Tomorrow, gonna definetly tell a girl i like her as more than a friend / love her, please suggest to me some sentences.
e.g. "Hey [name], I really like you and I would love it if we could be more than just friends"

(and please don't rant on about how this is a bad idea, how i should ask her to the cinema instead or whatever, please directly answer the question or not at all) Thank ya. The winner gets something, i haven't decided what yet, maybe some money if all goes well tomorrow.

micronesia

United States24799 Posts

June 13 2008 03:32 GMT

I think we need more background to give you good advice. What is your relationship with her pre "I love you."

clazziquai

6685 Posts

June 13 2008 03:33 GMT

wanna go out with me?

UmmTheHobo

United States650 Posts

June 13 2008 03:35 GMT

Confidence. Do something YOU think is cool, even if the girl thinks it is geeky she will be like "wow, this guy is for real."

EDIT: unless your idea of cool is asking her out over starcraft

XDawn

Canada4040 Posts

June 13 2008 03:39 GMT

just be like
"hey, I owned Bisu 3-0 last night, your mine"

but no, in all seriousness - don't say it directly, hint her on while going out with her places
"hey, theres [this or that going on] around [place], wanna go with me? this time.. you know - together?"

MoNKeYSpanKeR

United States2869 Posts

June 13 2008 03:40 GMT

just wing it, who the fuck cares smovvie?

the best things usually come out spontaniously!!!!!!! but usually, atleast in USA culture you do stuff with a girl before you ask her out or express emotions for her. How does it usually go there in UK/Scottland?

ilovejonn

Canada2548 Posts

June 13 2008 03:42 GMT

I'LL PROTECT YOU WITH MY LIFE FOREVER PRINCESS!

TechniQ.UK

United Kingdom391 Posts

June 13 2008 03:44 GMT

joe m8 we usually just punch them a bit then stick a wedding ring on them before they wake up, good as new.

Krohm

Canada1857 Posts

June 13 2008 03:46 GMT

Kick her in the face with your ENERGY LEGS.

No but really, just straight up tell her in person.

She'll either agree, or she'll shut you down. Which case you can move on. No point in liking a chick that doesn't like you back.

TechniQ.UK

United Kingdom391 Posts

June 13 2008 03:49 GMT

#10

im going to fucking tell her in person, thats the whole point what the hell should i say to her

ilj.psa

Peru3081 Posts

June 13 2008 03:53 GMT

#11

test plz

iceburn

United States303 Posts

June 13 2008 03:57 GMT

#12

hey wanna go out with me friday is a good start

Hypnosis

United States2061 Posts

June 13 2008 03:57 GMT

#13

Just say, hey [name], you may not know this but i really like you as a friend and i think we should keep it that way so we dont get hurt later on.

LOL if i asked someone to a CIMENA i would get laughed at. maybe ill try using UK phrases as a "self help" mechanism.

Jibba

United States22883 Posts

June 13 2008 03:58 GMT

#14

You can tell her that you like her as more than a friend or that you have feelings for her, but don't Don't DON'T say you love her.

{CC}StealthBlue

United States41117 Posts

June 13 2008 03:59 GMT

#15

Just tell her how you feel.

French_Toast

United States99 Posts

June 13 2008 04:00 GMT

#16

ok, how well do you know this person? If you just randomly pop up and be like "Hey, I love you" She's gonna be freaked out. I recommend actually for you to read some pick up artist books, like the mystery method but stay away from "the game" it's shitty. Anyways, after you browse those books you will know how to perfectly handle the situation and you won't need TL's help. But seriously check out some pick up books, you can just download some w/ Utorrent if you don't want to pay.

iceburn

United States303 Posts

June 13 2008 04:02 GMT

#17

do some activity, i dunno how old you are or what you are comfortable with but dinner and movies is not a good idea, how point is to communicate,

how much time have you spent with the girl, does the girl know you

Luddite

United States2315 Posts

June 13 2008 04:15 GMT

#18

i think you should just kiss her.

YPang

United States4024 Posts

June 13 2008 04:19 GMT

#19

Never tell her how you feel about her, thats like shooting your foot with a giant grenade launcher right there... It makes her lose interest in you UNCONSCIOUSLY... Before you told her that you "loved" her it'll keep her thinking about you, and you'll be always on her mind, and thats what creates attraction... Once you've gave in, and she knows that you like her a lot, she will definatly slowly lose interest in you, unless you guys plan on getting married or something... Why?
Have you ever wanted an MP3 player your friend had? once you got it after a while it doesn't seem so special anymore... Same principle here.

On top of all that, when you literally go up to a girl and say "i love you" what do you think is going on in the women's mind? She will probably be flattered at first, but as we all know once you get what you want, you don't really want it anymore. It also gives a message to her that you are a needy/desperate person asking for HER approval. You're giving the relationship on to her hands, and allowing her to decide if she wants to keep going with you, or not. Because you gave in first.

So basically don't say "i would like to be more than just friends with you"... makes you look so bad and you lose your manliness... You want her to chase you, and not the other way around. Girls play hard to get if they know you're interested in them.
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If you want to ask her out, i suggest you say something like "I'm going to the mall tomorrow, you should come, it'll be fun". This makes it look like that you have a life, and you are going to the mall with or without her, it also gives the message that you are not needy/desperate for her approval. By saying it this way, it gives her less pressure to either accept or decline your invitation, if she says something like "oh i'm sorry i have to go to my job at that time", then you can bust her by saying "Quit your job, its much more fun hanging with me", you'll come off as a confident and funny person.

If you ask her by saying "Do you want to go to the mall with me tomorrow?" this is giving off the message that again you are giving her the power to lead through the relationship, we know that no one is comfortable leading, and every girl wants a guy who can be a leader. It also makes you sound needy/lifeless/desperate. Are you not gonna carry out your plan if she doesn't want to come with you?

Good luck, if any questions pm me.

PS: if you ask what i wrote here to any girl, they'll deny what i'm saying its true, and they'll say that they'd love a guy to tell her that he wants more than just friends.

But if you take it to another level, and translate it a bit it'll be "Yes i'd love to have a new mp3 player"... Once she gets you to like her, and she know she did its all over, she'll no longer "want" you because she already has you.