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I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months now and it's been great. We seem to connect very well and laugh forever and all that good stuff. We also have sex everyday so that's a cool plus also. We started really getting into sex, going 3 or 4 times a day if we could, maybe more. The thing is, the more we had sex, the more I got concerned about her cheating on me and her past relationships.
That's whenever I started feeling depression. I would have bad thoughts about her cheating on me and of all the other dicks that have been in her and stuff. She's sex addicted, she just thinks about sex all the time. It bothers me sometimes because it makes me think about it a lot and I end up not wanting to have sex or something.
Well, anyways, my girlfriend wouldn't really tell me of her past relationships or anything. She would just mention some guys that she would talk to or use to go out with but never say what she did with them. From this, I really thought my girlfriend wasn't that fucked up, she must of fucked only like 3 or 4 times.
Well, I invited some friends over to smoke weed at my house, and, while we were in the pool, the 4 of us started talking about sex and what girls we've fucked and stuff and one of my friend's says "Oh, I know someone who's fucked your girlfriend... will you get mad if I tell you?" I thought to myself "Oh, probably just her ex and maybe fooled around with her last ex, from what I know." My friend and my other friends(the 3 of them) all start telling me of guys that have had sex with my girlfriend. Her first ex, they fucked a lot, did everything possible, he went in a lot of times for a long time, it was like a 3 year relationship. After that, she was like "fuck love" and started having random sex with people. She supposidly got double penetrated by some guy in art club and another dude, had sex with the son of a drug dealer, had sex with two friends of mine, again double penetration, had sex with some random guy at a party, gave a blowjob to a guy in the park, and all this shit.
It really tore me apart, hearing all this shit about your girlfriend. It really does. Imagining all those other cocks that have penetrated your girlfriend. I remember thinking "Meh, it won't be that bad" and now thinking "Fuck, I shouldn't of heard that." It just depresses me. I feel like breaking up with her because of this. What should I do? T_T;
 
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Tell her your feelings and see how it goes.
gl
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if what your friends told you about ur gf is true, i would be turned off by it. shes too dirty, definitely not my kind of girl. i would dump her, since shes making you feel depressed and shit.
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Just be like "youre only fucking me right?"
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If you love her truly, you even put up with this shit, although I agree, it's terribad. On the other hand, you sound more than concerned - giving and listening to advice on an internet forum (esp. about games) is cheesy and lame, but I'd say talk it over first before taking any action. Maybe you are THE ONE whom she may stop this for.
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On August 31 2008 01:08 Naib wrote:
If you love her truly, you even put up with this shit, although I agree, it's terribad. On the other hand, you sound more than concerned - giving and listening to advice on an internet forum (esp. about games) is cheesy and lame, but I'd say talk it over first before taking any action. Maybe you are THE ONE whom she may stop this for.
I'm not concerned with her cheating on me anymore because she's the clingy type. Very strange, indeed.
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United States22883 Posts
1. You're an idiot for believing your friends
2. You're an idiot for being in a group discussion about the girls you've fucked
3. You're not depressed
4. If you can't stop believing your friends, then ask her about it. Trust her word over theirs, and don't let this stuff build up inside you.
5. You're probably not going to accept this anyways, but it shouldn't matter what she did in the past, as long as she's not giving you crabs.
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Netherlands6142 Posts
Dunno why you're asking us, it really is your choice. You either go for a sex-packed relationship which, I'm pretty sure, you're bound to have (for as long as it lasts, doing her every way and that but possibly ending up as a loveless sex fiend after it ends, which it in this case will, sonner or later). Or you, which I think applies, look for more than that in a girl, true love, the one, all that, want to have a long-lasting loving relationship with her in which case you need to sit her down and tell you how you feel etc (tis true, don't just believe what your friends say, every story deserves a hearing from the other perspective) in which case you may be able to work things out or abruptly end it (both are, in this scenario, for the best, imo). On another note,I dated a girl once with a troubled sexual history (not as bad as yours though) and she, coming out of it, held off on the sex for a pretty while (more than 3 months) so I don't feel that your girl is really changed her ways or something, having at you 4 times a day. I could be wrong of course.
