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Shock710
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
Australia6097 Posts
Last Edited: 2018-03-26 00:27:18
August 10 2012 07:47 GMT
#1


****
dAPhREAk gives Shock a * | [23:55] <Shock710> that was out of context -_- [16:26] <@motbob> Good question, Shock!
deathgod6
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
United States5064 Posts
August 10 2012 08:07 GMT
#2
You did all this research/stalking and you haven't even talked to her? Introduce yourself and find some common ground, at least get her name and her number if you guys have a good conversation haha.
4.0 GPA = A rank 5.0 GPA = Olympic --------- Bisu, Best, Fantasy. i ♥ oov. They can get in my BoxeR anyday.
MaV_gGSC
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
Canada1345 Posts
August 10 2012 08:10 GMT
#3
all that research.. damn. Just talk to her o_O
Life's good :D
Perguvious
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States1783 Posts
August 10 2012 08:24 GMT
#4
you scouted her base and build yet you still go 14cc, cancel that shit and proxy two rax into bunker rush! You should initiate some conversation.
ImbaTosS
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United Kingdom1685 Posts
August 10 2012 08:26 GMT
#5
On August 10 2012 17:10 MaV_gGSC wrote:
all that research.. damn. Just talk to her o_O

Yeah, wow, my god! It's really not one millionth as tricky as you're making it look :p and this from a guy who had difficulty talking to anybody for some time! Just *ahem* man up.
EleGant[AoV]
Ghin
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
United States2391 Posts
August 10 2012 08:33 GMT
#6
Instead of stalking her with an elaborate bus schedule scheme, talk to her ask her to go some place with you.
Legalize drugs and murder.
Shock710
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
Australia6097 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-08-10 09:16:02
August 10 2012 08:39 GMT
#7
lol, you're all right, i should go talk to her though "Ghin" do u really think i should ask her to "go" some where with me? isnt that a bit sketchy, maybe i should just start with some friendly talk? and ask her out a week later or near a Friday and ask for the weekend
I'll be able to report back after monday lol
dAPhREAk gives Shock a * | [23:55] <Shock710> that was out of context -_- [16:26] <@motbob> Good question, Shock!
heha
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
Australia425 Posts
August 10 2012 09:17 GMT
#8
Haha, just go up to talk to her, make some small talk or something. I know it's unnerving, and you'll have butterflies in your stomach, but if you have chemistry it'll be pretty hard to stuff up ^^v.
Random for life! phoneheha
Azera
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
3800 Posts
August 10 2012 09:18 GMT
#9
Sexy blog Really love the girl blog. LOL
Check out some great music made by TLers - http://bit.ly/QXYhdb , by intrigue. http://bit.ly/RTjpOR , by ohsea.toc.
mizU
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States12125 Posts
August 10 2012 09:20 GMT
#10
lmao the longer you take to say something the more awkward it's going to be when you do
if happy ever afters did exist <3 @watamizu_
Shock710
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
Australia6097 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-08-10 09:25:30
August 10 2012 09:24 GMT
#11
Also a few questions which guys can give ur opinions to
1) Does she like me?
2) Why is she angry
u can be as fabulous and flamboyant with ur answers
dAPhREAk gives Shock a * | [23:55] <Shock710> that was out of context -_- [16:26] <@motbob> Good question, Shock!
Ghin
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
United States2391 Posts
August 10 2012 09:28 GMT
#12
Talk to her about whatever, the weather, where she's going, where she goes to school, other small talk bullshit, etc. You're on a bus so theres an obvious theme of you not being able to talk to her all day, so that means if it goes well, ask her if later she would like to get coffee, eat, play a game, go for a walk, or do something you find interesting, etc. Everyone has to eat so that usually ends up being a good choice. Don't think of it like a date, you're just asking her to go someplace with you to talk and have fun.

You won't be able to plan everything out all the time. The first step is to say hi. The longer you wait, the more she'll think of you as the weird guy who stares at her instead of someone she might like to know.
Legalize drugs and murder.
Masq
Profile Blog Joined March 2009
Canada1792 Posts
August 10 2012 09:42 GMT
#13
what the fuck dude, quit the stalker shit and just say something like "hi, i see you a lot, what school do you goto?"

problem solved
zalz
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
Netherlands3704 Posts
August 10 2012 10:07 GMT
#14
Don't bother talking to her.

She gave you smiles, she gave you glances, she did everything short of waving the landing sign.

You didn't approach her, giving her a non-verbal fuck you, regardless of how many glances you threw back.


She realized you were never going to talk to her, so she moved on. Don't talk to her, you will only look like an idiot if you try anything at this point.

Either you go for it, or you don't. The longer you wait, the weirder things get. Notably, the establishment of an elaborate bus schedule that is only appropriate on the fridge of a serial killer.
Sporadic44
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
United States533 Posts
August 10 2012 10:11 GMT
#15
On August 10 2012 17:33 Ghin wrote:
Instead of stalking her with an elaborate bus schedule scheme, talk to her ask her to go some place with you.


