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JudgeMathis
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
Cuba1286 Posts
May 26 2008 03:36 GMT
#21
To be honest, I don't think its alright for a 25 year old man to be dating a 16 year old girl. I don't care how much you're in love with her, or not. Plus, girls in high school are very immature, and like to play little kid games. It's not worth it, and you should honestly get a woman around your age. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but I don't agree with your actions to date a 16 year old girl.

Actually, to be even be more blunt. Every time I see one of my friends, our group inside joke is that hes a pedo. Why? Because, he was dating a 15 year old girl while he was 20(even if it legal for you to date her at 16 over there, its still odd for you to being something like that). Which is against the law in Florida. You wouldn't be an exception to the ruthless jokes.

Again, I'm not trying to be mean. But, the reality is if I knew you IRL I would crack jokes on you about being a pedo.
Benching 225 is light weight. Soy Cubano y Boricua!
Physician *
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
United States4146 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-05-26 11:32:37
May 26 2008 03:37 GMT
#22
If your intentions are honorable, she and her parents are on board, screw what everyone else thinks. If her parents do mind, wait two years and win the parents over - it will save u years of grief; if there is love, it will be just as fine 2 years from now. Keep in mind that statistics favor couples with fewer years apart. Apparently relationships statistically last longer the smaller the age difference across all age groups. On a personal level my wife is only 1 year younger than me and it holds true for me at least, I love her more than ever and we are going strong 20 years so far.

"I have beheld the births of negative-suns and borne witness to the entropy of entire realities...."
Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
May 26 2008 03:40 GMT
#23
If her parents do mind, wait two years and win the parents over; if there is love, it will be just as fine 2 years from now.

That's what I was thinking too but how is he gonna be like "Yeah, let's stop dating for two years." He's sort of already in the thick of it, a "break" isn't realistic.
LEGEND!! LEGEND!!
ahrara_
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Afghanistan1715 Posts
May 26 2008 03:42 GMT
#24
On May 26 2008 12:36 JudgeMathis wrote:
To be honest, I don't think its alright for a 25 year old man to be dating a 16 year old girl. I don't care how much you're in love with her, or not. Plus, girls in high school are very immature, and like to play little kid games. It's not worth it, and you should honestly get a woman around your age. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but I don't agree with your actions to date a 16 year old girl.

Actually, to be even be more blunt. Every time I see one of my friends, our group inside joke is that hes a pedo. Why? Because, he was dating a 15 year old girl while he was 20(even if it legal for you to date her at 16 over there, its still odd for you to being something like that). Which is against the law in Florida. You wouldn't be an exception to the ruthless jokes.

Again, I'm not trying to be mean. But, the reality is if I knew you IRL I would crack jokes on you about being a pedo.

You're a cool guy and everything, but I'm a little offended. It's unusual to be dating younger girls, but if it's not an exploitative or abusive relationship, what's wrong with it? The girl I was talking about, I fucking adored her, and TKWL sounds like a respectable guy. You can make fun all you want, but we're not bad people for it.
in Afghanistan we have 20% literacy rate
fight_or_flight
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States3988 Posts
May 26 2008 03:43 GMT
#25
It can vary widely depending on culture as well.
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Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
May 26 2008 03:53 GMT
#26
You can make fun all you want, but we're not bad people for it.

But wouldn't you say in hindsight, you should have just waited for the girl to grow up? Why did it have to be right then, when you know she's vulnerable, you know her brain isn't even fully developed yet, you know shit's gonna be weird? I mean, if you knew a girl when she was 14 and thought she was kinda clever, and 4 years later she's fully developed more or less, and you still like her, doesn't that save all the fuss? Why can't you just let a kid be a kid? That's why you get weird looks, and people hate on you.

I won't say you're a bad person. Everyone does stupid shit, everyone has confusing feelings at times in their lives. I'd just like to know that in retrospect, you might have done things differently. That you maybe learned something from the experience =/
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ahrara_
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Afghanistan1715 Posts
May 26 2008 03:58 GMT
#27
Why did it have to be right then, when you know she's vulnerable, you know her brain isn't even fully developed yet, you know shit's gonna be weird?

because i'm going to do a different school next year and we can't spend time with each other again.
in Afghanistan we have 20% literacy rate
micronesia
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States24673 Posts
May 26 2008 03:58 GMT
#28
On May 26 2008 12:53 PsycHOTemplar wrote:
Show nested quote +
You can make fun all you want, but we're not bad people for it.