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Your girlfriend is a whore
dump the bitch
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What is past, is past dude. If it bothers you... talk to her about it. You can't help what you feel, but you can't change her actions either. Also, that's fucked up if you're gonna believe your friends over what she's gotta say, how can you just leave her in the dark like this? If she's your girlfriend and you care for her, then you gotta let her know what you heard and hear it straight from her mouth.
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No one can change the past, only the future. Its up to two things now, your ability to forgive and her ability to change.
if either fails then your relationship is gone.
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On August 31 2008 01:57 8Pylon wrote:
Your girlfriend is a whore
dump the bitch
Oh wow, I'd totally exploit that. Can you say Anal and Head every day? Hell she seems like such a freak she'd probably let you bang her in the ass then she'd suck it.
(I'm so sexually degenerated, god.)
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Obviously it's a so called vampire...
The only problem with them is if you start to feel for them, then you gonna get vampire drained.
No joke, you'll get sick and powerless when you find out for real she's cheating on you.
Second chance? Sure, but she does not deserve someone like you...
Find someone better, and keep this relationship sex-only, no feelings.. asking will only make things worse since she'll probably lie.
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like many have said what is past is past. how many girlfriends have you had? you ever talk to her about it? what do you want out of the relationship? does she want the same thing? maybe she was depressed and made some mistakes and dont want to talk about it OR would like to talk about it but don't know if your relationship is mature enough for it.
anyway if it was me i would just talk to her calmly and not use a criticizing tone or anything. just find out what really happened and if you two can continue on like this. if not then go on with life and do other things.
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On August 31 2008 01:57 8Pylon wrote:
Your girlfriend is a whore
dump the bitch
leave her number / pics here first though
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On August 31 2008 02:22 indecision wrote:Show nested quote +On August 31 2008 01:57 8Pylon wrote:
Your girlfriend is a whore
dump the bitch leave her number / pics here first though
I second that motion.
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Actually I think I need to give you some real advice. You sound like you're a very insecure and jealous person.
Don't ask her about her previous relationships, it'll only hurt you, and make you mad. Trust me on this, I'm the same way. Whenever any ex of mine talked about her ex-bf and sex with him. I'd get disgusted with her, and angry.
If her whoreness bugs you that much, then you need to break up with her. Make sure YOU break up with her, because you sound like a pussy, and if she dumps you. You'll be owned for a few months maybe a year. (No offense on the "pussy" part.)
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On August 31 2008 01:04 CapO wrote:
if what your friends told you about ur gf is true, i would be turned off by it. shes too dirty, definitely not my kind of girl. i would dump her, since shes making you feel depressed and shit.
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On August 31 2008 01:34 Jibba wrote:
1. You're an idiot for believing your friends
2. You're an idiot for being in a group discussion about the girls you've fucked
3. You're not depressed
4. If you can't stop believing your friends, then ask her about it. Trust her word over theirs, and don't let this stuff build up inside you.
5. You're probably not going to accept this anyways, but it shouldn't matter what she did in the past, as long as she's not giving you crabs.
Well holy shit Freud good going!
And that's how the passive male ends up with a cheating backstabbing whore by trusting all the words foolishly.
Not trying to say he ain't another Othello, but calling someone an idiot for having doubts created by the comments of his friends, is just a bit out there.
If anything, he could probably get in touch with the ex's and find out for himself if he wants to, dig through the truth and figure it out from there.
The bigger the wetter the better, I'd say though.
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Dont listen to my first statement
Like Krohm and many others have said the past is the past. Cant be changed. Talk to her, tell her how you feel, and ask whats up. When doing so stay calm and try not to be like O_O RAWR BITCH RAWR!! stay composed and shit.
In the end if it still bothers you alot and the thought of other man dicks in her disgusts you just dump her. Simple and you move on.
Throw 30 quarters and at her say "Here's your pieces of silver judas!" and bail
epic ending
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