EPTCourtesy or standing your ground - Page 2
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Leyra
United States1222 Posts
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Iyerbeth
England2410 Posts
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Qwyn
United States2781 Posts
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radscorpion9
Canada2252 Posts
You could argue that in this case, by not moving, you are actually causing harm to another person. But I think its more correct to say that the lady caused harm to herself by coming into a movie 10 minutes late and expecting people to be nice to her by shuffling around to make room for her. I would think that's she's the insensitive person here. Even if coming late was not her fault, she shouldn't expect others to move for her and get angry when they don't. I certainly wouldn't, I would feel like an ass if I did, because I have no right to force people to move for me. Much about this is subjective though. I think most people would feel better moving for someone else than they would in having the perfect seat at the theatre; so to them it would feel "wrong" not to move. But if the seats were really magical and you liked them, then I think what you did is perfectly fine. | ||
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AnachronisticAnarchy
United States2957 Posts
Next time, move over. Being early doesn't entitle you to good seats, it entitles you to a good seat. As in, the one you actually planted your ass on. | ||
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run.at.me
Australia550 Posts
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Tobberoth
Sweden6375 Posts
Read that sentence a few times and think about the situation. If you come to the conclusion that it was worth it, ask yourself why you go to a cinema which is so ridiculously badly designed that moving one seat makes any form of difference what so ever. | ||
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7mk
Germany10157 Posts
If 30 minutes in you're thinking to yourself 'man I really would have preferred to sit 50 cm to the right' then it sucks and you shouldn't even torrent it | ||
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felisconcolori
United States6168 Posts
Remember this if you ever find yourself asking someone to move so you can sit down - you've already indicated that courtesy is not required. | ||
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Kotreb
Croatia1392 Posts
edit: radscorpion9 worded it best. | ||
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SnipedSoul
Canada2158 Posts
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Corrupt61587
United States366 Posts
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LaNague
Germany9118 Posts
Its not like they could not find a seat, they just wanted better seats. Well, i would probbaly have SHHHHHHHHD her. | ||
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DanLee
Canada316 Posts
On July 11 2013 05:25 Manifesto7 wrote: You were a jerk for notmoving over and leading by example. Your friend was a jerk for being abrupt with a woman who wants to find a seat in a tiny theatre. The woman was a jerk for talking about the problem after sitting down, and giving you the deathglare afterwards. All in all, stress was injected into a situation where you should have been having a good time, so much so that it probably took away from the movie a little bit, and caused you to dwell on it long enough that you wrote a blog. Take that stress out of your life man, it isn't worth it. Moral of the story? Lie and tell her you have another friend coming who is running late. He planned his DAY around finding those seats, his DAY manifesto. Are you really about to tell the man he is a jerk for not moving? His DAY... | ||
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Epishade
United States2267 Posts
I personally still would have moved though, because it's still just one seat over. | ||
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-Kaiser-
Canada932 Posts
On July 11 2013 04:48 SwizzY wrote: So it was a small theatre with an odd seating arrangement: 30 or so seats in the front space, then 3 rows of 5: Screen ~30seats Railing StairsOOXXXWall Ramp to front <---- She ended up sitting here (O's) Stairs_XXX_Wall Ramp to front <---- We were here StairsXXXXXWall Ramp to front Can't implement spacing so this is the best I can do, and then pretend the middle seat of the upper seating was perfectly in line with the screen and its borders. It was fucking magical seriously. You guys are assholes. | ||
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zergnewb
United States816 Posts
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Manifesto7
Osaka27177 Posts
On July 11 2013 10:43 DanLee wrote: He planned his DAY around finding those seats, his DAY manifesto. Are you really about to tell the man he is a jerk for not moving? His DAY... Dude needs to find more shit to do haha. | ||
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brian
United States9643 Posts
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decafchicken
United States20168 Posts
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