But wouldn't you say in hindsight, you should have just waited for the girl to grow up? Why did it have to be right then, when you know she's vulnerable, you know her brain isn't even fully developed yet, you know shit's gonna be weird? I mean, if you knew a girl when she was 14 and thought she was kinda clever, and 4 years later she's fully developed more or less, and you still like her, doesn't that save all the fuss? Why can't you just let a kid be a kid? That's why you get weird looks, and people hate on you.

I won't say you're a bad person. Everyone does stupid shit, everyone has confusing feelings at times in their lives. I'd just like to know that in retrospect, you might have done things differently. That you maybe learned something from the experience =/

You make a good point. BTW if you use the quote button to include the person's name it's helpful for them to refer back to it (personally I do a content search for my nick to see who responded to me). I only mention it because I've noticed several times today you haven't been including the name.
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bustaBust
Profile Blog Joined December 2006
Canada469 Posts
May 26 2008 04:13 GMT
#29
I dont even no where to start. i guess firstly, your over dramatic writing leads me to believe that you are only in this relationship because a) its easy tang and shell probably never be the alpha in the relationship b) to prove the shit talkers wrong. unfortunately they are talking for a reason. when they said "It's you!!!!!!" they ment "It's you, the pedo guy!!!!!!". dont you see somethign wrong with that? for one shes obviously going around telling EVERY one that wil listen thats shes fucking a 25 year old so that it looks like shes mature when in actually she has so much more to go. in the process of raising her rep shes dragging ur rep through the dirt.

i understand you a strong person, you do what you want, dont conform, i get it. but do you really want to have that rep? think about how limited you will be in the future when all the girl that you're trying to pick up can think of is you tryna fuck her little sister. you gotta think about he long run because in a year or so shes going to mature (slightly) and change, and when that happens you two might not stay together. when that happens not even one of those thing of your negative list will be worth it. Theres a very good chance you could go to jail as well if your are really open about your sexual relationship. i believe the laws are anything under 16 is a no-no and if shes 16 or 17 you cant be more than 2 years older or its illegal. 9 year is pushing it.

i dont even think the issue is that you are 9 years older, its that she is 16. thats 3 years older than 13. shes way to young. i think its gross frankly.
JudgeMathis
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
Cuba1286 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-05-26 04:19:26
May 26 2008 04:14 GMT
#30
On May 26 2008 12:42 ahrara_ wrote:
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On May 26 2008 12:36 JudgeMathis wrote:
To be honest, I don't think its alright for a 25 year old man to be dating a 16 year old girl. I don't care how much you're in love with her, or not. Plus, girls in high school are very immature, and like to play little kid games. It's not worth it, and you should honestly get a woman around your age. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but I don't agree with your actions to date a 16 year old girl.

Actually, to be even be more blunt. Every time I see one of my friends, our group inside joke is that hes a pedo. Why? Because, he was dating a 15 year old girl while he was 20(even if it legal for you to date her at 16 over there, its still odd for you to being something like that). Which is against the law in Florida. You wouldn't be an exception to the ruthless jokes.

Again, I'm not trying to be mean. But, the reality is if I knew you IRL I would crack jokes on you about being a pedo.

You're a cool guy and everything, but I'm a little offended. It's unusual to be dating younger girls, but if it's not an exploitative or abusive relationship, what's wrong with it? The girl I was talking about, I fucking adored her, and TKWL sounds like a respectable guy. You can make fun all you want, but we're not bad people for it.


