I suggest you guys run away to start your own lives. I dun know how old you are, but think of some quick ways to earn a living and get outta there. In my opinion it's the only way to forget about those family pressure and start a new life. I know it's easier said than being done, but currently I'm kinda facing a similar issue. Because I'm still young and stuff, running away is not realistic, so I just work my ass off at school, get into a good university, get into a good career with monstrous pay, and run away to start my own life.