|
On August 04 2013 04:08 QuanticHawk wrote:In person yes, public no way. That's sucky. As long as this isn't a letter, I agree with atom, you're being a man about this. GOod for you
In public reduces the chances of her going flat out screaming Siren mode calling you all sorts of names for no reason, whereas in private she can feel safe to verbally and psychologically abuse you, especially if you live together.
|
On August 08 2013 07:00 hp.Shell wrote:Show nested quote +On August 04 2013 04:08 QuanticHawk wrote:On August 03 2013 18:04 hp.Shell wrote:
Do it in public and in person. In person yes, public no way. That's sucky. As long as this isn't a letter, I agree with atom, you're being a man about this. GOod for you In public reduces the chances of her going flat out screaming Siren mode calling you all sorts of names for no reason, whereas in private she can feel safe to verbally and psychologically abuse you, especially if you live together.
that is true, but it's still pretty shitty to do that to someone in public and presumably, even though you don't wanna date that person any longer, you probably have some respect for them. Would you wanna be dumped in that fashion??
just keep it short and sweet, and leave when you are done
|
I would say it's ok to break up with someone on the phone, not via text or written letter. Just give yourself some guidelines and points you need to make before the talk and stick to them. Make sure it is understood that it is over, and don't do any maybe/iffy stuff. And ignore her attempts at contact. If you need to get stuff back from her, wait a month or so and keep it civil and brief.
Last girl I broke up with was in a shitty way and I felt terrible about it, but it got the point across.
|
i'd only do something other than in person if it wasnt serious or just like 2 or 3 months in type of deal
|
|
|
|
|
|
EPT