Sorry if it offends you. But, I'm a very honest person(I could have said, "Oh yeah man, I hope everything works out, blah, blah, blah, but my reaction towards this is the one I would have IRL too). That type of stuff really doesn't fly with me. If I remember reading the last blog, the father didn't approve. If I was the father, I wouldn't approve either. I don't want to try to sound like a jack ass, but come on man. She's still a young girl, and hes an adult. Even if you're kind of in the same boat, I wouldn't agree for to do so as well(you would have been like our friend we make fun of). Honestly, ahrara_ nothing against you or anything, its just the way I feel, and would react IRL. :-/

EDIT: I would say though, my behavior in this subject is not the right one(making fun of people doing these things).
Benching 225 is light weight. Soy Cubano y Boricua!
ahrara_
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Afghanistan1715 Posts
May 26 2008 04:22 GMT
#31
it's all good. to each their own.
in Afghanistan we have 20% literacy rate
RoC)Ninjah
Profile Blog Joined May 2008
United States238 Posts
May 26 2008 04:30 GMT
#32
As long as you 2 are both on the same page, and there aren't 2 different perspectives of it, then screw what everyone else things. Great red.
Much will win a title before his hair turns grey.
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-05-26 09:00:23
May 26 2008 08:51 GMT
#33
I know everyone on this site hangs off every word you write, but ugh. I get sick reading these posts. For the record, I'm a sensitive, artistic, nice guy IRL as well, so don't think of me just as the crass douche bag who posts here, but if you ever become successful or rich, I can see you being divorced about half a dozen times, with you being head over heels for each one of them. Not trying to be offensive, and maybe I'm jealous that I can't be that much of a romantic, but I think I'm glad for that.

You don't need to worry about what other people think, but you do need to worry that she cares about what other people think. You also need to worry that what she thinks is some ideal fantasy like what Scorpion gets out of the 3rd graders he dates. 26 year old women still do it, I'm sure most 16 year olds do it even more. My guess is you're already thinking these things, because I don't think you're the type that lets other peoples' judgments affect you when you think it's the right person. It may be that you're questioning whether it's the right person.

And did you actually make that list because I'm pretty sure that only happens in bad Jennifer Aniston movies.
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Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
May 26 2008 08:56 GMT
#34
testie
why so 진지해?
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-05-26 09:02:10
May 26 2008 09:00 GMT
#35
i know a 40 year old guy that claims to chat up girls online he finds from some online chatting / dating site then meets them buys them bigmacs then fucks them

LOL

oh wait, its not funny....

tkwl if two people both want it despite the age difference then good for them but no matter what you do and how much either of you don't care social stigmas will end up effecting you, plus things can always change SOOOO fast no matter how much your naive emotions are telling you they can't

plenty of fish in the sea if you can find a prepubescent girl that you love SOOOO much this early in your life imagine all the normal girls you haven't explored

'the one and only' is pure naive
why so 진지해?
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
May 26 2008 09:07 GMT
#36
but in matters like this always trust your feelings no matter what other people tell you, or else you will regret

but be prepared to face the concequences
why so 진지해?
micronesia
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States24673 Posts
May 26 2008 09:09 GMT
#37
^Interesting redirection.
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I'm not actually trying to imply something; I just found it interesting (consider the timestamps).
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Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
May 26 2008 09:33 GMT
#38
its not really a redirection, i was just stating facts as they are but people who are capable of falling in love with a 16 year old and not wanting to change it are probably going to find themselves some bigger problems if they force themselves to break up with the little girl they love because of outside pressure
why so 진지해?
ToKoreaWithLove
Profile Blog Joined September 2002
Norway10161 Posts
May 26 2008 11:10 GMT
#39
Thanks for the earthly advice rek;) Always nice

I don't think I have any problems tho. I would be sad if it was to be over but I don't imagine I would break down or anything.

Physician: Thank you. Fyi I met the parents the first time we had a date. I figured it would be important to at least say hello before doing something like this. I have a pretty good relationship with them now.

Jibba: Do they really? From where I'm standing I'm getting quite a bit of constructive criticism. And why would I not be divorced if I was not rich^^?

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Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
May 26 2008 12:43 GMT
#40
On May 26 2008 20:10 ToKoreaWithLove wrote:

Jibba: Do they really? From where I'm standing I'm getting quite a bit of constructive criticism. And why would I not be divorced if I was not rich^^?


It might still happen. D: But if you were rich there'd be golddiggers after you who know how to act sweet and perfect, and make it easy to fall in love with them, or at least with the way they present themselves.
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