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Slouschs
grosochu
slcijheoichrossss
Eating
Slowly eating away
after 40 years of smoking he can barely breathe
His wife sleeps in another room because his snoring, we can barely sleep - she has even joked about divorce
I could always take it... til last week
Last week he moved into another phase, when he chewed, - even with his mouth closed - all I could hear was
Slouschs
grosochu
slcijheoichrossss
Like some disgusting kid who eats with his mouth open, unbeknownst how he is ruining the entire day for the one around him. Time to time he looks into your face, asking ''what?'' in an arrogantic manner, blunderously considering the frothing off food coming out of his mouth.
These disgusting sounds are so vile and eary, that I can no longer dine with my family. All I can think of are those disgusting sounds, as he swallows, gurgle the food in his mouth, eat on his nails... burps....
I have to move
I have to move
I have to move
I have to move
 
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You cost him tens of thousands of dollars to raise, he's allowed to make loud annoying noises. Talk to him, or actually move.
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Sounds like Zerg noises. You should be used to that sort of thing, considering we're Hydras.
Jokes aside, you're being really picky. Sure he acts like a stereotypical teenager, but some people just never learn. You're going to have to deal with that fact, because no matter where you go, there will always be someone like that.
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Talk to him about it. If that fails, then move.
Not sure what you want us to say. The choices you have are pretty obvious.
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Oh if you have trouble sleeping, just buy earplug and/or sleep with a fan blowing in your room, away from you or on the ground.
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Doesn't really matter what the reason is.
Should move out of the house as soon as you can, is the healthiest thing any person can do. You think university changes you? Try living on your own or with roommates.
In this case it is even better. Staying at home is only going to drive up the annoyance to the point where you might say something you will end up regretting.
Do the best thing for everyone. Live on your own.
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i get enraged by some noises people make when eating, the simple solution is to eat some place else.
I do it at my desk with my PC, which is good because i can watch something while eating, which makes me eat slower.
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On September 21 2012 03:32 Djzapz wrote:
You cost him tens of thousands of dollars to raise, he's allowed to make loud annoying noises. Talk to him, or actually move.
The sound will cost tens of thousand of dollars in therapy sessions
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On September 21 2012 04:30 Facultyadjutant wrote:Show nested quote +On September 21 2012 03:32 Djzapz wrote:
You cost him tens of thousands of dollars to raise, he's allowed to make loud annoying noises. Talk to him, or actually move. The sound will cost tens of thousand of dollars in therapy sessions
So now that we've removed the option of fixing the problem, you have two choices remaining. You can stay, or leave.
Which'll it be?
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On September 21 2012 03:32 Djzapz wrote:
You cost him tens of thousands of dollars to raise, he's allowed to make loud annoying noises. Talk to him, or actually move.
The whole "tens of thousands of dollars" thing is actually really insulting. It really de-values people. Besides, we don't know whether he is a good or bad parent, atm. The Jabba act he has going could be one of the lesser issues.
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On September 21 2012 04:32 Archas wrote:Show nested quote +On September 21 2012 04:30 Facultyadjutant wrote:On September 21 2012 03:32 Djzapz wrote:
You cost him tens of thousands of dollars to raise, he's allowed to make loud annoying noises. Talk to him, or actually move. The sound will cost tens of thousand of dollars in therapy sessions So now that we've removed the option of fixing the problem, you have two choices remaining. You can stay, or leave. Which'll it be?
I don´t know
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On September 21 2012 04:35 Facultyadjutant wrote:Show nested quote +On September 21 2012 04:32 Archas wrote:On September 21 2012 04:30 Facultyadjutant wrote:On September 21 2012 03:32 Djzapz wrote:
You cost him tens of thousands of dollars to raise, he's allowed to make loud annoying noises. Talk to him, or actually move. The sound will cost tens of thousand of dollars in therapy sessions So now that we've removed the option of fixing the problem, you have two choices remaining. You can stay, or leave. Which'll it be? I don´t know
I think you do reading the last 4 sentences of your blog.
Either do it or find some other solution to your problem. No offense but this seems like pretty much a first world problem compared to what horrible things can happen in a household.
Also you seem obsessed, clear your mind. Focus on school/sc2 or w/e you do. Go outside more.
