• Log InLog In
  • Register
Liquid`
Team Liquid Liquipedia
EDT 20:02
CEST 02:02
KST 09:02
  • Home
  • Forum
  • Calendar
  • Streams
  • Liquipedia
  • Features
  • Store
  • EPT
  • TL+
  • StarCraft 2
  • Brood War
  • Smash
  • Heroes
  • Counter-Strike
  • Overwatch
  • Liquibet
  • Fantasy StarCraft
  • TLPD
  • StarCraft 2
  • Brood War
  • Blogs
Forum Sidebar
Events/Features
News
Featured News
TL.net Map Contest #21: Voting2[ASL20] Ro4 Preview: Descent4Team TLMC #5: Winners Announced!3[ASL20] Ro8 Preview Pt2: Holding On9Maestros of the Game: Live Finals Preview (RO4)5
Community News
5.0.15 Patch Balance Hotfix (2025-10-8)61Weekly Cups (Sept 29-Oct 5): MaxPax triples up3PartinG joins SteamerZone, returns to SC2 competition295.0.15 Balance Patch Notes (Live version)119$2,500 WardiTV TL Map Contest Tournament 154
StarCraft 2
General
PartinG joins SteamerZone, returns to SC2 competition TL.net Map Contest #21: Voting 5.0.15 Patch Balance Hotfix (2025-10-8) TL.net Map Contest #21 - Finalists Geoff 'iNcontroL' Robinson has passed away
Tourneys
SC2's Safe House 2 - October 18 & 19 Sparkling Tuna Cup - Weekly Open Tournament RSL Offline Finals Dates + Ticket Sales! SC4ALL $6,000 Open LAN in Philadelphia $2,500 WardiTV TL Map Contest Tournament 15
Strategy
Custom Maps
External Content
Mutation # 495 Rest In Peace Mutation # 494 Unstable Environment Mutation # 493 Quick Killers Mutation # 492 Get Out More
Brood War
General
Any rep analyzer that shows resources situation? [ASL20] Ro4 Preview: Descent Whose hotkey signature is this? BW General Discussion BGH Auto Balance -> http://bghmmr.eu/
Tourneys
[ASL20] Semifinal A [Megathread] Daily Proleagues [ASL20] Ro8 Day 4 Small VOD Thread 2.0
Strategy
Current Meta BW - ajfirecracker Strategy & Training Siegecraft - a new perspective TvZ Theorycraft - Improving on State of the Art
Other Games
General Games
Stormgate/Frost Giant Megathread Nintendo Switch Thread ZeroSpace Megathread Dawn of War IV Path of Exile
Dota 2
Official 'what is Dota anymore' discussion LiquidDota to reintegrate into TL.net
League of Legends
Heroes of the Storm
Simple Questions, Simple Answers Heroes of the Storm 2.0
Hearthstone
Deck construction bug Heroes of StarCraft mini-set
TL Mafia
SPIRED by.ASL Mafia {211640} TL Mafia Community Thread
Community
General
US Politics Mega-thread The Games Industry And ATVI Stop the Construction YouTube Thread Things Aren’t Peaceful in Palestine
Fan Clubs
The herO Fan Club! The Happy Fan Club!
Media & Entertainment
Anime Discussion Thread [Manga] One Piece Movie Discussion!
Sports
2024 - 2026 Football Thread Formula 1 Discussion MLB/Baseball 2023 NBA General Discussion TeamLiquid Health and Fitness Initiative For 2023
World Cup 2022
Tech Support
SC2 Client Relocalization [Change SC2 Language] Linksys AE2500 USB WIFI keeps disconnecting Computer Build, Upgrade & Buying Resource Thread
TL Community
The Automated Ban List Recent Gifted Posts
Blogs
Inbreeding: Why Do We Do It…
Peanutsc
From Tilt to Ragequit:The Ps…
TrAiDoS
Customize Sidebar...

