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nimysa
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Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
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GhostKorean
United States2330 Posts
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nimysa
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allowicious
United States972 Posts
several articles written by college kid on how he overcame his shyness | ||
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
Yeah drinking does help, I did it only a couple of times but man I was talking to women in college at some party down during spring break | ||
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b3tty
Canada216 Posts
perhaps that will spark some change in you and you'll open up a bit more : ) give yourself some time to grow | ||
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meegrean
Thailand7699 Posts
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BanZu
United States3329 Posts
I also have the same problem, getting better though! | ||
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emperorchampion
Canada9496 Posts
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
On December 08 2008 10:04 b3tty wrote: when you start college / working or something you'll be thrown into a new pool of people perhaps that will spark some change in you and you'll open up a bit more : ) give yourself some time to grow Well the work part happened and that's when I came into this problem. | ||
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Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
Then again I wasn't looking to be more outgoing at the time. It just kind of happened on it's own. | ||
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emperorchampion
Canada9496 Posts
It will be uncomfortable, but hey rome wasn't built in a day. ( +2 for rhyme and cheesy quote) | ||
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3clipse
Canada2555 Posts
I agree with the rest, college, work, alcohol helps with this. | ||
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shavingcream66
United States1219 Posts
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Dazed.
Canada3301 Posts
On December 08 2008 09:50 nimysa wrote: You are who you are man. Dont beat yourself down for being shy. If you genuinely want to be more out going, rather than thinking that you being shy is just a 'bad' trait, then just work at talking to other people. Simply that. Nothing else to it, just force yourself to go out in the open and communicate. You may never become completely open to large social situations, but you will be better at it.I'm a really introverted, shy, quiet, unsocial kid. Its just I'm nervous around being people and bad at talking with people. I'm not nervous around people I know closely, but I'm really not a person that would get a lot of friends easily. I'm a bad public speaker for the related reason as well, and I'm just not a social person at all and I'm really bad at understanding people and body language as well. Any advice or suggestions for improving this? | ||
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food
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SmoKing2012
United States385 Posts
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
On December 08 2008 10:38 emperorchampion wrote: imo opinion it would be the social atmosphere (party) with alcohol as just the catalyst to go to the party. There are a lot of people who drink that you don't want to make friends with. It will be uncomfortable, but hey rome wasn't built in a day. ( +2 for rhyme and cheesy quote) What rhyme? | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
I was very shy for ages, and now I am the one who is always doing presentations and questioning the lecturer's assertions during busy lectures. | ||
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