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On September 21 2012 03:42 Kaeru wrote:
Tell him how disgusting he is in clear words - with a firm and confident look. Tell him how fucking sad he is and how disgusted you are to be his child. Tell him that when his wife leaves him he'll never find a girl again because of how he is. Bring a mirror to the conversation, make him look himself in the eyes.
Give him a fucking bitch slap and then wait for him to hit back, let him hit you until he stops. Get your shoes and leave for a few days. Come back and see what he has to say...
If he's the same, move.
Congratulations, I hate you.
OP, this is awful advice.
EDIT: Oh, I get it, it's sarcasm. Or trolling, or whatever we're calling this nowadays. Sorry, I missed it, haha.
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On September 21 2012 03:42 Kaeru wrote:
Tell him how disgusting he is in clear words - with a firm and confident look. Tell him how fucking sad he is and how disgusted you are to be his child. Tell him that when his wife leaves him he'll never find a girl again because of how he is. Bring a mirror to the conversation, make him look himself in the eyes.
Give him a fucking bitch slap and then wait for him to hit back, let him hit you until he stops. Get your shoes and leave for a few days. Come back and see what he has to say...
If he's the same, move.
Lol, please ignore this EVERYONE. This is awful advice.
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On September 21 2012 03:32 Djzapz wrote:
You cost him tens of thousands of dollars to raise, he's allowed to make loud annoying noises. Talk to him, or actually move.
I'd think more along the lines of hundreds of thousands of dollars
EDIT: If the sound is going to cost you tens of thousands of therapy sessions, moving out's gonna cost you hundreds of thousands of dollars in the long run too
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On September 21 2012 08:43 Kaeru wrote:
Hey! MinusPlus, don't make my advice into a troll post. I was serious...
Now the OP didn't tell anything about for how long this has been going and if he talked about it before, maybe he is ignored? Maybe that dad of his isn't taking him seriously. Why is that awful advice? He'll see a reaction for sure! If his father loves him then he'll change and say sorry - after getting mad about it. If he's some shit guy then he'll throw him out of the house, great. Contratz, you have successfully moved out of the house.
My next advice would be to hate him forever and become the best person you could ever be! Earn millions, buy his house and throw him out on the street. When he dies, buy the land he's buried on and move his coffin to the most disgusting place you can think of. Ahhh, the power of hatred makes you strong <3.
Then you give terrible advice.
OP, if you do decide to take this guy's advice, don't be surprised when your dad decks you because some guy on the internet said you could just put your hands on him.
Your problems are not as bad as they seem. They just aren't. You think they are, because they're your problems, but they really aren't. You'll get over it. Every rational response -- especially the first one, -- said it best: deal with it, or move out. Address the problem like an adult, or move out like an adult. Trying to take advantage of the fact that you're his child (or not?) to excuse doing childish shit like "Give him a fucking bitch slap and then wait for him to hit back" will open up a whole new world of grown-up actual problems.
In the meantime, appreciate having a place to live. Like Bojas said, try not to obsess over this so much. If you can, move out. If you can't, keep from stepping on any toes until you can. Don't burn bridges; you will be surprised by how much your relationship with your parents improves when you stop being around them all the time. I get the impression that you aren't exactly doing much for them by gracing them with your presence, either. I'm not saying "the feeling is mutual" just because you feel this way. But I am saying, you really need to consider this man as another person who may or may not being providing you with significant financial support, not just someone you can beat up to get your way.
If you aren't already -- I'll assume you aren't, hopefully to no offense, -- when you get old enough to start seeing people your age becoming parents, it will definitely "click" and you'll have that realization that oh my god everyone used to feel like this before they got old and they probably still do but I don't feel old yet.
I apologize if the post comes off as condescending; I'm in no position to talk down to you, myself, and instead I'm just passing on things I've had to learn myself. I've toned it down quite a bit since starting to reply, if that helps at all. Of course, you've given very limited information to the TLnet internet counseling team, so I haven't exactly got the whole situation well-understood -- until you share a bit more, I'm sticking with "deal with it" as my official advice.
Anyway, best of luck.
(Pro-tip: If you're getting tired of him "What?"-ing you, stop staring at him so much.)
EDIT: Reworded response to Kaeru so as to be less abrasive.
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