EPT[Girl Blog] Got her number! - Page 3
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Scaramanga
Australia8091 Posts
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saltywaffles
United States91 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + But in all seriousness, you're a creeper, don't ever talk to women like that again, or even talk to this woman again. She denied you, and now thinks you're a creeper! | ||
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Suc
Australia1569 Posts
On September 29 2012 23:58 OneOther wrote: Most definitely troll. Anybody above middle school wouldn't do this shit. You say that.... but I think it's feasible. Not everyone insta-gets awesome/mediocre social skills. | ||
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Antimage
Canada1293 Posts
don't ever sound desperate even if you want to get some action or want to make things possible with a girl b/c doing so will not get you anywhere. think to yourself - if i say this would it make it awkward? | ||
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StateofReverie
United States633 Posts
Ok there seems to be two main trains of thought here, that I am a creeper for what I sent and that I am not a nice guy. I guess nice guy is a relative term and in this case, I was being the nice guy. I AM a nicer guy than my friend, I've known him long enough that all he does is pick girls up and try to bang them and if that doesn't work, move onto the next one. Also since we were just all sitting at a table together, I think it might have been a bit awkward to ask my friend for his permission when she was sitting RIGHT next to him. I also couldn't really talk to her more than I would have liked to because once again, my friend was there and I didn't want to cock-block him but after I gave him time and realized that he's not going anywhere with her, I gave myself permission to go. When I talked to him about it, he was fine with it coz he realized that he wasn't going to go anywhere with her either. Also for being a creeper.....is it creepy that I like to meet new people? I just love how on TL something that is different is considered as creepy and weird and socially awkward, etc...The first perspective was how this all came off as a failure and that I should move on and not waste any time because I pretty much fucked this up. Before I got her number, I DID make it clear that I wanted to chill with her later. She was going to a dance with a friend at the time being. Instead of calling or trying to figure out where she was, I figured I would just save myself the trouble and just text her quickly. I am NOT much of a texter I have to admit. O I just realized, this is sorta the first "text conversation I've had with a female" in college. All my other text convos are with guys hah I will just leave you with this mind breaking question - If I was being creepy, than why did she keep responding to texts? Like why respond to my texts if she was already back in her own bed already? I also KNEW that her room mate was going to sleep early (at 11). I texted around 12 and she was still out enjoying the friday night so I re-texted an hour and a half later to see what her plans were again. I certainly don't take any offense that she refused me either, I just wanted to get her response and since she RESPONDED AT ALL and responded pretty positively as well.....BUT I DONT text people that often in general (why text when you can talk face to face) so I don't really have that much 'experience' in the field persay On September 30 2012 00:53 Antimage wrote: well you live and you learn. this is why i like reading girl blogs, takes me back to my awkward days lol. don't ever sound desperate even if you want to get some action or want to make things possible with a girl b/c doing so will not get you anywhere. think to yourself - if i say this would it make it awkward? whole point was to poke around in an awkward area! If I try not to make things awkward, doesn't that put her on some sort of a pedastool? Also just because I failed once doesn't mean I'm friendzoned. Does it make you desperate if you are direct with what you want? | ||
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Dfgj
Singapore5922 Posts
On September 30 2012 00:55 StateofReverie wrote: I guess nice guy is a relative term and in this case, I was being the nice guy. I AM a nicer guy than my friend, I've known him long enough that all he does is pick girls up and try to bang them and if that doesn't work, move onto the next one. As opposed to trying to getting a girl high and bang her? | ||
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StateofReverie
United States633 Posts
On September 30 2012 01:01 Dfgj wrote: As opposed to trying to getting a girl high and bang her? She was smoking with us initially and that WAS my friends plan before I intervened. When I asked her she did say she liked to smoke too | ||
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meteorskunk
Canada546 Posts
Just think if some guy wants to come cuddle in your bed.. that's how it would be i guess if she had no particular attraction to you.. | ||
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Dfgj
Singapore5922 Posts
On September 30 2012 01:07 StateofReverie wrote: She was smoking with us initially and that WAS my friends plan before I intervened. When I asked her she did say she liked to smoke too And you slid directly from that to inviting her to your bed. You're not 'nicer', your friend is just less subtle. And that's not a bad thing, just get better at it. | ||
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StateofReverie
United States633 Posts
On September 30 2012 01:14 Dfgj wrote: And you slid directly from that to inviting her to your bed. You're not 'nicer', your friend is just less subtle. And that's not a bad thing, just get better at it. I just don't believe in wasting time poking around the bush so I am rather direct in stuff I say | ||
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Ikidomari
Australia485 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://i.imgur.com/0DtHc.png) Sorry, I know there's a "No spouting meme's" rule to TL. I just thought this was appropriate for the moment. Edit: QuanticHawk's post was as good as I had hoped <3 | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32083 Posts
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meteorskunk
Canada546 Posts
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StateofReverie
United States633 Posts
On September 30 2012 01:19 Ikidomari wrote: GUYS, I THINK I FOUND OUT WHO STATEOFREVERIE IS! + Show Spoiler + Sorry, I know there's a "No spouting meme's" rule to TL. I just thought this was appropriate for the moment. Edit: QuanticHawk's post was as good as I had hoped <3 QuanticHawks did not disappoint lol Im asian. that picture is of a white college guy. Check your sources again On September 30 2012 01:24 meteorskunk wrote: Ya you totally poke around the bush! you could have just asked her for a hangout instead of trying to see how she responds to your texts abt pillows lol thats what "chilling" is | ||
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targ
Malaysia445 Posts
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Chocolate
United States2350 Posts
I don't think having sex is that important of a goal in my life. I am a very intelligent person and I just can't stand people who do not stir me on an intellectual level. I have only found one person like that, but she has a boyfriend that she wants to get married to. I don't really care because I was just so amazed at her level of maturity and being a freshman such as myself I was just happy enough to have met someone like her. Hmmm something doesn't add up here. I'm guessing you originally wrote that because you realized that you couldn't get a girl, so telling yourself that you don't care would make you feel better. If you honestly are a nice guy you should treat women like a little more than body parts, or at the very least, pretend to. It's not like it's hard. | ||
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Ikidomari
Australia485 Posts
On September 30 2012 01:31 StateofReverie wrote: QuanticHawks did not disappoint lol Im asian. that picture is of a white college guy. Check your sources again thats what "chilling" is WAIT So you're an Asian, who goes to a Jewish school, smokes weed, and seems to be a bit of a creeper. I did not see that coming at all. I just assumed you were a white kid who got lucky and was born into a rich family my sincerest apologies sir. | ||
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Jerubaal
United States7684 Posts
On September 30 2012 01:49 Ikidomari wrote: WAIT So you're an Asian, who goes to a Jewish school, smokes weed, and seems to be a bit of a creeper. I did not see that coming at all. I just assumed you were a white kid who got lucky and was born into a rich family my sincerest apologies sir. He's Asian? I was totally picturing a Jew-fro. | ||
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Dfgj
Singapore5922 Posts
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ruiyang
252 Posts
 . Look it at the bright side, u keep everyone entertained! And.. if u manage to prove ppl otherwise or ur just trolling everyone its a good thing too :D Keep it up bro! | ||
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