[Cute girl blog] Help. - Page 2

Scarecrow

Korea (South)9174 Posts

February 13 2013 15:23 GMT

#21

Keep in touch through email and skype (without it long distance relationships are impossible). Flowers sound like a good move. Girls don't just hang out, date, talk a lot and have sex with someone they're not really in to. I'm betting she's missing you just as much and secretly contemplating ways to come visit Thailand. I get that you're surrounded by beautiful asian girls but the chance of one coming close to all those criteria and having good English... go with the sure thing.

r.Evo

Germany14081 Posts

February 13 2013 16:03 GMT

#22

On February 13 2013 22:22 Kaeru wrote:

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I've been on a few dates with her, we talked a lot, watched movies together and yes I had sex with her. The thing is that the day after we had sex I moved to Bangkok, Thailand and she still lives in Stockholm, Sweden.

Waitwaitwait.

To me it sounded as if it's ~2months till you see each other again, right? Will that be for a longer period of time or just one visiting the other?

Kaeru

Sweden552 Posts

February 13 2013 16:15 GMT

#23

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isleyofthenorth

Austria894 Posts

February 13 2013 17:12 GMT

#24

1 or 2 years age difference is NOTHING (except you are 15 yo maybe)

r.Evo

Germany14081 Posts

February 13 2013 17:54 GMT

#25

Ughs. I'd say that's a much bigger issue than the age difference. Shitty spot. =/

Muff2n

United Kingdom252 Posts

February 13 2013 20:40 GMT

#26

I dated a girl that was older than me (though the gap was >1 year) and felt the same as you. This anxiety increased the longer I dated her and eventually led me to break up with her.

Still I don't regret it because we both enjoyed the time.

But I think you would be better served straight up asking for a fling rather than a serious relationship. Then it is her call if she wants to 'waste' time on you rather than looking for marriage and you can relax in that knowledge if she says yes. If she says no, well at least you have closure!

docvoc

United States5491 Posts

February 13 2013 21:02 GMT

#27

the only issue here is that you guys still have a lot of distance between each other. Long distance if you haven't been together for a long time is usually a bad idea. If you can close the gap and go to where she is, it is a great idea. She is a pretty girl who obviously thinks the same of you and you guys have some similarities

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EDIT: read some above comments that I missed, if you are going back and forth, it still isn't necessarily what you want, but if both of you are ok with it, then I wouldn't worry too much.

I_Love_Katheryn

United States41 Posts

February 13 2013 21:44 GMT

#28

Like other people have said age does not necessarily have to be an issue unless one of you make it an issue. I would say personality and interests are more important.

Baum

Germany1010 Posts

February 13 2013 23:30 GMT

#29

Sorry to say but you sound like a person who has no style at all: Armani tie, drinking champagne at a club and buying a "I'm sorry" card. You say you care about fashion but I feel like all you do is to care about fitting in.

Shady Sands

United States4021 Posts

February 14 2013 00:37 GMT

#30

On February 13 2013 17:00 krndandaman wrote:
she's 29? thought she was 22-25 at most.

She's asian

Pucca

Taiwan1280 Posts

February 14 2013 03:36 GMT

#31

The specific age rule for dating it divide your age in half and add seven. Meaning you can only date women as young as 21. Your fine. Who cares if she is ONE YEAR older than you? Is this elementary school where one years separates you entirely? GL