Easy advice to give, harder to actually carry out. Especially for the shy-guys out there. This is however the truth. This blog actually felt kind of ridiculous while reading. The amount of thought you put into assessing QT's age for example. You've obviously spent more than a fleeting moment thinking about it. When really you could just find out how old she is through talking to her.

That said I also found this blog extremely enlightening to read. It's never been age for me but I realize now I've often spent a fair deal of time dwelling on specific(often times seemingly random) characteristics or impressions concerning girls that I would be dating, talking to, or crushing on. So much so that at times I get hung up on the details i'm staring at while remaining oblivious to the many other facets unique to each girl. When you're in a committed long term relationship this very same idea can ruin things unless sorted out and discussed between partners. Likewise, when you're crushing on a girl, a detail like age can deter you from taking a risk and talking to the girl. In both instances the idea and practice of communication is paramount.

You cite her age as a reason for not talking to her
So this continued till the first semester ended, we never said a word to each other in that time just smiles and glances. (cause I have no balls and also the age thing)


Following the logic above, you would more than likely find out QT's age before it was even relevant in your interactions with her. You can be friendly toward people of all ages without being thrown in jail, yet your categorizations of asian age stages says you've thought about this one detail for longer than you probably should.

--A lot of this is simply me brainstorming. As I mentioned this blog really made me consider my perception of girls i'm attracted to. On more than one occasion I spent too much time, or weighed too much worth on assumptions or guesstimations about girls. Because of that I lost several opportunities to get to know said girls better. A kind of self defeating course to take. Let me know if anything i've said rings true with you. Maybe I personalized your words too much. For me this blog has a message. Details are innumerable and certain aspects of a woman seem to swallow my attention and curiosity. It can be enticing to consider each detail and think through them like sorting through gold. But sometimes the big picture is what you need to be looking at, if you hope to establish deeper connections with a girl. Idk let me know what you think.

As for the looking out the window, aloof demeanor following your vacation; I see this as one of three possibilities. Of course all hypothetical
1. She's now seeing someone//no longer seeking companionship
2. She's in a rough point in her life(bad day, week, etc) and internally focused on that instead of her physical surroundings
3. She may recognize you, but never gave a rats ass about getting to know you//The special connection you feel for her may not be reciprocated.

This coincides with my original thought regarding communication. Simply assuming or guessing why she didn't look at you is ultimately a fruitless thought to pursue. Find your next window of opportunity to open up the lines of communication with this girl. Worst comes to worst you suffer through an awkward moment of embarassment or blatant rejection and come out a lot stronger because you took the chance. Who knows until you try right?

Grats on 2k posts. Thanks for sharing!
"Opportunities multiply as they are seized."
Cyber_Cheese
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Australia3615 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-08-10 10:48:16
August 10 2012 10:27 GMT
#16
it's possible she doesn't think you're interested anymore.
She specifically went out of her way to get off at your stop, it's been a long time, and you still didn't do anything, so...
HURRY OR YOU'LL MISS IT

Also, you may or may not need to be reminded that she's human. People enjoy being challenged, so worshipping them like gods is counter-productive.

Here's the plan:
1) See her alone on the bus/tram/w.e
2) Sit next to her - No more testing the waters, she's tried an all-in, you defended it, and if you don't counter-attack to win now, you're just wasting her time and your own. (and also giving yourself unnecessary chances to lose the game)
3) TALK - i suggest opening with 'hi, I'm X' (She should reply with her name here) 'I see you here a lot, what's your stop?' when she replies high school, that's an easy lead-in for asking what year,

If she's interested, the talk will go well.

If sitting down next to her isn't possible and she isnt looking happy, tell her she's looking down, and that you seeing her smile in the mornings helps you put on a positive mindset or something. It'll cheer her up, and maybe you can swap names. I wouldn't push this one much further than that in one go, you don't just want to dump everything on her in one go when you've spent months preparing.


At any rate, if you don't approach her, it's not going to happen. You do want it to happen, right?
The moment you lose confidence in yourself, is the moment the world loses it's confidence in you.
krndandaman
Profile Joined August 2009
Mozambique16569 Posts
August 10 2012 10:56 GMT
#17
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MyLastSerenade
Profile Joined February 2010
Germany710 Posts
August 10 2012 11:49 GMT
#18
quite funny stalker story :D
if u really talk to her, let us know how it went!
Yanami
Profile Joined July 2011
Germany49 Posts
August 10 2012 12:05 GMT
#19
That was probably the cutes girl blog I've ever read. I melted. I hope it will word out for you somehow!
ArcticMuse
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
Australia93 Posts
August 10 2012 12:23 GMT
#20
Stop scouting her build and expo already (start a conversation). Also do you go to a Uni in Sydney? If so what one, might be going to the same one o.O
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