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Shock710
Australia6097 Posts
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BrTarolg
United Kingdom3574 Posts
I mean, yeah you have to be polite but you can't pussyfoot forever | ||
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Deleted User 101379
4849 Posts
On August 06 2012 17:21 zatic wrote: So you are German? He is never going to make the first move then. Your turn. Listen to Zatic, he knows everything about how german date. Also, a little fun fact: Men are stupid, if you don't directly tell them what you want, they'll never understand it. Giving us hints doesn't work, it's too complicated for our brains. | ||
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Daeny
18 Posts
And surprise sex is a very very bad idea. I'm not overweight or something like this. I think I look like an average teenage girl but I'm too shy to flirt with him. He knows that I like him but he's just ignoring this fact. I'm not sure if he's totally stupid or he's just not attracted to me and that's the reason why he's ignoring this. | ||
zatic
Zurich15366 Posts
I am sorry you'll just have to grow some ovaries and start flirting / escalating the relationship. It's not going to solve itself, and again, men are generally stupid so don't hope he'll eventually get it. | ||
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Arcanefrost
Belgium1257 Posts
On August 06 2012 23:16 Daeny wrote: I'm not sure if he's totally stupid or he's just not attracted to me and that's the reason why he's ignoring this. Totally stupid. | ||
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triangle
United States3803 Posts
On August 06 2012 23:16 Daeny wrote: Totally stupid. I was in this exact same situation and did not figure out this girl very very obviously liked me until years later.He knows that I like him but he's just ignoring this fact. I'm not sure if he's totally stupid On August 06 2012 23:16 Daeny wrote: You should be extremely clear and explicit that you are interested in him. Flirting and feeling awkward is a lot better than dropping vague pseudo-hints that he will not pick up on and you miserably questioning why this guy doesn't like you.I'm too shy to flirt with him. | ||
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Intr3pid
Switzerland336 Posts
On August 06 2012 23:16 Daeny wrote: I'm not sure if he's totally stupid or he's just not attracted to me and that's the reason why he's ignoring this. You know, you can have an incredible advantage over other women if you just realize this at an age of 17: We men are incredibly stupid at picking up subtle female signals. Just tell us what you want and how you feel. If you are reasonably well looking, you will get what you want at least 9 out of 10 times. I am pretty sure he has no idea that you like him, unless you openly told him so. | ||
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Nymphaceae
United States350 Posts
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Arcanefrost
Belgium1257 Posts
On August 07 2012 02:48 Nymphaceae wrote: I find it best for the guy to just ask you out. If he's too stupid to do that, then he's not worth your time. That's ridiculous, if you want someone you have to put in some effort. The guy from the op is obviously very shy, it seems unlikely that he will gather enough courage to ask her out. That doesn't mean he isn't "worth her time", in fact they would probably be great together. | ||
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Release
United States4397 Posts
"Grow a pair." | ||
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Salv
Canada3083 Posts
On August 06 2012 23:16 Daeny wrote: Sorry guys. I'm 17 years old not 12. And surprise sex is a very very bad idea. I'm not overweight or something like this. I think I look like an average teenage girl but I'm too shy to flirt with him. He knows that I like him but he's just ignoring this fact. I'm not sure if he's totally stupid or he's just not attracted to me and that's the reason why he's ignoring this. You: 'This guy is so dumb, it's so clear that I like him and he won't do anything to make it work! He's totally stupid!' Everyone Else: 'Why don't you make a move, that would probably work, you're likely not being explicit enough - men like women that are straight-forward.' You: 'I don't want to do anything to make this work.' This is basically what's happening. He's totally stupid because he's not making a move, yet you're making excuses for why you can't do the same thing. Men like women who can be straight-forward, so either (wo)man-up and do something about it or don't get upset about it. You can't expect someone else to do something you refuse to do yourself. | ||
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Elegance
Canada917 Posts
On August 07 2012 02:48 Nymphaceae wrote: I find it best for the guy to just ask you out. If he's too stupid to do that, then he's not worth your time. Likewise, if a girl doesn't put in the effort to show interest or make it remotely interesting for me, then it ain't happening | ||
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zatic
Zurich15366 Posts
On August 07 2012 04:17 Elegance wrote: Likewise, if a girl doesn't put in the effort to show interest or make it remotely interesting for me, then it ain't happening And here we can observe why Germany's population shrinks by like 600k each year. | ||
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blade55555
United States17423 Posts
On August 06 2012 23:16 Daeny wrote: Sorry guys. I'm 17 years old not 12. And surprise sex is a very very bad idea. I'm not overweight or something like this. I think I look like an average teenage girl but I'm too shy to flirt with him. He knows that I like him but he's just ignoring this fact. I'm not sure if he's totally stupid or he's just not attracted to me and that's the reason why he's ignoring this. Just an fyi there's a good chance he doesn't know you like him. Believe it or not but we guys are pretty stupid when it comes to girls, especially if you are a shyish type guy who is probably not going to ask you out unless you give him pretty much the "I like you" straight up. | ||
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Probe1
United States17920 Posts
Girls suck every bit as much as guys at not realizing their hints are falling on deaf. Go tell him you want to date and fuck him that night. It's not rocket science. | ||
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EtherealDeath
United States8366 Posts
On August 06 2012 17:21 zatic wrote: So you are German? He is never going to make the first move then. Your turn. straightforward and quick xD | ||
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Shock710
Australia6097 Posts
On August 06 2012 23:16 Daeny wrote: Sorry guys. I'm 17 years old not 12. And surprise sex is a very very bad idea. I'm not overweight or something like this. I think I look like an average teenage girl but I'm too shy to flirt with him. He knows that I like him but he's just ignoring this fact. I'm not sure if he's totally stupid or he's just not attracted to me and that's the reason why he's ignoring this. tell him and report back, goodluck | ||
Chexx
Korea (South)11232 Posts
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aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
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