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Advice getting back with ex-gf?

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TechniQ.UK
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United Kingdom391 Posts
May 02 2009 00:34 GMT
#1
Hey,

Well essentially me and this girl went out for about 4 months or more.

We then split up, not in any great dramatic fashion but we did over some small things but mainly we weren't spending enough time together due to school and other things we had on.

Now we are back talking together online and everything is going well. It's been about 6 months since we split up.

We were really close when we were together.

So when im having a conversation with her online, could you give me some advice on trying to get back together with her?

Things to say to hint I still like her, things like that? or really just your own opinion. I know you'll assume I'm a coward but I really ain't planning on doing the whole "xxxxx i still love you" on msn kinda idea. So something a bit more subtle.

My worry is that shes kinda super emotional at times, and I fear that if I suggest it openly like the example I gave above and she's kinda undecided or not sure that she wants to get back into a relationship she'll relapse back into being super emotional about us which would just cause her more heartache.


Thanks a lot guys, take care.

*
Fan of: Acer.Scarlett and Liquid'NonY //
xJacky
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
China375 Posts
May 02 2009 00:37 GMT
#2
nike: just do it.
Love was supposed to be something women chased, not men. - Neil Strauss
FastEddieV
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States614 Posts
May 02 2009 00:43 GMT
#3
Step 1: Avoid ex girlfriends.
Step 2: See Step 1.
platinum? more like leaf
SayaSP
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
Laos5494 Posts
May 02 2009 00:44 GMT
#4
sprite: obey your thirst
[iHs]SSP | I-NO-KI BOM-BA-YE | のヮの http://tinyurl.com/MLIStheCV , MLIS.
AzureEye
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States1360 Posts
May 02 2009 00:44 GMT
#5
Try to see her more often. 4 months isn't really that big of a deal to make her feel like its a huge part of her life but she'll come back to you after you meet her more often and be nice to her, etc.

It really depends on the reason for breakup. I'm going thru the same thing
Terrans who whine: http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=107788
CharlieMurphy
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
United States22895 Posts
May 02 2009 00:52 GMT
#6
tell her its just about the sex and ask to be fuck buddies
..and then I would, ya know, check em'. (Aka SpoR)
micronesia
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States24799 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-05-02 00:59:58
May 02 2009 00:59 GMT
#7
McDonald's: What you want is what you get.

American Express: Don't leave home without it.

Coco Pops: I'd rather have a bowl of Coco Pops.

Any of these will work.

edit: if in doubt, use "Go to work on an egg."
ModeratorThere are animal crackers for people and there are people crackers for animals.
TheYango
Profile Joined September 2008
United States47024 Posts
May 02 2009 01:03 GMT
#8
MasterCard: There are some things money can't buy. For everything else, there's MasterCard.
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micronesia
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States24799 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-05-02 01:05:07
May 02 2009 01:04 GMT
#9
Not sure how my trademarks I'm violating but...

Finger-lickin' good.

Let your fingers do the walking.

Can you hear me now?? Good!!

I can't believe I ate the whole thing!

M'm M'm Good!

It keeps going, and going, and going...

They're grrrreat!

Have it your way

I'm lovin' it!

You can't resist the twist!

The best a man can get.

It beats as it sweeps as it cleans.

The milk chocolate melts in your mouth - not in your hand.

Drinka pinta milka day.


These all have a strange meaning in the bedroom lol

btw by putting all of them in one post I've prevented tons of spam
ModeratorThere are animal crackers for people and there are people crackers for animals.
TeNken.1
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States226 Posts
May 02 2009 01:08 GMT
#10
It kind of depends on how close you guys are now. I think I would try to casually suggest something like "Hey heroes is on tonite, do you want to come over and watch it?" or "Hey, this movie just came out, want to see it?"...something that clearly you would do if you were friends but also shows some degree of interest in her. From this you can sort of gage her interest in you, because if a girl is interested she will usually won't miss an opportunity to hang out. So if you ask to do "x" on friday, and she says "no" without offering an alternative or a different day, then I think it's safe to say she's not interested.

You gotta be careful though, because you really are walking on thin ice. Its possible that she just wants to be friends and if you try to hard it could ruin the relationship altogether.
"The G-Don is the official family hitman."
TeNken.1
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States226 Posts
May 02 2009 01:09 GMT
#11
Also-

Stay thirsty my friend.
"The G-Don is the official family hitman."
eXigent.
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
Canada2419 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-05-02 01:12:48
May 02 2009 01:11 GMT
#12
dude, are you seriously sitting there asking TL.net about hints to say to your ex gf to show you like her?

Do you not have a mind and personality of your own? Why would you want someone elses words, also, how are you not able to tell someone you dated before that you still like them? WTF are you some robot that just does as he is told?

I just think its kind of retarded to be asking a forum how you should talk to an ex gf.....lol
micronesia
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States24799 Posts
May 02 2009 01:14 GMT
#13
On May 02 2009 10:11 eXigent. wrote:
WTF are you some robot that just does as he is told?

If yes, then girls, here he comes.
ModeratorThere are animal crackers for people and there are people crackers for animals.
leetchaos
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States395 Posts
May 02 2009 01:18 GMT
#14
Just tell her how you feel, mostly. You don't have to go all the way and say you love her. Just let her know you still wanna hang out and possibly more.
-_-
Profile Blog Joined November 2003
United States7081 Posts
May 02 2009 01:20 GMT
#15
Just tell her that you 'gotta have your pops.
ShoCkeyy
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
7815 Posts
May 02 2009 01:25 GMT
#16
Tell her, that you want it your way.
Life?
micronesia
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States24799 Posts
May 02 2009 01:40 GMT
#17
On May 02 2009 10:25 ShoCkeyy wrote:
Tell her, that you want it your way.

Dude:
On May 02 2009 10:04 micronesia wrote:
Have it your way

-_-
ModeratorThere are animal crackers for people and there are people crackers for animals.
rA.Hippie
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
Denmark714 Posts
May 02 2009 01:54 GMT
#18
IF you wanna get back together - DON'T ask her online. It works like crap and it's not personal at all.
Be a man, tell her in person. Flower/flowers are optional, but doctor hippie recommends it.
I love teh shisha.
RoieTRS
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States2569 Posts
May 02 2009 02:07 GMT
#19
Sing backstreet boys songs.

IIIIIIIII WAAAAANT IT THAAAT-A WAY!
konadora, in Racenilatr's blog: "you need to stop thinking about starcraft or anything computer-related for that matter. It's becoming a bad addiction imo"
Kennigit *
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada19447 Posts
May 02 2009 02:20 GMT
#20
Dont be lame. Don't try and play games just be straight up. You should probabyl invite her out with friends before trying any shit that. Also stay away from ex-girlfriends.
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