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fluffy_pylon
United States79 Posts
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Probemicro
3708 Posts
On January 21 2015 15:02 fluffy_pylon wrote: incident was causing him to doubt his self-worth as a man. im sure the billions of men around the world that are <173cm really appreciated what your cousin said. In fact they should just go kill themselves already right? | ||
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_fool
Netherlands678 Posts
 On a more serious note: sounds like the height thing is not the real issue here, and platform shoes will only temporarily push the real issue to the background. She's insecure about something, they need to figure out what it is, and resolve it. She's 23, pondering on big life decisions, and that's ok. They need to figure it out, nothing TL can do here. | ||
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OveRtheStarS
Canada69 Posts
im sure the billions of men around the world that are <173cm really appreciated what your cousin said. In fact they should just go kill themselves already right? I'm pretty sure that his cousin was only speaking about his personal feelings, not trying to make a generalized statement about how all short men should feel. I don't get pissy every time someone complains about being tall because I'm tall? You should take a step back. | ||
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Probemicro
3708 Posts
On January 21 2015 16:55 OveRtheStarS wrote: I'm pretty sure that his cousin was only speaking about his personal feelings, not trying to make a generalized statement about how all short men should feel. I don't get pissy every time someone complains about being tall because I'm tall? You should take a step back. so what kind of advice would you give? "grow taller?" "get a shorter girlfriend"? seriously both of them are already in their mid-20s and still have teenage insecurities like worrying about height etc. looking at the guy's previous blog i notice he mention once he was shorter than his younger brother with a "cuter face" and wonder if this whole thing runs in the family. like someone mention theres probably something deeper to this and without additional background information or account we cannot realise why they have such a complex. | ||
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OveRtheStarS
Canada69 Posts
so what kind of advice would you give? "grow taller?" "get a shorter girlfriend" Whether or not there's any advice to give, (besides maybe "Always stay true to yourself and don't let others lead you to question your worth"), being cynical and saying "in fact they should just go kill themselves, right?" does nothing to add to the conversation the OP was positing and just seems to be a negative comment for the sake of being negative. | ||
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Shebuha
Canada1335 Posts
On January 21 2015 15:21 Probemicro wrote: im sure the billions of men around the world that are <173cm really appreciated what your cousin said. In fact they should just go kill themselves already right? SHORT MAN SYNDROME RIGHT HERE LOL someone says something in private, personal conversation and states his feelings -> his brother shares it on internet -> you take what the dude said as if he was trying to apply it to all men who are <173cm or less. | ||
Souma
2nd Worst City in CA8938 Posts
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Probemicro
3708 Posts
On January 21 2015 17:39 OveRtheStarS wrote: being cynical and saying "in fact they should just go kill themselves, right?" does nothing to add to the conversation the OP was positing and just seems to be a negative comment for the sake of being negative. because i think that the very fact they still worry about height is laughable (when they are at the age where they should have learnt to get over with and accept that they are born with it and deal with it) and it deserves an /s post. | ||
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ahswtini
Northern Ireland22208 Posts
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iTzSnypah
United States1738 Posts
That is what your cousin needs to tell her. Probemicro, well you haven't committed suicide so your theory is invalid. | ||
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Probemicro
3708 Posts
On January 21 2015 20:32 iTzSnypah wrote: We are all the same height in bed. That is what your cousin needs to tell her. Probemicro, well you haven't committed suicide so your theory is invalid. Unfortunately we don't live our entire lives on the bed. And who says anything about a theory | ||
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SoSexy
Italy3725 Posts
On January 21 2015 21:02 Probemicro wrote: Unfortunately we don't live our entire lives on the bed. And who says anything about a theory And that's not even true, if you do math in bed, height actually counts (I hope you guys understand) | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32082 Posts
So yeah, cherish your short inferior family member while you still can | ||
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TriO
United States421 Posts
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mahrgell
Germany3943 Posts
And actually... I don't see the problem for him to wear platform shoes for "special events". My significant other also aks me from time to time to wear a suit, where I feel regular clothes would be entirely appropriate. She feels, that not wearing a suit would make look us weird while I disagree, but whatever... It doesn't hurt me to wear it so I do it, because it makes her feel better. Similar with the shoes here. | ||
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Thermia
United States866 Posts
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DarkNetHunter
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bypLy
757 Posts
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puppykiller
United States3137 Posts
Being shorter then girls pretty often is really funny to me lol. But to be fair I bet even if I had no hands I wouldn't give that much of a shit about it and I am sure that is waaay bigger a deal breaker. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32082 Posts
On January 22 2015 02:09 mahrgell wrote: Hm.... I know a rather large number of woman that say, that they would prefer a bf, that is taller then them. Oh, an I'm talking age 25-60. So I can not really understand all those "omg, so childish" comments here. And actually... I don't see the problem for him to wear platform shoes for "special events". My significant other also aks me from time to time to wear a suit, where I feel regular clothes would be entirely appropriate. She feels, that not wearing a suit would make look us weird while I disagree, but whatever... It doesn't hurt me to wear it so I do it, because it makes her feel better. Similar with the shoes here. ask your gf to wear boob inserts because you feel it makes her look better and report your findings | ||
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