketball player. and then "i got rejected" was so a basketball term. mlia. same here | ||
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Faronel
United States658 Posts
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sk`
Japan442 Posts
On July 14 2009 10:25 ghostWriter wrote: rejection happens to everyone everywhere. there are billions of girls out there and thousands in your general vicinity. chances are that there is at least one attractive girl out there that would be a good fit for you. Sums it up. | ||
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ArC_man
United States2798 Posts
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KingofHearts
Japan562 Posts
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geegee1
United States618 Posts
On July 14 2009 09:22 Garnet wrote: If you have read my previous entry you'll know what I'm talking about. Now I don't know what to do next, this is my first time confessing to a girl, so you know how painful it is. But I think I have earned some experiences. I know I have to get over it, but I kinda expected her to be more sympathetic. I gave her my heart after all. I'm listening to "Rhythm of the rain", this song is so fit with my situation!. bro your not alone man everyone got rejected even me i regret it and i had felt sad for even a month about it but i got over it. most of it anyways but yea you're find someone eventually | ||
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numLoCK
Canada1416 Posts
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jodogohoo
Canada2533 Posts
"fuck you bitch, never liked you anyways, now get out of my fucking face or i'll smash you" walk a way feeling like a winner even though you just lost the grand finals | ||
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Dave[9]
United States2365 Posts
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StorrZerg
United States13919 Posts
On July 14 2009 11:15 KingofHearts wrote: find another girl. billions of them in this world. but never the same | ||
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PH
United States6173 Posts
On July 14 2009 09:44 Shauni wrote: No, I don't know how painful it is... I've never fallen for a girl and even if I did I'd never confess. Consider yourself lucky, and confident. It's better than not trying at all and regretting it, so why would you have a reason to feel pain? It's always better to have tried, but that doesn't make it suck or hurt any less. It's a shitty thing. On July 14 2009 10:25 ghostWriter wrote: rejection happens to everyone everywhere. there are billions of girls out there and thousands in your general vicinity. chances are that there is at least one attractive girl out there that would be a good fit for you. lol, what a cruel, cruel gloss... | ||
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251
United States1401 Posts
you don't 'confess' to girls. Think about that. Who wants to hear a confession? It sends a message that you are 'guilty' of liking her, like its some wrong thing. No matter how gooey a girl makes you feel inside, you don't just lay all your cards out on the table like that, you're setting yourself up for sure rejection. You set yourself up to be a 'sure bet' that she could fall back on should she not get what she wants, but she'd never fall back on you. As much as you may hate it, you have to play 'the game'. You give a little, take away a little. Just be funny, sweet (but not overbearing) and eventually you'll get inside her head. Eventually things escalate to a point where you both are crazy about each other, and then you just kiss her. After that, you don't play games and if she rejects you or your kiss, you take it all away and THEN see how she reacts. If the girl REALLY doesn't care then move on. Chances are by that point she's yours. This is just the nature of the way we're all sexually and psychologically screwed up. Obviously it gets deeper than just that, but I've had my share of successes and failures. Once you get it, you get it. Best of luck bro | ||
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PH
United States6173 Posts
Well, I dunno about Vietnam, but that kinda thing does happen in Korea. There are lots of ways to start relationships there. Your scenario also sounds ridiculous specific and circumstantial. | ||
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citi.zen
2509 Posts
On July 14 2009 13:43 251 wrote: you don't 'confess' to girls. [...] As much as you may hate it, you have to play 'the game'. Amen. This sort of thing is pretty universal: people want to feel they are "doing well" in love, as in: dating someone of equal or higher value. When you come on too strong you are saying you think the other person is way higher value than you - so their natural reaction is to run & try to do better. This conversation reminds me of the scene in the silly movie "Hitch", with the young Will Smith (Alex) falling for Cressida, who decides to cheat on him with someone more... baller: Alex: I love you. I love you so much. Cressida (looking uncomfortable): I love you, too, Alex. Alex (getting more pathetic): I know you don't love me as much as I love you. But that's okay. I'm just glad you love me at all. Older Alex (narrating): In retrospect, I guess I may have come on a little strong. But the experience taught me a lot. Alex (looking at Cressida making out in car with baller ): Cressida! What are you doing? Cressida: I'm sorry, Alex. Alex (pathetic looking getting soaked in the rain looking into the car): But I love you. What did I do wrong? Just tell me what I did wrong. Baller: Dude, you're doing it right now! Cressida: Alex, I'm sorry. | ||
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Garnet
Vietnam9043 Posts
On July 14 2009 15:13 citi.zen wrote: Amen. This sort of thing is pretty universal: people want to feel they are "doing well" in love, as in: dating someone of equal or higher value. When you come on too strong you are saying you think the other person is way higher value than you - so their natural reaction is to run & try to do better. This conversation reminds me of the scene in the silly movie "Hitch", with the young Will Smith (Alex) falling for Cressida, who decides to cheat on him with someone more... baller: Alex: I love you. I love you so much. Cressida (looking uncomfortable): I love you, too, Alex. Alex (getting more pathetic): I know you don't love me as much as I love you. But that's okay. I'm just glad you love me at all. Older Alex (narrating): In retrospect, I guess I may have come on a little strong. But the experience taught me a lot. Alex (looking at Cressida making out in car with baller ): Cressida! What are you doing? Cressida: I'm sorry, Alex. Alex (pathetic looking getting soaked in the rain looking into the car): But I love you. What did I do wrong? Just tell me what I did wrong. Baller: Dude, you're doing it right now! Cressida: Alex, I'm sorry. WOW | ||
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Garnet
Vietnam9043 Posts
On July 14 2009 13:43 251 wrote: I don't know what happened man, but word of advice - you don't 'confess' to girls. Think about that. Who wants to hear a confession? It sends a message that you are 'guilty' of liking her, like its some wrong thing. No matter how gooey a girl makes you feel inside, you don't just lay all your cards out on the table like that, you're setting yourself up for sure rejection. You set yourself up to be a 'sure bet' that she could fall back on should she not get what she wants, but she'd never fall back on you. As much as you may hate it, you have to play 'the game'. You give a little, take away a little. Just be funny, sweet (but not overbearing) and eventually you'll get inside her head. Eventually things escalate to a point where you both are crazy about each other, and then you just kiss her. After that, you don't play games and if she rejects you or your kiss, you take it all away and THEN see how she reacts. If the girl REALLY doesn't care then move on. Chances are by that point she's yours. This is just the nature of the way we're all sexually and psychologically screwed up. Obviously it gets deeper than just that, but I've had my share of successes and failures. Once you get it, you get it. Best of luck bro Yeah you may be right, BUT I don't have time! She's moving away! It's not like we are still in highschool seeing each other everyday... | ||
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251
United States1401 Posts
On July 14 2009 15:29 Garnet wrote: Yeah you may be right, BUT I don't have time! She's moving away! It's not like we are still in highschool seeing each other everyday... Yeah, that sucks any way you slice it. from the way it sounds you already kinda dealt your hand, so now best advice is just play it cool. Be a friend but you know, you got rejected, you're not getting what you want, so she shouldn't get all she wants (the best friend type). try not to get too hung up on it. have no regrets and learn from your experience. lots of smokin' hot girls out there for all of us :D | ||
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R3condite
Korea (South)1541 Posts
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