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mAKiTO
Profile Blog Joined December 2002
Colombia4171 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-10-30 18:28:34
October 30 2013 18:22 GMT
#1
Long story short, I sell brand name clothes here in Colombia and I use BBM messenger as tool to advertise, anyways this one girl added me on BBM asking about some shirts, and I looked at her profile pic, she was very cute, I liked her right away and decided to flirt a little with her and see what could happen..we ended up meeting in person, she came to the store and tried some things on, and I asked her to join me for lunch, and she did..so I started hitting on her and set up a date for Friday night.

It was a Halloween party hosted at the nicest night club here in town, it was private, for members of the city hall and secretaries. She agreed to go with me, but here is where I think I started making mistakes:

the day before she told me that maybe she couldn't go, because her boss told her that payroll might be delayed until Monday, and she wouldn't have money to buy a nice costume..so I told her I really wanted her to go with me and that I would lend her the money for the costume. ( i saw it as an opportunity as well to go with her in the morning costume shopping and see her trying things on and etc, like a non date "date"... so I paid for her costume, but it was clear it was a loan and she would pay me back.. but knowing thinking about it, did I sound too desperate or insecure by offering and paying for the costume?

Anyways, we went to the party that night, it was a little uptight, because the mayor and many high public servants were there, but they were giving free alcohol and food for everyone, so a lot of people ended up being drunk. I got to admit, the atmosphere wasn't that great and we weren't having a lot of fun, we danced a little and talked with a group but it deff wansnt huge fun. Around 12, she told me some of her friends were in another part of the club and she wanted to go say hi to them, which i said ok, she left and took about 35 mins over there, which really annoyed me, but i didn't go searching for her or anything, i socialized at the party and got my drink on. when she came back she said i looked annoyed, but i said i was fine i wasn't mad or anything. we kept dancing, more at this point, and I was already buzzed and she wasn't drinking at all, and around 2 am, she said she was tired and wanted to go home. I asked her if she wanted me to take a cab with her and take care home, which she said no to stay and party and she would make it home ok.. so she left and I thought she went home, around 5 am when the club closed I left with a group of people to another place to keep drinking and over there, her friends showed up, and i started talking to one of her friends, and casually got the information that she never went home that early but went over there to keep partying with them and then left to go home.

I guess that could be my fault, if she was bored where we were, and like I said, the atmosphere was a little uptight and I could really be my crazy self so I was more calm and serious all night, maybe it was a bad place invite for a 1st time going out, but I thought it might DHV since it was a private upscale party, free drinks, etc.

So next day she called me at night time and I ignored her calls, then she texted asing if I was ok or mad and I ignored her....but then I made another mistake, i got wasted , and texted her at like 4 am , I wasn't mean or disrespectful, but told her off on telling me she went home when she really went somewhere else to keep partying, that she didn't need to lie to me that she could've just said im bored im leaving etc.. she she reacted very defensively and said we just met and she owed no explanations to me whatsoever and that we were fine and not to worry about dumb things

we haven't talked since then... now I really like this girl physically she is very very cute, but I don't know if I should continue "wasting" time with her? I don't know if I want her as a gf but I deff want to sleep with her, but I know it will take hard work... I just don't know if after all that bs is better to forget about it and hit on another chick or maybe apologize and continue trying

edit: i guess it needs a pic + Show Spoiler +
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No quiero soñar mil veces las mismas cosas
Roe
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
Canada6002 Posts
October 30 2013 18:35 GMT
#2
just be with her and be happy...don't be alone it's a terrible life. dont go from girl to girl as if they were a catalog of options. dont use people as a means but an end. dont get girls like they're commodities. dont dont dont dont dont dontdontdontdontodntdont its a cruel world with little comforts what a life...
Topin
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
Peru10053 Posts
October 30 2013 19:12 GMT
#3
Colombia so op.
i would define my style between a mix of ByuN, Maru and MKP
KaiserKieran
Profile Blog Joined August 2011
United States615 Posts
October 30 2013 19:16 GMT
#4
She sounds mean. Looks can be deceiving.
but yeah
Colombia so op.
FFGenerations
Profile Blog Joined April 2011
7088 Posts
October 30 2013 19:32 GMT
#5
yes you clearly fucked up multiple times
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mAKiTO
Profile Blog Joined December 2002
Colombia4171 Posts
October 30 2013 20:20 GMT
#6
I feel ignorant but whats -so op- ? Lol
No quiero soñar mil veces las mismas cosas
mAKiTO
Profile Blog Joined December 2002
Colombia4171 Posts
October 30 2013 20:21 GMT
#7
On October 31 2013 04:32 FFGenerations wrote:
yes you clearly fucked up multiple times


Meh tell me about...anyways 5 mins ago i was driving downtown n saw her walking she did waive n smile
No quiero soñar mil veces las mismas cosas
Fumanchu
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Canada669 Posts
October 30 2013 22:55 GMT
#8
The next time you see her, walk up to her and kiss her. The ensuing conversation will answer all of your questions.
Easy doesnt fit into grownup life.
KaiserKieran
Profile Blog Joined August 2011
United States615 Posts
October 30 2013 23:28 GMT
#9
On October 31 2013 07:55 Fumanchu wrote:
The next time you see her, walk up to her and kiss her. The ensuing conversation will answer all of your questions.

Would most definitely answer your questions but might not improve things.
Roe
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
Canada6002 Posts
October 30 2013 23:44 GMT
#10
On October 31 2013 05:21 mAKiTO wrote:
Show nested quote +
On October 31 2013 04:32 FFGenerations wrote:
yes you clearly fucked up multiple times


Meh tell me about...anyways 5 mins ago i was driving downtown n saw her walking she did waive n smile

that must have been awkward
mAKiTO
Profile Blog Joined December 2002
Colombia4171 Posts
October 31 2013 00:29 GMT
#11
it was lol... I was like yikees :s

and Fumanchu, you know that did cross my mind, like all or nothing fuck it either she likes me enough or bye bye haha

we'll see the more I think about it the more I feel like fuck it let it go and find some other girl , too many fish out on the sea!
No quiero soñar mil veces las mismas cosas
ruiyang
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
252 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-10-31 04:29:54
October 31 2013 04:24 GMT
#12
On October 31 2013 03:35 Roe wrote:
just be with her and be happy...don't be alone it's a terrible life. dont go from girl to girl as if they were a catalog of options. dont use people as a means but an end. dont get girls like they're commodities. dont dont dont dont dont dontdontdontdontodntdont its a cruel world with little comforts what a life...


Lol. Get some anti-depressant.

@OP. We all makes mistakes. But judging by her actions she is still interested. Sure theres enough fish in the sea but that doesnt mean that you shouldnt "look" around. Just stop acting like a lil bitch and man up (yea i know its easy to say). Have fun! Dont overthink but do! Theres nothing to rly lose.

Edit: p.s. she looks cute :3
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