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InfeSteD
United States4658 Posts
Would you that be considered cheating? or is it normal? P.S. I whack off even more than before and I watch tons of porn more than before  I love my girl and everything.. but I just feel like this everyday when I hang out with other girls etc.. I'm like horny all the time and I didn't used to be like this before.. I would actually turn alot of girls down etc   | ||
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crabapple
United States397 Posts
and yes that would be cheating. im sure you know, but we all still ask beause we can't to get away with it. everyone is tempted, but it's how u handle that temptation. p.s. good thing i have 3 legs. | ||
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InfeSteD
United States4658 Posts
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XCetron
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Chef
10810 Posts
Stop watching porn. Not because it's evil, or bad, or immoral, but because that's why you're thinking about it all the time. Find something else to do during the time you usually watch porn, and you'll find yourself having overall more wholesome thoughts. Really, you should be spending your time thinking about your kid, not other girls, but that's not my business. It isn't cheating to think about other girls, but it isn't good either. It makes you less dependable. It's your actions that matter though, so if you can continue outwardly being loyal and devoted to your girl and child, you don't have to feel terribly ashamed. I think both guys and girls fantasize about movie stars and the like, but you should know that they are fantasy, and not spend all your time entertaining them, or thinking they might be possible. I have never been in a situation like yours, so this advice is purely speculative. | ||
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iakNab
131 Posts
On August 14 2008 06:55 crabapple wrote: oversexing increases prostaglandin E2, which causes more horniness. gotta break the cycle and moderate, or ur gonna deplete all the reserves drawn from youir organs' resting potential and end up with oversex symptoms. eye floaters, restlessness, depression, chronic fatigue to name a few. and yes that would be cheating. im sure you know, but we all still ask beause we can't to get away with it. everyone is tempted, but it's how u handle that temptation. p.s. good thing i have 3 legs. where did u get his information from? Are you stating that these conditions are irreversible? I haven't heard anything like this before and I've read plenty of literature on the subject. | ||
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InfeSteD
United States4658 Posts
On August 14 2008 07:12 PsycHOTemplar wrote: I have advice: Stop watching porn. Not because it's evil, or bad, or immoral, but because that's why you're thinking about it all the time. Find something else to do during the time you usually watch porn, and you'll find yourself having overall more wholesome thoughts. Really, you should be spending your time thinking about your kid, not other girls, but that's not my business. It isn't cheating to think about other girls, but it isn't good either. It makes you less dependable. It's your actions that matter though, so if you can continue outwardly being loyal and devoted to your girl and child, you don't have to feel terribly ashamed. I think both guys and girls fantasize about movie stars and the like, but you should know that they are fantasy, and not spend all your time entertaining them, or thinking they might be possible. I have never been in a situation like yours, so this advice is purely speculative. Very good advice about the porn and the thoughts, etc. But let me just correct something, Women have nothing to do with my child at all. My kid is the priority in any case, but he has nothing to do with who my couple is. Me and his momma could break up and that still would have nothing with him at all, I dunno if you get what I m trying to say. Thanks! =) | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
In any case it's after the fact, and I wish you luck  | ||
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InfeSteD
United States4658 Posts
As we speak there is a nice culo parked at the teller line zooomg! >.< | ||
micronesia
United States24743 Posts
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
If you are at all bored with your wife, I think that if you were with someone else you would be bored with them too. On the other side of things, I think it's only natural to find other people sexually attractive and to entertain sexy thoughts. That is part of being an animal, and I would contend humans are most definitely animals, and very sexual animals at that (we're one of the few species that have sex for reasons beyond procreation). Yet another angle to consider: there is what is known as the contrast effect. If you see someone very beautiful, and then someone merely beautiful, you will tend to find the second person ("merely" beautiful) to be maybe mediocre, or maybe even unattractive. Whereas if you had just seen the merely beautiful person, you might consider her to be simply beautiful. And if you see an ugly woman, and then an average woman, the average woman will appear gorgeous to you. Our society is full of unhappy people in part because we suffer from an intense contrast effect. Consider, everywhere we look we see images of unrealistic beauty (literally unrealistic - the women we see, for example, are surgically augmented, have excellent makeup artists and designers, pro photographers, and their images are further augmented by computers). This makes our actual partners seem rather drab by comparison, even if they are actually very healthy and attractive. So, you might consider cutting out porn and much media for this reason. Condensed version: We want what we can't have (grass is greener on the other side. Sex and sexy thoughts are natural and OK. Porn and media in general can poison us against our partners. | ||
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Mastermind
Canada7096 Posts
On August 14 2008 06:46 InfeSteD[rA] wrote: I think we all know that Boys love girls and have really dirty minds, etc (Of course not all are the same).. but anyhow, the point where I am trying to get is: For some reason since I had a baby with my (let's call her wife since we live together) everytime I see an "okay" or fine looking girl, I get these thoughts like I just wanna bang the girl! It's basically I just wanna screw anything that has got two legs. Would you that be considered cheating? or is it normal? P.S. I whack off even more than before and I watch tons of porn more than before I love my girl and everything.. but I just feel like this everyday when I hang out with other girls etc.. I'm like horny all the time and I didn't used to be like this before.. I would actually turn alot of girls down etc its not cheating if you only look. | ||
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Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
On August 14 2008 09:05 il0seonpurpose wrote: Why don't you make love to your wife? I think he does... + Show Spoiler + On August 14 2008 07:00 InfeSteD[rA] wrote: I have too much sex I think. Like I do it when we wake up in the morning, at night, on top of that I masturbate, at work I wanna screw everybody | ||
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thoraxe
United States1449 Posts
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CrimsonLotus
Colombia1123 Posts
And well, i dont think there is anything wrong with just looking at other girls as long as you dont over do it. And about the porn... maybe put a photo of your baby as wallpaper, that way you will get discouraged about watching porn on the computer lol. | ||
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InfeSteD
United States4658 Posts
On August 14 2008 07:57 micronesia wrote: I don't think it's fair to say your child is not related to if you stay with the mother. If you separate from the mother, that will have a huge impact on the child. Of course this goes without saying, so I think you were just being unclear. Well I think I was talking about the fact that Psyco said "I should spend my time thinking about my kid, etc" Well, I dont need to think about my kid, I WORK and LIVE for my kid.. So how does fucking a girl or bitches affect my kid? if he dont even know about it... It would affect my girl of course, but that shouldnt get on the way of me loving and caring for my child, etc.. Its not like I do those things, but I think about shit like that 24//7 etc On August 14 2008 09:05 il0seonpurpose wrote: Why don't you make love to your wife? You should prolly read | ||
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InfeSteD
United States4658 Posts
On August 14 2008 11:19 CrimsonLotus wrote: Probably is because all the stress of having a baby, your body needs a way to release all of that... maybe in the way of a greater sexual need. And well, i dont think there is anything wrong with just looking at other girls as long as you dont over do it. And about the porn... maybe put a photo of your baby as wallpaper, that way you will get discouraged about watching porn on the computer lol. I already do + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://img127.imageshack.us/img127/1457/wallpapernz9.jpg) | ||
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InfeSteD
United States4658 Posts
On August 14 2008 11:11 thoraxe wrote: You want to screw anything that has 2 legs??? boy, girls, babies, etc. that supposed to be funny '-_- | ||
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YPang
United States4024 Posts
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