[R] Woman issue... advices? - Page 4

On April 10 2009 08:09 Taiche wrote:
Thing is, no video game can dump you. A video game doesn't have any feeling ; actually it's more like a doll. You want to play with it then do it. You can't do that with people. People react in ways you can't always foretell or even understand. What if she suddenly stops talking to you next week ? Or what if she resigns ? Or what if she moves to Thailand next month ?
StarCraft can't do that : it's always available for you to play with.
Also remember that she is your "100% ideal woman" because you think you know her but actually you don't. You have to live with someone to know her and know all of her nasty habits. It's normal she's awesome when you see her : she likes you a lot, it's a seduction game. When you see her, what do you do : try to look great and be funny or fart while poking your nose like you always do when playing SC ? It's a caricature, but do keep in mind you're both playing an act.

On April 10 2009 03:52 JWD wrote:
There's no way a friendship will work - and you know it. When a guy says "losing a huge friendship would be a loss for both of us", what he really means is "I'm totally in love with this girl, and I'm going to keep pursuing her under the pretense of preserving our friendship". This woman might genuinely value your friendship, but you need to put yourself first - if maintaining that friendship is going to drive you nuts and prevent you from getting over her (it is), then you shouldn't.