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Hey,
Well essentially me and this girl went out for about 4 months or more.
We then split up, not in any great dramatic fashion but we did over some small things but mainly we weren't spending enough time together due to school and other things we had on.
Now we are back talking together online and everything is going well. It's been about 6 months since we split up.
We were really close when we were together.
So when im having a conversation with her online, could you give me some advice on trying to get back together with her?
Things to say to hint I still like her, things like that? or really just your own opinion. I know you'll assume I'm a coward but I really ain't planning on doing the whole "xxxxx i still love you" on msn kinda idea. So something a bit more subtle.
My worry is that shes kinda super emotional at times, and I fear that if I suggest it openly like the example I gave above and she's kinda undecided or not sure that she wants to get back into a relationship she'll relapse back into being super emotional about us which would just cause her more heartache.
Thanks a lot guys, take care.
   
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Step 1: Avoid ex girlfriends. Step 2: See Step 1.
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Try to see her more often. 4 months isn't really that big of a deal to make her feel like its a huge part of her life but she'll come back to you after you meet her more often and be nice to her, etc.
It really depends on the reason for breakup. I'm going thru the same thing
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tell her its just about the sex and ask to be fuck buddies
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United States24799 Posts
McDonald's: What you want is what you get.
American Express: Don't leave home without it.
Coco Pops: I'd rather have a bowl of Coco Pops.
Any of these will work.
edit: if in doubt, use "Go to work on an egg."
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United States47024 Posts
MasterCard: There are some things money can't buy. For everything else, there's MasterCard.
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United States24799 Posts
Not sure how my trademarks I'm violating but...
Finger-lickin' good.
Let your fingers do the walking.
Can you hear me now?? Good!!
I can't believe I ate the whole thing!
M'm M'm Good!
It keeps going, and going, and going...
They're grrrreat!
Have it your way
I'm lovin' it!
You can't resist the twist!
The best a man can get.
It beats as it sweeps as it cleans.
The milk chocolate melts in your mouth - not in your hand.
Drinka pinta milka day.
These all have a strange meaning in the bedroom lol
btw by putting all of them in one post I've prevented tons of spam
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It kind of depends on how close you guys are now. I think I would try to casually suggest something like "Hey heroes is on tonite, do you want to come over and watch it?" or "Hey, this movie just came out, want to see it?"...something that clearly you would do if you were friends but also shows some degree of interest in her. From this you can sort of gage her interest in you, because if a girl is interested she will usually won't miss an opportunity to hang out. So if you ask to do "x" on friday, and she says "no" without offering an alternative or a different day, then I think it's safe to say she's not interested.
You gotta be careful though, because you really are walking on thin ice. Its possible that she just wants to be friends and if you try to hard it could ruin the relationship altogether.
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Also-
Stay thirsty my friend.
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dude, are you seriously sitting there asking TL.net about hints to say to your ex gf to show you like her?
Do you not have a mind and personality of your own? Why would you want someone elses words, also, how are you not able to tell someone you dated before that you still like them? WTF are you some robot that just does as he is told?
I just think its kind of retarded to be asking a forum how you should talk to an ex gf.....lol
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United States24799 Posts
On May 02 2009 10:11 eXigent. wrote: WTF are you some robot that just does as he is told?
If yes, then girls, here he comes.
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Just tell her how you feel, mostly. You don't have to go all the way and say you love her. Just let her know you still wanna hang out and possibly more.
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Just tell her that you 'gotta have your pops.
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Tell her, that you want it your way.
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United States24799 Posts
On May 02 2009 10:25 ShoCkeyy wrote: Tell her, that you want it your way. Dude:
On May 02 2009 10:04 micronesia wrote: Have it your way
-_-
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IF you wanna get back together - DON'T ask her online. It works like crap and it's not personal at all. Be a man, tell her in person. Flower/flowers are optional, but doctor hippie recommends it.
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Sing backstreet boys songs.
IIIIIIIII WAAAAANT IT THAAAT-A WAY!
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Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
Dont be lame. Don't try and play games just be straight up. You should probabyl invite her out with friends before trying any shit that. Also stay away from ex-girlfriends.
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