I know the feeling. It's even worse when no matter how mean or rude you are to the person, making it without a doubt you don't want to talk to them, they still like you and want to talk to you.

kilbejee

Brazil4 Posts

January 23 2009 12:18 GMT

#26

Try and do it subtly / gently first, she might not have the social skills to realise you are not interested in any sort of contact with her. Of couse if that fails, proceed to this:

On January 23 2009 18:15 Hot_Bid wrote:
clearly the appropriate course of action is post on TL, have one of the members link her to this blog, and once she reads it she'll leave you alone

that or kill you

aliceblue

United Kingdom43 Posts

January 23 2009 12:39 GMT

#27

Just because she has left you a few messages on facebook doesn't mean she is trying to get close to you? Just don't talk to her.. pretty simple.

FirstProbe

1206 Posts

January 23 2009 12:53 GMT

#28

why don't you tag this thread to facebook?
[edit] someone else beat me to it

GTR

51671 Posts

January 23 2009 13:10 GMT

#29

On January 23 2009 21:39 aliceblue wrote:
Just because she has left you a few messages on facebook doesn't mean she is trying to get close to you? Just don't talk to her.. pretty simple.

I checked his Facebook, it is more than a 'few'.

Alizee-

United States845 Posts

January 23 2009 13:58 GMT

#30

My recommended course of action: quit being a nerd posting on tl about it, grow up, and learn how to communicate with people. She's bothering you? Good talk to her about it and settle it instead of being just as sketchy as she is.

koreasilver

9109 Posts

January 23 2009 14:09 GMT

#31

I didn't think it was all that bad until I read the last paragraph.

QuanticHawk

United States32157 Posts

January 23 2009 14:17 GMT

#32

Bang her, then ignore her. That will make for the best situation, and certainly the best blog.

Pyrrhuloxia

United States6700 Posts

January 23 2009 22:59 GMT

#33

I wish someone was so interested in me.

Rekrul

Korea (South)17174 Posts

January 23 2009 23:53 GMT

#34

On January 23 2009 15:42 Equinox_kr wrote:
Forgive the crude title, but I am a tad irritated at the moment. I'll keep this brief since I have class in 6.5 hours and I'm fucking exhausted.

There's this girl in one of my classes last semester. She's nice, I don't talk to her often but she makes the attempt to talk to me. I honestly don't like overly forward people like this but I try to stay polite and shit. She adds me as a friend on Facebook, fine. She posts every so often, fine. OK, not so fine because her messages are like, "Have a happy new year" or whatever. It could be she's trying to be nice, but fuck; I want to be left alone. I do not want to associate myself with this person. But she keeps up with the constant prying posts on Facebook. If I put my status as, "Jaeyoung is working," then she would post something like, "oh what are you working on?" I'm probably overreacting but that's why I'm posting this.

I probably didn't make a whole lot of sense, but bottom line: There's a person at school I do not wish to associate myself with but she keeps trying to become close with me.

Oh and funny story which leads me to believe she's a TAD insane: she tags photos of me on Facebook (I rarely take photos, it's strictly with close friends only) and I was about to check it out for the first time and I think to myself, "Huh, I don't recall her taking a picture of me." (which is fucking freaky as it is) I look at the photo, it's a picture of Dong Bang Shin Ki (or w/e they're called/spelled). What the FUCK? I check where I'm tagged, it's some shaggy haired member of the group. And I'm not just tagged either, another Korean guy in my class is tagged as well. I haven't talked to him about it, he probably thinks she's fucking insane as well.

she likes you and is ugly i guess

just tell her straight up to stop acting like a fucking stalker

say it half jokingly half serious but make sure your tone of voice is not that of an irritated or angry person, sound happy

it will do the trick and you won't look like an asshole

if she keeps coming then tell her to fuck off angrily

(u dug urself this ditch by being nice and polite, i've become very good at just completely blocking everyone out of my world unless i choose to let them in)

ahswtini

Northern Ireland22213 Posts

January 24 2009 01:02 GMT

#35

On January 23 2009 19:12 EpiK wrote:
1. take a screenshot of this thread

2. upload screenshot on facebook

3. tag screenshot as her

Haha, sweet justice

il0seonpurpose

Korea (South)5638 Posts

January 24 2009 04:17 GMT

#36

Pics?

InRaged

1047 Posts

January 24 2009 05:44 GMT

#37

On January 23 2009 16:36 BanZu wrote:

Show nested quote +

I assume it would be lolol

Notice the only adjective he uses is "nice"

next time some guy asks what to do when he's put in friend zone, he should be given link to this blog immediately ;P

But on topic, the lesson of today - next time, don't be polite when you're trying to dodge something, be it girl or whatever else

Grobyc

Canada18410 Posts

January 24 2009 06:52 GMT

#38

Not quite, she will hit him over the head until he is unconscious, drag him back to her place, have her way with time(i.e tie up games and all), then kill your family infront of you. After that she will continue to bite off your dick, feed you it, then kill you.

HiOT

Sweden1000 Posts

January 24 2009 10:50 GMT

#39

If you cant get the leaver up for the beaver, try the ace you have in your sleaver.

StarN

United States2587 Posts

January 24 2009 13:17 GMT

#40

hello JaeYoung my name is Jinwon and I have had a similar experience in the past. The best thing to do is to keep ignoring her, she'll probably cry herself to sleep for a few weeks or a few months idk. If you want to speed up the process write her a Facebook message or some shit saying that she's annoying or obnoxious or something nicer than that if you will, but you gotta be somewhat of a douche bag if you want to be released from this prison.

Best of luck sir.