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Wurzelbrumpft
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Germany471 Posts
October 28 2008 12:08 GMT
#1
is there stuff you would never forgive a friend for? I seriously messed up once and did some bad stuff by misusing a friend of mines trust. i didnt really realise i was the one who messed up until like 2 weeks later, i actually drove over to his house, trying to apologize in person but he actually locked himself up in his room when his mother opened the door for me. i tried it by using instant messenging but he just ignores me, so i gave up at some point. we see eachother at school but just ignore each other. this was three months ago and well still ignoring each other, what he also does is always turning very loud as soon as i show up, just not talking anymore but yelling, he is sort of a attention whore i guess. but im just fed up with the whole crap, it doesnt do him nor me any good, and its like oh i dont know if you should come, HEs gonna be there, or the other way around, if some party or event or somethin is up.

I know hell never apologize hes just not that type that apologizes, and well i am the type that does.

so any ideas how i should?

beam me up scotty, this planet suxX
Terranesque
Profile Joined September 2007
119 Posts
October 28 2008 12:13 GMT
#2
Cut your tongue off in front of him and let him keep it.
Wurzelbrumpft
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Germany471 Posts
October 28 2008 12:14 GMT
#3
oh i loved that movie.

but plz serious answers. im srsly srious
beam me up scotty, this planet suxX
Orome
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
Switzerland11984 Posts
October 28 2008 12:17 GMT
#4
what did you do?
On a purely personal note, I'd like to show Yellow the beauty of infinitely repeating Starcraft 2 bunkers. -Boxer
Wurzelbrumpft
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Germany471 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-10-28 12:23:57
October 28 2008 12:18 GMT
#5
i used his instant messenger account to write to my ex girlfriend under his name, he found out, told me i should never do it again, i did it again.

i askin for a way you think i should apoligize
beam me up scotty, this planet suxX
Bouja
Profile Joined July 2003
Canada33 Posts
October 28 2008 12:22 GMT
#6
Bros before Hoes
Orome
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
Switzerland11984 Posts
October 28 2008 12:23 GMT
#7
Well why do you drive by his house and use messengers to apologize when you see him in school every day? Apologize then?

He does sound like a drama queen though.
On a purely personal note, I'd like to show Yellow the beauty of infinitely repeating Starcraft 2 bunkers. -Boxer
Suggestion Box
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
China115 Posts
October 28 2008 12:59 GMT
#8
On October 28 2008 21:22 Bouja wrote:
Bros before Hoes

His friend sounds like a real bitch though.

IDK IDK. I've had friends turn their backs on me, because of something I said in public about his famiily members. The mistakes we make when we are young, Ah. Well. I have had to turn my back on a family member also, simply because, he was fucking up my month big time and lying to my face to do it. I won't settle for having a month of my life burned for who knows what. I don't even remember it was so long ago, but I think I was right. I wrote it down somewhere.

There are plenty of people out there, and sometimes you will lose even the perfect ones, but there are plenty more, so don't sweat it. Think of it like this. There are a dozen copies of your friend out there, and some better ones too. This particular one you have pressed the wrong button and so that's that. But move on.
conCentrate9
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United States438 Posts
October 28 2008 13:46 GMT
#9
You've already tried. You're done.
wo0py
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
Netherlands922 Posts
October 28 2008 14:16 GMT
#10
fuck men that turn backs. id go find another guy to hang with, the world is full of ppl. some are evil some are good. ditch the evil, connect with the good.
We shouldnt recreate anger of the non-virtual world
GHOSTCLAW
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States17042 Posts
October 28 2008 15:08 GMT
#11
On October 28 2008 22:46 conCentrate9 wrote:
You've already tried. You're done.