Website Feedback

Closed Threads



Active: 1562 users

fight with mom's partner - Page 6

Blogs > FFGenerations
Post a Reply
Prev 1 4 5 6 All
Capped
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
United Kingdom7236 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-08-04 11:58:52
August 04 2013 11:43 GMT
#101
Quoting you from one of my extremely old blogs where i was in a shitty situation.

On March 05 2012 22:58 FFGenerations wrote:
1) go to Google Maps
2) type in your address
3) type in "care homes", "nursing homes" etc
4) write on paper each of their addresses / print out the map
5) get up tomorrow morning and walk/drive to each of them with a CV and meet the manager/office staff face-to-face. say something like "Hey there, my name is Capped, I've been working as a carer for the past X months/years and I'm wondering if you have any jobs available."
6) A good idea actually is to write on your CV that you're also interested in doing any cleaning work (say that you have experience when you were younger). Because carehomes need carers and cleaners too. You could also outright ask hem about that too.

I done this, walked to 15 carehomes in one afternoon, got 2 job offers.

The only issue with this job is you need the CRB check, HOWEVER at some places they just need to wait for an email from the government - they dont need to wait for the full CRB check before you start work.

Its okay to work "bank", full time or part time at these places, as you can work at several of them then (the variety is important too or you will kill yourself eventually).

You do not need any qualifications, but you must make sure they know at some point that you worked in care/teacher/whatever.

You will earn only £6.08/hour and the shifts are 6 or 12 hours long. But if you're desperate, you can race around the local carehomes in one day and probably find a job (though you wont start immediately - but at least you will have secured something). They are usually in desperate need of men.

If you have a car then that is a super bonus!


Take your own advice.
Useless wet fish.
FXOBoSs
Profile Joined August 2011
337 Posts
August 04 2013 11:53 GMT
#102
So, I dno how to address the issue of the BF... Its a touchy subject and knowing me and my personal space, if someone did that to me I would have already hit them.

But re: your job.

Being asked to leave twice? for being miserable? You probably should look into that. If you were asked to leave twice for being miserable, that is the people generally had had enough you will struggle to hold down any job. Try not to take grievances from home to the work place, its hard but a very good skill to have.
Also, look at work as a way of getting away from the bullshit. Cos thats what it is. Use it to your advantage.

The other stuff is tough, moving to your grandma's which is near enough is the best option. You arent away from your mum and she seems to be wanting the impossible. Life is never clear cut it can all work out alternatively. But yeh, at 28 and having college debt (or fees) you need a job. And you need to be happy at the job no matter what it is.
www.twitter.com/gosutrading
Smoot
Profile Joined April 2011
United States128 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-08-04 13:53:40
August 04 2013 13:52 GMT
#103
I'm not sure why this has sparked so much discussion. When you legally can make your own choices, the only person to blame for your life situation is yourself.

You are 28 years old. Which means you should not be in this sort of situation at all. The only reason you are reliving the world we all lived in at age 15-17 is because you are choosing to stay in that period of your life.

For a comparison, I moved out of my house at 17 (2 weeks after HS Graduation). I spent 5 years in the military, 5 years in the university afterward, and am now 3 years into a career (started working while in college). Married, have kids, own a home, etc. I turned 29 earlier this year. I didn't have things handed to me. I made decisions to progress in my life and did what it took for me to progress.

You are choosing to be in the position you are in. You can choose to move on, or you can choose to stay and do nothing. Right now, you are choosing to do nothing.
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32081 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-08-04 20:42:20
August 04 2013 14:21 GMT
#104
On August 04 2013 08:43 Elegy wrote:
Show nested quote +
On August 04 2013 08:39 micronesia wrote:
Living with your parents when you can't find a decent job really isn't that weird (it also depends somewhat on what area you live in). I'm not specifically defending the OP, but the degree to which living at a parent's house at 28 is culturally accepted varies a lot from place to place... so judging it based on what is normal in your area is often not applicable.


Agreed, but I think most people are getting the vibe that the OP lacks the motivation and dedication to hold a job. He was fired twice (!!) for "being miserable", which means he has a shitty attitude when it comes to holding down menial and crappy jobs. You can be miserable, but if it means you get fired (twice), that's a sign of a major problem with one's work ethic.

