EPTAny ideas would be heartily appreciated.
How do you know when you're out of love?
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Track
United States217 Posts
Any ideas would be heartily appreciated. | ||
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clazziquai
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For me at least. I didn't have a girlfriend, but a girl whom I thought was truly my close friend (and I liked her secretly) basically used me o.O But after like a few months, I didn't care about that bitch any more...:x | ||
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ilovejonn
Canada2548 Posts
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XCetron
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ydg
United States690 Posts
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letsbefree
Canada123 Posts
Besides, nothing lasts forever. Not even love. You think you love a person so much right now, and if that person doesn't love you back, you go on for three months alone without thinking about them, and then you will begin to not care about them. Therefore it's not love. Same situation with me. I really really liked a girl, and she was one of my best friends. But recently for some reason she stopped talking to me. So in the beginning I was like WTF, and i always miss her. But two weeks have passed by without any contact, and slowly I begin to lose my feelings for her. | ||
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EnergyTraction
Canada233 Posts
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GeneralStan
United States4789 Posts
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evanthebouncy!
United States12796 Posts
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paper
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evanthebouncy!
United States12796 Posts
He is asking "how do you know you're out of it" not how to get out of it. Read his questions lol ~~ | ||
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GeneralStan
United States4789 Posts
On June 02 2008 12:43 Track wrote: But how can you really get over someone, . This is the part to which most people are responding. The second part is the easy one, either you're in love or you're not. If you have to ask, you no longer are in love | ||
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Chef
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What you are, is obsessed. You'll know when you're no longer obsessed with someone when you become obsessed with something else (because you won't think about the other person). | ||
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EmeraldSparks
United States1451 Posts
Eventually it will go away. | ||
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tiffany
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Mora
Canada5235 Posts
On June 02 2008 13:07 GeneralStan wrote: This is the part to which most people are responding. The second part is the easy one, either you're in love or you're not. If you have to ask, you no longer are in love not true at all. i thought i was over someone. I didn't spend much time with them for about 2 months. The first 2 weeks were brutal. the 2nd 2 weeks were tough. but around the 6th-8th weeks, i wasn't in pain anymore. I thought that was the key. I didnt think about him much, i didn't miss him all that much, and i wasn't in pain. and then i spent some time some extra time with him, prolly about 4 hours or so, and at that moment it was all back again. i'd do anything for him, be anyone for him, change anything i could... awarenss of your feelings =/= feelings. | ||
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YoUr_KiLLeR
United States3420 Posts
On June 02 2008 13:30 tiffany wrote: and every time you hear about / see / talk to / think about the person, long after you have gone your separate ways, your heart will still skip a beat. truth | ||
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Track
United States217 Posts
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fanatacist
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QFT u_u; | ||
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Failsafe
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Night[Mare
Mexico4793 Posts
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zachmorris
United States106 Posts
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404.Nintu
Canada1723 Posts
QQQFT..  I'm sorry to say.. Nomatter how over it you are, nomatter how happy and succesful you are, the scar will always be there. You can still find someone else in your life who you care even more for than this person, but your heart will still skip that beat, as was so poetically worded by Tiffany. It sucks, and makes you feel weak, but you get used to it. Just because a scar never goes away doesn't mean you don't learn to live with it until it barely effects you at all anymore. =) Best of luck with it all. | ||
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gH-Nitrous
Australia49 Posts
WEll get one back over her . Dont cry like little boy, BE MAN. A reAL man would sleep with her best female friend. make her full or rage and jealousy to the point where she wants you simply because she doesnt want you with her female friend. Then sleep with her and tell her she was the worst root of your life. that would make you KING. And her the loser whore. You think you can handle that ? I guess not cos U aint Alpha Male are you ?> | ||
Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On June 02 2008 12:56 letsbefree wrote: Listen to music, it's a great way to relieve stress and frustration. Only if you pick out specific songs ahead of time. If you listen to the radio or just your collection on random, you're going to be bombarded with love songs. | ||
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Elric
United Kingdom1327 Posts
On June 02 2008 17:19 gH-Nitrous wrote: TActics tactics. The girl is the Always jealous. She can read between the lines she knows you liked her. and she used you and abused you. Im not here to tell you how or when u will know if your over her or that sort of rubbish. B grade boys do that shit. BE an ALPha MAle/. WEll get one back over her . Dont cry like little boy, BE MAN. A reAL man would sleep with her best female friend. make her full or rage and jealousy to the point where she wants you simply because she doesnt want you with her female friend. Then sleep with her and tell her she was the worst root of your life. that would make you KING. And her the loser whore. You think you can handle that ? I guess not cos U aint Alpha Male are you ?> YOu've gOt issUEs. | ||
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Jayson X
Switzerland2431 Posts
On June 02 2008 12:43 Track wrote: Being in love with someone who doesn't love you back is a terrible thing, and one that most everyone is forced to undergo. But how can you really get over someone, and how do you know when you really are? Any ideas would be heartily appreciated. How to get over someone? Time and a new relationship. It's like everything else, it will start to fade away and all you remember is sex or some keymoments. How do you know? When you have butterflies in your stomach when the next relationship is about to start. Not even that, sometimes it's just a innocent flirt with the girl in the club and she says something like "i do love your hair haha" and you go "i love you" and she goes "what?" and you say "nothing" | ||
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