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How do you know when you're out of love?

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Track
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States217 Posts
June 02 2008 03:43 GMT
#1
Being in love with someone who doesn't love you back is a terrible thing, and one that most everyone is forced to undergo. But how can you really get over someone, and how do you know when you really are?

Any ideas would be heartily appreciated.

**
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
clazziquai
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
6685 Posts
June 02 2008 03:44 GMT
#2
Time is the best medicine

For me at least. I didn't have a girlfriend, but a girl whom I thought was truly my close friend (and I liked her secretly) basically used me o.O

But after like a few months, I didn't care about that bitch any more...:x
#1 Sea.Really Fan / #1 Nesh Fan / Terran Forever~
ilovejonn
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
Canada2548 Posts
June 02 2008 03:45 GMT
#3
Try not to constantly think about the person. Get rid of all the things/objects that may remind you of the person. These are just some I can think of from the top of my head.
Snowflakes in January, Heart warm like February, I wouldn't ordinarily..
XCetron
Profile Joined November 2006
5226 Posts
June 02 2008 03:52 GMT
#4
start focusing on ICCup season 5 and prepare for TSL2
ydg
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States690 Posts
June 02 2008 03:52 GMT
#5
distract yourself. play starcraft. learn to play the piano. learn to draw. read books. watch movies. they'll all make the time go by faster.
The only courage that matters is the kind that gets you from one moment to the next.
letsbefree
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
Canada123 Posts
June 02 2008 03:56 GMT
#6
Listen to music, it's a great way to relieve stress and frustration.
Besides, nothing lasts forever. Not even love. You think you love a person so much right now, and if that person doesn't love you back, you go on for three months alone without thinking about them, and then you will begin to not care about them. Therefore it's not love.

Same situation with me. I really really liked a girl, and she was one of my best friends. But recently for some reason she stopped talking to me. So in the beginning I was like WTF, and i always miss her. But two weeks have passed by without any contact, and slowly I begin to lose my feelings for her.
hehe...
EnergyTraction
Profile Blog Joined May 2008
Canada233 Posts
June 02 2008 04:00 GMT
#7
Exercise does it for me...get them endorphins pumping
He who adores the Beast shall drink of the wrath of God
GeneralStan
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States4789 Posts
June 02 2008 04:02 GMT
#8
LSD worked for me
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
evanthebouncy!
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United States12796 Posts
June 02 2008 04:05 GMT
#9
when you feel like you two can talk about your silly past experience w/o any pain. Like my ex and I could joke about it and not feel awkward at all.
Life is run, it is dance, it is fast, passionate and BAM!, you dance and sing and booze while you can for now is the time and time is mine. Smile and laugh when still can for now is the time and soon you die!
paper
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
13196 Posts
June 02 2008 04:06 GMT
#10


:D
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evanthebouncy!
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United States12796 Posts
June 02 2008 04:06 GMT
#11
YoU GUYs R retarded
He is asking "how do you know you're out of it" not how to get out of it. Read his questions lol
~~
Life is run, it is dance, it is fast, passionate and BAM!, you dance and sing and booze while you can for now is the time and time is mine. Smile and laugh when still can for now is the time and soon you die!
GeneralStan
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States4789 Posts
June 02 2008 04:07 GMT
#12
On June 02 2008 12:43 Track wrote:
But how can you really get over someone, .


This is the part to which most people are responding. The second part is the easy one, either you're in love or you're not. If you have to ask, you no longer are in love
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
June 02 2008 04:08 GMT
#13
When you don't put the other person's ego ahead of your own anymore. Basically now, since you're only worried about being out of love.

What you are, is obsessed. You'll know when you're no longer obsessed with someone when you become obsessed with something else (because you won't think about the other person).
LEGEND!! LEGEND!!
EmeraldSparks
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
United States1451 Posts
June 02 2008 04:21 GMT
#14
You must demand of yourself that you no longer care. Denounce lingering regrets without mercy, pounce on any weakness harshly, and suppress fond thoughts with extreme prejudice.

Eventually it will go away.
But why?
tiffany
Profile Joined November 2003
3664 Posts
June 02 2008 04:30 GMT
#15
and every time you hear about / see / talk to / think about the person, long after you have gone your separate ways, your heart will still skip a beat.
Mora
Profile Blog Joined October 2002
Canada5235 Posts
June 02 2008 04:32 GMT
#16
On June 02 2008 13:07 GeneralStan wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 02 2008 12:43 Track wrote:
But how can you really get over someone, .


This is the part to which most people are responding. The second part is the easy one, either you're in love or you're not. If you have to ask, you no longer are in love


not true at all.

i thought i was over someone. I didn't spend much time with them for about 2 months. The first 2 weeks were brutal. the 2nd 2 weeks were tough. but around the 6th-8th weeks, i wasn't in pain anymore. I thought that was the key. I didnt think about him much, i didn't miss him all that much, and i wasn't in pain.

and then i spent some time some extra time with him, prolly about 4 hours or so, and at that moment it was all back again. i'd do anything for him, be anyone for him, change anything i could...

awarenss of your feelings =/= feelings.
Happiness only real when shared.
YoUr_KiLLeR
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
United States3420 Posts
June 02 2008 04:36 GMT
#17
On June 02 2008 13:30 tiffany wrote:
and every time you hear about / see / talk to / think about the person, long after you have gone your separate ways, your heart will still skip a beat.

truth
what the fuck do you have to say for yourself now you protoss jackass can you retaliate in any way
Track
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States217 Posts
June 02 2008 04:37 GMT
#18
I think you all have some good points, it's just very hard for me to completely cut out someone from my life, especially when they have been such a big part of it for so very long. But I will confess that if I really wanted to get over her, I'd just cut her out and be done with it. Weakness on my part.
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
June 02 2008 04:40 GMT
#19
On June 02 2008 13:36 YoUr_KiLLeR wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 02 2008 13:30 tiffany wrote:
and every time you hear about / see / talk to / think about the person, long after you have gone your separate ways, your heart will still skip a beat.

truth

QFT u_u;
Peace~
Failsafe
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States1298 Posts
June 02 2008 04:41 GMT
#20
you'll know you're over it when you're over it. a little instrospection and that's taken care of. the major thing is: don't shy from the issue. if you're not over her, you've gotta deal with it. and the best thing to do is to engage the issue in every sense. don't pussy out and distract yourself.
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