Everything this person has said has been spot on. Almost all of this tension would disappear if the op wasn't totally useless. He can't even hold down a bs job while in school at 28. Plenty of people work full time while going to school I'd be pissed too if I were the guy paying for that shit.

e: I came back to see if you had commented anymore, and decided to check out your other blog. No fucking wonder why this guy isn't too keen on you. You have the maturity of a teenager. As much as he is being a dick, you have demonstated time and time again that you're incapable of realizing when you're being an idiot
PROFESSIONAL GAMER - SEND ME OFFERS TO JOIN YOUR TEAM - USA USA USA
Prev 1 4 5 6 All
Please log in or register to reply.
Live Events Refresh
Next event in 9h 59m
[ Submit Event ]
Live Streams
Refresh
StarCraft 2
PiGStarcraft489
StarCraft: Brood War
Britney 13755
Artosis 736
yabsab 46
Dota 2
PGG 94
LuMiX1
Counter-Strike
Stewie2K695
Coldzera 539
Super Smash Bros
Mew2King29
Heroes of the Storm
Khaldor175
Other Games
summit1g3241
Grubby3089
FrodaN3003
Skadoodle167
ViBE146
Maynarde145
fpsfer 2
Organizations
Other Games
gamesdonequick1183
BasetradeTV24
StarCraft 2
Blizzard YouTube
StarCraft: Brood War
BSLTrovo
sctven
[ Show 17 non-featured ]
StarCraft 2
• davetesta38
• Kozan
• sooper7s
• Migwel
• AfreecaTV YouTube
• LaughNgamezSOOP
• intothetv
• IndyKCrew
StarCraft: Brood War
• STPLYoutube
• ZZZeroYoutube
• BSLYoutube
Dota 2
• WagamamaTV853
• Ler34
League of Legends
• Doublelift3975
Other Games
• imaqtpie1388
• Scarra869
• Shiphtur284
Upcoming Events
Afreeca Starleague
9h 59m
Barracks vs Snow
Wardi Open
10h 59m
Monday Night Weeklies
15h 59m
Replay Cast
23h 59m
Afreeca Starleague
1d 9h
Soma vs Bisu
OSC
1d 13h
OSC
1d 17h
PiGosaur Monday
1d 23h
The PondCast
3 days
OSC
3 days
[ Show More ]
Wardi Open
4 days
CranKy Ducklings
5 days
Safe House 2
5 days
Sparkling Tuna Cup
6 days
Safe House 2
6 days
Liquipedia Results

Completed

Acropolis #4 - TS2
Maestros of the Game
HCC Europe

Ongoing

BSL 21 Points
ASL Season 20
CSL 2025 AUTUMN (S18)
C-Race Season 1
IPSL Winter 2025-26
EC S1
ESL Pro League S22
StarSeries Fall 2025
FISSURE Playground #2
BLAST Open Fall 2025
BLAST Open Fall Qual
Esports World Cup 2025
BLAST Bounty Fall 2025
BLAST Bounty Fall Qual
IEM Cologne 2025

Upcoming

SC4ALL: Brood War
BSL Season 21
BSL 21 Team A
RSL Offline Finals
RSL Revival: Season 3
Stellar Fest
SC4ALL: StarCraft II
eXTREMESLAND 2025
ESL Impact League Season 8
SL Budapest Major 2025
BLAST Rivals Fall 2025
IEM Chengdu 2025
PGL Masters Bucharest 2025
Thunderpick World Champ.
CS Asia Championships 2025
TLPD

1. ByuN
2. TY
3. Dark
4. Solar
5. Stats
6. Nerchio
7. sOs
8. soO
9. INnoVation
10. Elazer
1. Rain
2. Flash
3. EffOrt
4. Last
5. Bisu
6. Soulkey
7. Mini
8. Sharp
Sidebar Settings...

Advertising | Privacy Policy | Terms Of Use | Contact Us

Original banner artwork: Jim Warren
The contents of this webpage are copyright © 2025 TLnet. All Rights Reserved.