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Capped
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
United Kingdom7236 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-08-04 11:58:52
August 04 2013 11:43 GMT
#101
Quoting you from one of my extremely old blogs where i was in a shitty situation.

On March 05 2012 22:58 FFGenerations wrote:
1) go to Google Maps
2) type in your address
3) type in "care homes", "nursing homes" etc
4) write on paper each of their addresses / print out the map
5) get up tomorrow morning and walk/drive to each of them with a CV and meet the manager/office staff face-to-face. say something like "Hey there, my name is Capped, I've been working as a carer for the past X months/years and I'm wondering if you have any jobs available."
6) A good idea actually is to write on your CV that you're also interested in doing any cleaning work (say that you have experience when you were younger). Because carehomes need carers and cleaners too. You could also outright ask hem about that too.

I done this, walked to 15 carehomes in one afternoon, got 2 job offers.

The only issue with this job is you need the CRB check, HOWEVER at some places they just need to wait for an email from the government - they dont need to wait for the full CRB check before you start work.

Its okay to work "bank", full time or part time at these places, as you can work at several of them then (the variety is important too or you will kill yourself eventually).

You do not need any qualifications, but you must make sure they know at some point that you worked in care/teacher/whatever.

You will earn only £6.08/hour and the shifts are 6 or 12 hours long. But if you're desperate, you can race around the local carehomes in one day and probably find a job (though you wont start immediately - but at least you will have secured something). They are usually in desperate need of men.

If you have a car then that is a super bonus!


Take your own advice.
Useless wet fish.
FXOBoSs
Profile Joined August 2011
337 Posts
August 04 2013 11:53 GMT
#102
So, I dno how to address the issue of the BF... Its a touchy subject and knowing me and my personal space, if someone did that to me I would have already hit them.

But re: your job.

Being asked to leave twice? for being miserable? You probably should look into that. If you were asked to leave twice for being miserable, that is the people generally had had enough you will struggle to hold down any job. Try not to take grievances from home to the work place, its hard but a very good skill to have.
Also, look at work as a way of getting away from the bullshit. Cos thats what it is. Use it to your advantage.

The other stuff is tough, moving to your grandma's which is near enough is the best option. You arent away from your mum and she seems to be wanting the impossible. Life is never clear cut it can all work out alternatively. But yeh, at 28 and having college debt (or fees) you need a job. And you need to be happy at the job no matter what it is.
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Smoot
Profile Joined April 2011
United States128 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-08-04 13:53:40
August 04 2013 13:52 GMT
#103
I'm not sure why this has sparked so much discussion. When you legally can make your own choices, the only person to blame for your life situation is yourself.

You are 28 years old. Which means you should not be in this sort of situation at all. The only reason you are reliving the world we all lived in at age 15-17 is because you are choosing to stay in that period of your life.

For a comparison, I moved out of my house at 17 (2 weeks after HS Graduation). I spent 5 years in the military, 5 years in the university afterward, and am now 3 years into a career (started working while in college). Married, have kids, own a home, etc. I turned 29 earlier this year. I didn't have things handed to me. I made decisions to progress in my life and did what it took for me to progress.

You are choosing to be in the position you are in. You can choose to move on, or you can choose to stay and do nothing. Right now, you are choosing to do nothing.
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32160 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-08-04 20:42:20
August 04 2013 14:21 GMT
#104
On August 04 2013 08:43 Elegy wrote:
Show nested quote +
On August 04 2013 08:39 micronesia wrote:
Living with your parents when you can't find a decent job really isn't that weird (it also depends somewhat on what area you live in). I'm not specifically defending the OP, but the degree to which living at a parent's house at 28 is culturally accepted varies a lot from place to place... so judging it based on what is normal in your area is often not applicable.


Agreed, but I think most people are getting the vibe that the OP lacks the motivation and dedication to hold a job. He was fired twice (!!) for "being miserable", which means he has a shitty attitude when it comes to holding down menial and crappy jobs. You can be miserable, but if it means you get fired (twice), that's a sign of a major problem with one's work ethic.

Everything this person has said has been spot on. Almost all of this tension would disappear if the op wasn't totally useless. He can't even hold down a bs job while in school at 28. Plenty of people work full time while going to school I'd be pissed too if I were the guy paying for that shit.

e: I came back to see if you had commented anymore, and decided to check out your other blog. No fucking wonder why this guy isn't too keen on you. You have the maturity of a teenager. As much as he is being a dick, you have demonstated time and time again that you're incapable of realizing when you're being an idiot
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