Gonna hafta go with this response as well.
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TimeShifter
Profile Joined October 2008
Singapore235 Posts
October 28 2008 16:34 GMT
#12
what did you actually do to him in the first place that made him so angry at you?
strawberries~
Empyrean
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
16987 Posts
October 28 2008 16:45 GMT
#13
On October 28 2008 21:18 Wurzelbrumpft wrote:
i used his instant messenger account to write to my ex girlfriend under his name, he found out, told me i should never do it again, i did it again.

i askin for a way you think i should apoligize

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Scorpion
Profile Blog Joined April 2006
United States1974 Posts
October 28 2008 16:49 GMT
#14
On October 28 2008 21:08 Wurzelbrumpft wrote:
is there stuff you would never forgive a friend for? I seriously messed up once and did some bad stuff by misusing a friend of mines trust. i didnt really realise i was the one who messed up until like 2 weeks later, i actually drove over to his house, trying to apologize in person but he actually locked himself up in his room when his mother opened the door for me. i tried it by using instant messenging but he just ignores me, so i gave up at some point. we see eachother at school but just ignore each other. this was three months ago and well still ignoring each other, what he also does is always turning very loud as soon as i show up, just not talking anymore but yelling, he is sort of a attention whore i guess. but im just fed up with the whole crap, it doesnt do him nor me any good, and its like oh i dont know if you should come, HEs gonna be there, or the other way around, if some party or event or somethin is up.

I know hell never apologize hes just not that type that apologizes, and well i am the type that does.

so any ideas how i should?


I was in that situation, eventually we had a fight and became friends after wards. I'm not saying you should fight but that's how it worked for me XD!

Also, not being scared in front of him, trying to make the other person leave out of fear.
Mango @ U.S.East!
Initial_H.C.
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
Canada560 Posts
October 28 2008 17:03 GMT
#15
If he back stabs you, you're going to have to quickly unally and take off vision.

Seriously though, real friends will get over it... so just need some more time maybe? ><
Deleted User 3420
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
24492 Posts
October 28 2008 17:31 GMT
#16
no, there is not
and not just my friends
cgrinker
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United States3824 Posts
October 28 2008 18:05 GMT
#17
If he can't handle change in his life that probably doesn't speak well of his coping skills. It will be good life experiance to learn to not take that kind of bullshit from people. Unless he's got your Cd Key or something.
il0seonpurpose
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Korea (South)5638 Posts
October 28 2008 19:16 GMT
#18
lol i find it weird how you used his screen name to talk to your ex gf... is this a story you can tell us about?
Wurzelbrumpft
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Germany471 Posts
October 28 2008 21:55 GMT
#19
yes the story is very weird il telll u it at some other time maybee in another blog now im relayyy realllyyy drunk
beam me up scotty, this planet suxX
Folca
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
2235 Posts
October 28 2008 23:20 GMT
#20
On October 29 2008 06:55 Wurzelbrumpft wrote:
yes the story is very weird il telll u it at some other time maybee in another blog now im relayyy realllyyy drunk

Well you're obviously drunk because of the problem that you just presented us.
Just fix it quickly and get drunk together
Then everyone turns happy yes?
Dea : one time when he was playing vs the comps he asked me "how do I make that flying unit that makes the other stuff invisible" and I reply "ur playing terran zomg"
Juicyfruit
Profile Joined May 2008
Canada5484 Posts
October 29 2008 01:01 GMT
#21
What you did, to me, doesn't seem bad enough that it's "unforgivable".
nujabes
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States286 Posts
October 29 2008 01:04 GMT
#22
If you're friend is really as close as you stated, he should get over it unless he has drama queen issues. Friendships endure many trials and if a close friendship ends over something trivial as this, he isn't worth your time
fgsvsd
Profile Joined June 2007
Switzerland348 Posts
October 29 2008 01:26 GMT
#23
Doing what you did a SECOND time after he specifically told you NOT to do it again...



You've got nobody to blame but yourself.


At the risk of me being the "I analyze your character over the internet connection" guy, it sounds like you're used to apologizing because you don't think (or don't care?) about the consequences of your actions. So your apologies don't really tend to mean much anymore as you hand them out like they're flyers and you're on a shitty temporary job.

If what I wrote rings true to you, try thinking a bit more about the consequences of what you do, and cut down on the apologies. You'll come out a better person and lose less friends in stupid ways.


For this friend though, it sounds like:
On October 28 2008 22:46 conCentrate9 wrote:
You've already tried. You're done.
fgsvsd
Profile Joined June 2007
Switzerland348 Posts
October 29 2008 01:33 GMT
#24
I have to disagree with the "your friend's a drama queen/bitch" / "it wusnt ril friendship lolz if sumthin so smal like my peen can stop it" responses, each person has his or her absolute quirks and if you can't respect them well you can fuck off. We all have our reasons to do what we do.
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