EPTYes, girls hold grudges. FOREVER.
Your fault for mixing friendship and business tho...
do girls hold grudges? - Page 3
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lilsusie
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Yes, girls hold grudges. FOREVER. Your fault for mixing friendship and business tho... | ||
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NarutO
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geometryb
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Elvin_vn
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[X]Ken_D
United States4653 Posts
On October 23 2008 01:13 t_co wrote: LoL she told me she had connections before she got pissed at me. Now I'm just like  LOL. She told you that so she would get the job. ![[image loading]](http://www.impawards.com/2004/posters/grudge.jpg) YOU ARE FUCKED | ||
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karbon
Canada137 Posts
On October 23 2008 02:36 t_co wrote: we turned her down because she went on and on about how the place she interned at last summer didn't exist anymore and how she felt so bad about the people that got fired etc etc lol well.. her fault for not knowing how to do an interview i guess.. On October 23 2008 03:36 Mooga wrote: Yes, why do you care? because i do. good enough an answer? | ||
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Rayzorblade
United States1172 Posts
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TimeShifter
Singapore235 Posts
On October 24 2008 10:43 [X]Ken_D wrote: D: not that bad t_co, its not that bad..LOL. She told you that so she would get the job. YOU ARE FUCKED | ||
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CapO
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Chuiu
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koreakool
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EtherealDeath
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
Dont sweat it bro, shes probably just going through a stressful time due to other factors so this is just compiling on it. She`ll get over it and apologize to you pretty soon I assume. Do not make excuses or anything, tell her the truth on why she was rejected. It will make it better faster. | ||
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Klockan3
Sweden2866 Posts
Or in other words, lie to her and say that it were not your decision to not hire her, tell her that she is the best and that she would probably end up with a better job anyway etc. Thats how girls handle these things among themselves. "You can't handle the truth!!" is the mindset you should have every time you talk with most women. Edit: And if you do not act quickly you will be branded "That asshole which fucked up that job opening for me" by her for the rest of your life. | ||
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TimeShifter
Singapore235 Posts
On October 24 2008 22:04 Klockan3 wrote: nono..this is very bad"You can't handle the truth!!" is the mindset you should have every time you talk with most women. | ||
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Chef
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Long answer: Girls are fickle. You can expect a girl to act like you've destroyed her life for a 3 days, and then be completely over it. It's actually pretty ironic that people think guys are the ones to let go of things easily, when I've met so many who can't stop talking about their high school 'fiancée.' Okay, it's just the one, but it's gotten really fucking annoying 3 years after he's graded. You need to translate their actions properly, or you're going to end up confused as hell, and wanting to get rid of them all together. In general, shit storms will happen occasionally, even frequently. It's just a matter of knowing that this person in particular lacks strong self-control in tough times. Let them learn the lesson on their own when you don't pay any attention to their whining. Rekrul's advice is pretty good. But they aren't going to come back running and apologising unless you're either attractive, have lots of money, and/or are in some way extremely above average valuable (in their view, ofc). They're just sort of going to pretend everything is normal, and hope you do too. | ||
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TimeShifter
Singapore235 Posts
On October 23 2008 17:57 G.s)NarutO wrote: Better question would be: Are there girls who don't hold grudges!? very rarely..its like girls who dont hold grudges are as many as = guys who dont watch PORN haha..all you guys watch porn lol.. =X | ||
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Klockan3
Sweden2866 Posts
You know any woman who really wants to hear the truth? | ||
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CFDragon
United States304 Posts
Yes, yes they do. | ||
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Frits
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On October 24 2008 16:07 Rekrul wrote: Girls dont hold grudges as much as men do. Any grudge a female may have is likely to randomly dissipate at any point of time depending on her emotional flow. Time erodes on the grudges of females much faster than on those of men. Dont sweat it bro, shes probably just going through a stressful time due to other factors so this is just compiling on it. She`ll get over it and apologize to you pretty soon I assume. Do not make excuses or anything, tell her the truth on why she was rejected. It will make it better faster. I dont know man Ive seen chicks who were friends for years never even talk to eachother again over something retarded. I mean guys fight it out and that's basically it no hard feelings. | ||
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