EPTPorn and Internet Addiction - Page 4
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Bockit
Sydney2287 Posts
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gm.tOSS
Germany898 Posts
The trick is to learn to like yourself (how was already covered by previous posts) - it'll shine through you, take away fear and add selfconfidence. That's a much greater position to turn your life around in terms of getting out, get a gf, experience your own stories and live a normal life. | ||
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KOFgokuon
United States14910 Posts
who watches 3 hours of porn a day stream a movie, beat off, move on | ||
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gm.tOSS
Germany898 Posts
The notebook I am no one special. Just a common man with common thoughts. I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But in one aspect I've succeeded as gloriously as anyone who ever lived. I've loved another with all my heart and soul. And for me that has always been enough. | ||
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
On January 06 2009 14:45 MoltkeWarding wrote: I would take the advise of finding productive hobbies seriously. You need to keep yourself active, mentally or physically. Yes, they will tell you in any rehab program that the best way to break a habit is to form a new (hopefully positive) habit. How do you think drug addicts start with 'gateway drugs' like weed and work their way into heroine junkies? They fill old hobbies with new ones, of course its easy to kick alcohol when you've got cocaine to fill the void. also, I have heard that it takes on average 21 days to break a habit cold turkey. I watch porn plenty and so does my gf, sometimes we watch it together. Its great. Sometimes I can even get her to try the shit the chicks are doing in the videos. I could probably say I am addicted to it, but I don't think its a bad/detrimental addiction in my case. Some days/weeks I have other shit to do and totally forget about it. Other days I can't stop watching throughout the day. I think its just the nature of the human sex drive. It comes and goes for me. PS- I think its absurd when people quit porn. I just can't understand the logic. There is really nothing to gain from it. Unless of course you are a chronic m-bater and it is ruining your life. My friend recently got his first girlfriend and he deleted all his porn then proceeded to tell me it is pollution and blah blah. So after some ridiculing I googled it. I found mostly religious people on youtube talking about quitting it etc. Personally I think it's just weak minded people who let themselves be consumed by it and it's the same weak minded people who have to quit it. That's probably not a good theory though because you could say that about anything really. I mean anything can be an addiction right? Hell I live/ate/breathed SC 5-6 years ago and it totally owned my life. But with something like porn, It is just so manditory. I think of it like food or water. It is just a lesser necessity in life. Top4 living requirements in order: Air Water Food Reproduction So since we aren't savages going around fucking any random women, it is a required release imo. Otherwise you're gonna have a bunch of angry males all over the place. Just look at most serial killers, they are usually antisocial guys who never got laid. The releases are needed otherwise your animal instincts of proving yourself in one way or the other (being argumentative, fighting, etc) are going to take over. edit- Also, Too much of a good thing is usually a bad thing. All things should be done/used in moderation. Hell, even too much water can kill you. | ||
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yoshtodd
United States418 Posts
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
On January 07 2009 01:11 KOFgokuon wrote: wat who watches 3 hours of porn a day stream a movie, beat off, move on This is really good advice | ||
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Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
On January 13 2009 16:58 CharlieMurphy wrote: Yes, they will tell you in any rehab program that the best way to break a habit is to form a new (hopefully positive) habit. How do you think drug addicts start with 'gateway drugs' like weed and work their way into heroine junkies? They fill old hobbies with new ones, of course its easy to kick alcohol when you've got cocaine to fill the void. also, I have heard that it takes on average 21 days to break a habit cold turkey. I watch porn plenty and so does my gf, sometimes we watch it together. Its great. Sometimes I can even get her to try the shit the chicks are doing in the videos. I could probably say I am addicted to it, but I don't think its a bad/detrimental addiction in my case. Some days/weeks I have other shit to do and totally forget about it. Other days I can't stop watching throughout the day. I think its just the nature of the human sex drive. It comes and goes for me. PS- I think its absurd when people quit porn. I just can't understand the logic. There is really nothing to gain from it. Unless of course you are a chronic m-bater and it is ruining your life. My friend recently got his first girlfriend and he deleted all his porn then proceeded to tell me it is pollution and blah blah. So after some ridiculing I googled it. I found mostly religious people on youtube talking about quitting it etc. Personally I think it's just weak minded people who let themselves be consumed by it and it's the same weak minded people who have to quit it. That's probably not a good theory though because you could say that about anything really. I mean anything can be an addiction right? Hell I live/ate/breathed SC 5-6 years ago and it totally owned my life. But with something like porn, It is just so manditory. I think of it like food or water. It is just a lesser necessity in life. Top4 living requirements in order: Air Water Food Reproduction So since we aren't savages going around fucking any random women, it is a required release imo. Otherwise you're gonna have a bunch of angry males all over the place. Just look at most serial killers, they are usually antisocial guys who never got laid. The releases are needed otherwise your animal instincts of proving yourself in one way or the other (being argumentative, fighting, etc) are going to take over. edit- Also, Too much of a good thing is usually a bad thing. All things should be done/used in moderation. Hell, even too much water can kill you. Well said. | ||
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